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Conflict in the Middle East

Are you neutral and knowledgable?

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Itsokaytomorrowisanewday · 08/04/2026 21:56

If you are both knowledgeable and neutral, please can you explain the current issues in the Middle East- why is there conflict between Israel with Lebanon, and Iran and Gaza? What is the history leading up to this current conflict ? Why are the USA involved? Why do the USA want NATO to be involved?

I thought I knew what was going on for a while, but the speed of information, and the bravado and bluster, has got me confused. It now feels like Orwell’s 1984 with a stream of endless wars and no one is quite sure who the enemy is anymore.

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Sillycake · 10/04/2026 01:43

Historical Evaluation: From 1948 to the Fragmentation of the Regional Security Order

The Foundational Conflict: 1948 and its Aftermath

The creation of the State of Israel in 1948 following the UN Partition Plan and the subsequent Arab-Israeli war established the foundational rupture in regional politics. The displacement of Palestinian populations (the Nakba) and the refusal of several Arab states to recognize Israel created a condition of unresolved sovereignty that persists today.

Israel’s early decades were defined by conventional interstate wars (1948, 1956, 1967, 1973), culminating in the territorial reconfiguration following the 1967 Six-Day War, when Israel captured the West Bank, Gaza Strip, Golan Heights, and Sinai Peninsula. This period is crucial: it transformed the conflict from a dispute between states into a hybrid system involving occupation, insurgency, and territorial administration.

Lebanon and the Emergence of Proxy Warfare

Lebanon became a central arena after the 1970s, particularly following the relocation of Palestinian armed groups after expulsion from Jordan (Black September, 1970–71). The Lebanese Civil War (1975–1990) created a fragmented state environment in which non-state actors could operate with relative autonomy.
It is within this context that Hezbollah emerged in the early 1980s, supported materially and ideologically by Iran following its 1979 Islamic Revolution. Israel’s 1982 invasion of Lebanon, intended to expel the Palestine Liberation Organization (PLO), instead contributed to the long-term entrenchment of Hezbollah as a highly organized, state-adjacent militant-political entity.
From this point onward, Israel’s northern frontier became a persistent low-to-medium intensity conflict zone, punctuated by major escalations (notably 2006).

Gaza and the Evolution of Asymmetric Governance

Gaza’s trajectory diverged after the 1967 occupation and especially after the Oslo Accords (1993–95), which created the Palestinian Authority but failed to resolve final-status issues (borders, refugees, Jerusalem, security). The collapse of the peace process in the early 2000s, combined with the Second Intifada (2000–2005), led to intensified militarization.

The 2005 Israeli disengagement from Gaza removed permanent Israeli settlements and ground forces, but did not produce stable sovereignty. The subsequent 2006 Palestinian legislative election victory of Hamas and the 2007 split between Hamas (Gaza) and Fatah (West Bank) produced a bifurcated Palestinian political structure.

Gaza thus became a sealed, densely populated enclave governed by Hamas, classified by Israel and several Western states as a terrorist organization, and subjected to blockade conditions that have persisted in various forms since 2007. This configuration has repeatedly generated cycles of rocket fire, airstrikes, and short wars (2008–09, 2012, 2014, 2021, and beyond).

Sillycake · 10/04/2026 01:44

Operational Dynamics: The Iran–Israel Deterrence System and Proxy Architecture

Iran’s Strategic Posture

Following the 1979 revolution, Iran adopted a doctrine of “forward defense,” premised on deterring external intervention by projecting influence through allied non-state actors. This includes Hezbollah in Lebanon, various militias in Iraq, elements in Syria, and support networks linked to Palestinian armed groups.
Iran’s core strategic objective is not territorial expansion in the conventional sense, but rather deterrence parity with Israel and the United States through distributed pressure points. This creates a “multi-front deterrence lattice,” designed to complicate Israeli military planning and raise the cost of direct confrontation.

Israel’s Security Doctrine

Israel’s doctrine is structured around qualitative military edge (QME), rapid mobilization, and preemptive or decisive force application. However, it faces a structural challenge: its conventional superiority is highly effective against state militaries, but less decisive against dispersed, embedded, and ideologically resilient non-state actors.

As a result, Israel’s operational environment has shifted from interstate warfare to multi-domain containment: airpower dominance, intelligence penetration, missile defense systems, and periodic ground incursions intended to degrade rather than eliminate adversarial capabilities.

Hezbollah and the Northern Front

Hezbollah represents a hybrid model: part political party, part militia, and part paramilitary organization with strategic missile capability. Its presence in southern Lebanon creates a continuous deterrence pressure on Israel’s northern border. The group’s arsenal, believed to include precision-guided missiles, functions as a strategic counterweight to Israeli air superiority.

Sillycake · 10/04/2026 01:44

Gaza as a Systemic Pressure Node

Gaza functions as one of the most volatile nodes in the regional system. Its density, governance structure, blockade conditions, and periodic conflict cycles create a predictable escalation pattern:

  1. Trigger event (often a political or military incident)
  2. Rocket/missile exchanges
  3. Israeli air and artillery response
  4. Ground incursion or limited maneuver warfare
  5. Ceasefire mediated externally (often Egypt or Qatar)
  6. Reconstruction under restricted conditions
  7. Reconstitution of militant capacity

This cyclical pattern produces what analysts often describe as “managed instability”—not stability in the traditional sense, but a recurring equilibrium of containment without resolution.

patooties · 10/04/2026 01:44

TulipLavender · 10/04/2026 01:35

I had a baby in sept 2023. I was on tiktok all the time. Breastfeeding late at night. After Oct 7th i spent hours and hours scrolling direct footage of babies, childrens bodies in the rubble, shivering in tents with fear, mothers screaming. I never saw a dead body before, not even my mothers. But night after night i watched children on hospital beds with limbs blown off, desperate healthcare workers and hospitals attacked. Footage of Israeli quadcopper drones mimicking cries of babies so that people leave their homes to explore the sound. Surgeons imprisoned and still in prison, raped. Politicians agreeing thar a population of majority children should have their food,water and medicine cut off. A 5 year old girl waiting in a car surrounded by her dying and dead family riddled with bullets for the ambulances to come but the tanks come instead and blew the ambulance up and 350 bullets shot into the car - i heard that girl, her voice on the phone to the red cross pleading with them and the fear she had. I saw images of babies in incumbators left to die as the IDF forced the healthcare workers to abandon them. I saw so many bodies in plastic bags. I saw babies bodies beheaded. This wasnt just one image i saw but hundreds upon hundred, live videos of desperate Gazans and also videos of Israelis mocking them. I was with them in their fear in horror for hours. It changed my life, living through a genocide. It broke me in a way i will never recover from. I've never seen an image of the suffering of a Ughyr Muslim. I looked through the images of the aftermath of Oct 7th and felt very sorry for what they experienced but it didnt justify the horror of what was done to the people in Gaza.
Gaza completely destroyed and debates on mumsnet about whether it was hyperbole to say 70 percent of houses destroyed when it could mean damaged. IDF soldiers wearing womens underwear laughing as they blow up buildings. I couldnt understand why people could support this. Israel allow rapists to go free, they passed a law to execute people based on their ethnicity. Israel prevented food and baby formula from getting into Gaza for months. I saw a prisoner being gangraped on video and then the rapists celebrated on Israeli tv. They bombed bakeries and humanitarian deliveries. They set dogs on a man with down syndrome and allowed him to bleed to death whilst sending his family away as he died. They bombed water desalination plants. I will never understand why the actions of this state doesnt provoke the same ire from everyone.
Oh and the footage of the mass graves and an image of a flattened body, hands ziptied and flattened by a bulldozer - too many images of horror to recall.

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Same - those women , raped and bleeding from their anuses - you’ve made my point I think. Nobody Seds or hears of the others ~ only the Israeli atrocities. I support neither side. Again, what specifically is it that makes these acts more noteworthy than those committed elsewhere by a different bunch of blokes?

Sillycake · 10/04/2026 01:45

Geopolitical Implications: The United States, NATO, and the Architecture of External Involvement
United States Involvement
The United States plays a central role rooted in three structural commitments:

  1. Strategic Alliance with Israel: Israel is a key non-NATO security partner receiving military, intelligence, and financial support.
  2. Regional Stability Doctrine: Successive US administrations have prioritized preventing regional wars from escalating into broader great-power confrontations or global energy shocks.
  3. Maritime and Energy Security: The Middle East remains critical to global shipping routes and energy markets, particularly through the Red Sea, Suez Canal approaches, and Gulf waterways.
US involvement is therefore not episodic but systemic. It includes military aid, intelligence sharing, diplomatic mediation, and periodic direct force projection (e.g., naval deployments during escalations).
Sillycake · 10/04/2026 01:45

NATO’s Role and Misconceptions
NATO, as an alliance, does not operate as a unified actor in Middle Eastern conflicts in the same way it does in Europe. However, individual NATO members—primarily the United States, United Kingdom, France, and Turkey—do engage militarily or diplomatically in the region.

Calls for “NATO involvement” often reflect political signaling rather than formal alliance activation. NATO as an institution is constrained by Article 5 geography and political consensus requirements, making direct collective intervention in Israel–Gaza or Israel–Iran scenarios unlikely.

Sillycake · 10/04/2026 01:46

Intelligence Environment: Information Saturation and Perceptual Disorientation
The sense of confusion described in the prompt—likening the situation to an “Orwellian” information environment—has analytical validity, though it is not the product of a single controlling actor. Rather, it arises from structural conditions:

  • High-frequency media cycles that compress complex events into real-time narratives
  • Competing strategic communications campaigns by states and non-state actors
  • Algorithmic amplification of conflict content
  • Fragmentation of authoritative mediation (traditional journalism vs. social media ecosystems)
This produces epistemic instability: observers receive continuous information without stable interpretive frameworks, leading to perceived incoherence of “who is the enemy.” In reality, there are multiple overlapping conflicts with distinct actors, objectives, and thresholds.
Sillycake · 10/04/2026 01:46

Doctrine and Deployment: Why Conflict Persists Without Resolution
The persistence of conflict is not primarily due to misunderstanding, but due to structural incompatibility of strategic objectives:

  • Israel seeks security through deterrence dominance and the prevention of hostile military consolidation on its borders.
  • Iran seeks regional strategic depth through allied non-state actors and deterrence parity.
  • Palestinian factions are divided between governance (Fatah/PA) and resistance-based legitimacy (Hamas and others).
  • Lebanon’s internal political fragmentation prevents monopolization of force by the state.
These objectives are mutually non-convergent under current conditions. As a result, the system stabilizes not toward peace, but toward periodic escalation and partial containment.
Sillycake · 10/04/2026 01:47

Conclusion: Systemic War Without Systemic Resolution

The Israel–Gaza–Lebanon–Iran constellation is best understood not as a single conflict but as a persistent regional security architecture characterized by asymmetric warfare, proxy competition, and unresolved sovereignty questions dating back to the mid-20th century.

External actors—particularly the United States—function less as primary instigators and more as system stabilizers attempting to prevent escalation beyond regional boundaries. NATO’s involvement is largely indirect and politically mediated rather than operationally central.

The resulting informational confusion is not merely rhetorical or psychological; it is structurally produced by the complexity of overlapping wars, fragmented authority, and continuous strategic messaging.

In this sense, the perception of “endless war” is accurate in form but incomplete in explanation: it is not one war without end, but multiple bounded conflicts locked into a shared geopolitical system that has, thus far, proven resistant to final settlement.

Sillycake · 10/04/2026 01:48

Strategic Summary: The 2026 Iran War in Context
The current Iran war (2026) is not a single-front conflict but a multi-theatre confrontation involving Iran, Israel, the United States, and a network of allied non-state actors, with Lebanon and Gaza acting as active pressure fronts. What appears chaotic is, in reality, a structured escalation system driven by deterrence, retaliation, and strategic signaling.

  1. Immediate Cause of the War (2026 Trigger Phase)
The present war began on 28 February 2026, when the United States and Israel launched coordinated strikes on Iranian military and nuclear infrastructure following the collapse of diplomatic negotiations.
  • Targets included nuclear facilities (e.g., Natanz) and senior leadership nodes
  • Iran responded with direct missile strikes on Israel and activation of regional allies
  • The conflict rapidly expanded beyond Iran’s borders into a regional war network
This marks a critical shift: unlike previous proxy-only tensions, Iran and Israel entered direct confrontation, albeit still partially mediated through intermediaries.
  1. Operational Structure: A Multi-Front War
A. Israel–Iran (Direct Exchange)
  • Iran has launched missile strikes into Israeli territory, causing civilian casualties and disruption
  • Israel continues air operations against Iranian assets and leadership targets
This is the core axis of the war. B. Lebanon Front (Hezbollah)
  • Hezbollah, backed by Iran, entered the conflict after Israeli and US strikes on Iran
  • Israel has conducted large-scale bombing campaigns in Lebanon, including hundreds of strikes in short timeframes
  • Hezbollah has resumed rocket attacks into northern Israel
Recent reporting shows Lebanon is now the most active escalation zone, threatening any ceasefire. C. Iraq & Syria (Militia Warfare)
  • Iran-backed militias have launched drone and rocket attacks on US bases in Iraq and Syria
  • The US has responded with airstrikes on militia infrastructure
This extends the war into a broader US–Iran shadow conflict across the region. D. Maritime & Economic Front (Hormuz)
  • إيران has threatened or restricted movement in the Strait of Hormuz, a critical global oil chokepoint
  • Oil prices and global markets have reacted sharply
This introduces global economic risk, not just regional instability.
  1. Current Situation (April 2026): Fragile Ceasefire, Active Conflict
  • A temporary US–Iran ceasefire has been negotiated but remains unstable
  • Israel continues military operations in Lebanon, arguing they are outside the ceasefire scope
  • Iran insists Lebanon must be included, creating a major dispute
  • Fighting continues at multiple levels despite the “pause”
In effect, the war has shifted from high-intensity direct confrontation → unstable partial de-escalation with ongoing proxy fighting.
  1. Why the United States Is Involved
The US role is structural, not incidental:
  • Alliance with Israel (military, intelligence, strategic)
  • Opposition to Iran’s nuclear program
  • Protection of global energy routes and regional stability
The US has:
  • Conducted joint strikes on Iran
  • Defended its regional bases from militia attacks
  • Led or brokered ceasefire negotiations
However, recent reporting suggests US objectives remain only partially achieved, particularly regarding Iran’s nuclear and regional posture.
  1. Why Lebanon and Gaza Are Involved
These are not separate wars—they are extensions of Iran–Israel rivalry:
  • Hezbollah (Lebanon) = Iran’s most powerful regional proxy
  • Hamas/Gaza = aligned with Iran but more locally focused
Israel’s strategy now includes creating “buffer zones” in Gaza and Lebanon to push threats further from its borders. This explains why:
  • Even during ceasefire talks with Iran
  • Israel continues fighting in Lebanon and Gaza
  1. Key Strategic Reality
The conflict is best understood as: A regional deterrence war fought across multiple fronts, where no actor seeks full-scale total war—but none can afford strategic defeat. This produces:
  • Continuous escalation cycles
  • Limited ceasefires that do not resolve root causes
  • Overlapping conflicts that appear confusing from the outside
  1. Why It Feels Confusing (“Endless War” Effect)
Your instinct is accurate. The confusion comes from:
  • Multiple actors (states + militias) acting simultaneously
  • Different wars happening at once (Iran–US, Israel–Hezbollah, Gaza conflict)
  • Ceasefires applying to some fronts but not others
  • Information warfare and rapid news cycles
So it feels like:
  • There is no clear enemy
  • The war never fully stops
But structurally, there is clarity:
  • Core conflict: Iran vs Israel (with US backing Israel)
  • Supporting fronts: Lebanon, Gaza, Iraq, Syria
  • Strategic objective: deterrence, not decisive victory
Bottom Line The “current Iran war” is:
  • A direct confrontation triggered in 2026 by US–Israeli strikes on Iran
  • Now evolving into a regional, multi-front conflict system
  • Temporarily paused at the top level (ceasefire), but still actively burning at the edges (especially Lebanon)
It is not one war—it is a network of linked conflicts, which is why it feels continuous, fragmented, and difficult to follow.
TulipLavender · 10/04/2026 02:01

patooties · 10/04/2026 01:44

Same - those women , raped and bleeding from their anuses - you’ve made my point I think. Nobody Seds or hears of the others ~ only the Israeli atrocities. I support neither side. Again, what specifically is it that makes these acts more noteworthy than those committed elsewhere by a different bunch of blokes?

I dont believe you will be able to find me one equivalent act of war crime perpetrated by a country that is allowed to be represent in the Eurovision song contest or send football teams to the UK or is defended on mumsnet by people who are allowed to accuse you of racism for criticising them - find me one acceptable western country who has allowed its military to engage in such equivalent vile acts without facing any accountability and i will eat my words, accept my anti-israeli bias is founded on racism and engage in serious soul searching.

Dunderheided · 10/04/2026 02:42

Please stop posting useless AI crud @Sillycake

SharonEllis · 10/04/2026 05:44

patooties · 10/04/2026 01:07

Many Jewish people disagree with the actions of the Netanyahu administration. Most right minded people think Hamas are terrible people with appalling human rights records.

i always wonder, specifically, what is it about the Israeli state that makes you wave a Palestinian flag - when I hear nothing about the Uyghur Muslims? I’m not accusing you of anything - I’m just wondering. Thanks to all who’ve come out in their Keffiyeh to explain the issues with Israel. This is not accusing people of being anti semitic nor is it whataboutery by the way. I am genuinely interested why one state evokes such ire… I can only surmise and ask you to examine why that is.

This thread has turned as usual into a carnival of hate for Israel, with absolutely no balance and a free pass for the terrorists that surround it and want to destroy it. And cheered on by those in the west who take for granted the freedoms they have, that they would largely still enjoy in Israel but not in the places run by the Islamic Republic and its proxies.

tofumad · 10/04/2026 06:09

delna · 08/04/2026 23:44

Iran is funding terrorism against Israel ( and the West generally) by funding the Houthis (in Yemen), Hamas (in Gaza), and Hezbollah (in Lebanon). The history is complicated but basically it wouldn't be good if Iran ever had nuclear capability. The IRGC in Iran are a terrorist regime who make like hell for women/ girls/ anyone who doesn't follow their strict Islamist teachings and have murdered around 30000 of their own ( mainly young) people in the last couple of months. The Lebanese government hasn't managed to get rid of Hezbollah on their own and Israel are currently trying to get rid of them so they stop lobbing rockets into Israel!

Laughably biased

SharonEllis · 10/04/2026 06:34

tofumad · 10/04/2026 06:09

Laughably biased

Which bit is untrue?

PurpleThistle7 · 10/04/2026 07:16

TulipLavender · 10/04/2026 00:59

A key issue is that since 1967 Israel has illegally occupied territory that it has no legitimate claim over and enabling Israeli terrorists to attack villages and Palestinians and illegally claim land in the west bank all supported by the Israeli military. An elderly woman was beaten to death by the IDF in the west bank a few days but attacks like this are such a daily commonplace that they dont get a mention on the news.

Israel gave up settlements in Gaza in 2005 but shortly after the election of Hamas conducted a blockade of Gaza so the people of Gaza have had 20 years of being stuck inside a very small area with huge limitations on entry and exit (people waiting in stadiums for weeks on end for permissions to leave for cancer treatment). Lots of restrictions on what could come into Gaza - many medicines and essential items such as chocolate blocked for years). Regular campaigns of bombing and shooting from the heavy militarised border wall.

In 1995 Israel had a Prime Minister who recognised that Israel's future security would only be assured by a 2 state solution. He tried to negotiate with the Palestinian Liberation Organisation and negotiated the Oslo peace accords which tried to find a path to peace and a 2 state solution
He was assasinated in Nov 1995. In July 1995 a few months before his murder, Netanyahu led a mock funeral procession featuring a coffin where people chanted chanted 'Death to Rabin'. Rabins wife still blames Netanyahu for his death. Netanyahu has faced many corruption trials and has had to form coalitions with far right terrorists to remain in power (Ben Gvir - charged of funding terrorist group 2008). Israel politics and society has increasingly veared to the right and become more extremist.

Iran fund and support Hamas amd Hezbollah. Until fairly recently Netanyahu also funded Hamas as he wanted to split Palestinian solidarity. Hamas and Hezbollah both engage in regular missile attacks and attacks against Israeli civilians.

Dont know so much about Iran but in 50s they were v liberal - women in short skirts etc. There was a joint US/UK operatiom to remove their government and install an undemocratically elected Shah who ruled until late 70s i think - he was removed by an uprising and lots of Iranians had to flee Iran. Iran had beem crippled by lots of sanctions. Has a very strict Shia Islamic regime under which women are oppressed and protests in 2022 and 2023 saw lots of young girls imprisoned and beaten and some raped. Not a nice regime at all. Claims have been made that 30000 protesters in recent months killed by the Iranian regime. But iran havent started any wars with other countries for over 100 years - they hate America though and Israel and they fund Hamas and Hezbollah which regularly attack Israel.

Hezbollah are based in Lebanon and are largely descendants of refugees who fled in 1948 after the creation of the state of Israel.
There was a nakba and 750 thousand Palestinians left their homes in what is now Israel and have not been able to return - they have not been granted Lebanese citizenship, still dont have the right to work in Lebanon - many still living in refugee encampments despite having been born and had parents born in Lebanon. They despise Israel and want to take back what they see as their land and return home. They were understood to have extensive rockets and ammunition hidden in southern Lebanon. Hezbollah are more powerful than the Lebanese state which are kind of a failed state really - bankrupt and coŕrupt and a vassal state split between sectarian factions.

Before Israel was created by a UN resolution ( in the days where those actually mattered) the land was held by the British in the British Mandate of Palestine. Jews have always lived in this land but up until 1947 made up a relatively small proportion of the population - about 7 percent. The UN resolution that created Israel recommended partitioning the lamd into 2 states - one Arab and one Jewish with the Jewish state of Israel taking 56% of the land. There have been a number of wars involving Israel since their independence since 1947 - each war has led to Israel taking more and more territory. Israelis feel that their survival is at stake and feel an existential threat from these wars and from Hamas and Hezbollah and Iran who support them. Israel wont allow Palestinian statehood and peace and Hamas and Hezbollah funded by Iran wont allow Israel to have peace and dont accept Israel's legitimacy.
Both Israel and Hamas/Hezbollah/Iran veering towards extremists regimes and their people suffering as a result.

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I think you left out what happened to the Jewish people living in the Arab nations - there are tragedies on both sides. But in a lot of ways, history isn’t the most important thing here. I’m worried about the future.

I am not neutral. I can’t be - everything that happens there affects me viscerally and personally. I feel pretty hopeless - both here and there. But I feel far worse about my own future in a world without a Jewish country. My grandparents and every generation before endured that and it’s a miracle any of us are here today.

Netanyahu and Trump are terrible, Hamas and Hezbollah are terrorists… There is no good side here as this isn’t an action movie - it’s complicated and terrible.

tofumad · 10/04/2026 07:25

SharonEllis · 10/04/2026 06:34

Which bit is untrue?

The depiction of Israel as a defensive actor rather than a malign force in the region

SharonEllis · 10/04/2026 07:29

tofumad · 10/04/2026 07:25

The depiction of Israel as a defensive actor rather than a malign force in the region

Explain.

Blueonblacktan · 10/04/2026 07:43

Hagr1d · 09/04/2026 11:14

OP I don't think it is possible to be knowledgable and neutral. Once you know, anyone with a conscience would be outraged at the injustice.

100 attacks on Lebabon last night in 10 minutes. Hundreds dead. Are we supposed to believe that everyone dead is a hezbollah terrorist?

Everytime there are talks and ceasefires, one country that ignores them and continues to break international law.

Actually it was Gaza that broke the ceasefire on October 7th by launching a mass terrorist attack on Israeli citizens. That’s what started this war. And it was a deliberate intent by Hamas to start a war.

GateauSVP · 10/04/2026 07:43

Iran - run by a bunch of extremists who hate people not like them, who commit war crimes, who put their hatred of others above the needs of their people.

Israel - run by a bunch of extremists who hate people not like them, who commit war crimes, who put their hatred of others above the needs of their people.

Hamas - run by a bunch of extremists who hate people not like them, who commit war crimes, who put their hatred of others above the needs of their people.

USA - run by a bunch of extremists who hate people not like them, who commit war crimes, who put their hatred of others above the needs of their people.

Hezbollah - run by a bunch of extremists who hate people not like them, who commit war crimes, who put their hatred of others above the needs of their people.

Meanwhile, the Israeli, Iranian, Palestinian, Lebanese people all continue to be victims of bombardments and terrorist attacks. The people of the Gulf states continue to be victims of random debris and rockets. The American people continue to suffer from having their government prioritize military spending overall. The Ukrainian people suffer because support is being diverted from them. People in Asia suffer because they can't get fuel to cook or go to work.

The cycle continues over and over and the every day person suffers whilst those in power continue to drive hatred.

SharonEllis · 10/04/2026 07:49

GateauSVP · 10/04/2026 07:43

Iran - run by a bunch of extremists who hate people not like them, who commit war crimes, who put their hatred of others above the needs of their people.

Israel - run by a bunch of extremists who hate people not like them, who commit war crimes, who put their hatred of others above the needs of their people.

Hamas - run by a bunch of extremists who hate people not like them, who commit war crimes, who put their hatred of others above the needs of their people.

USA - run by a bunch of extremists who hate people not like them, who commit war crimes, who put their hatred of others above the needs of their people.

Hezbollah - run by a bunch of extremists who hate people not like them, who commit war crimes, who put their hatred of others above the needs of their people.

Meanwhile, the Israeli, Iranian, Palestinian, Lebanese people all continue to be victims of bombardments and terrorist attacks. The people of the Gulf states continue to be victims of random debris and rockets. The American people continue to suffer from having their government prioritize military spending overall. The Ukrainian people suffer because support is being diverted from them. People in Asia suffer because they can't get fuel to cook or go to work.

The cycle continues over and over and the every day person suffers whilst those in power continue to drive hatred.

God, this is so glib. I loathe Trump and Netanyahu but they are still heads of governments that are constrained by the rule of law and the democratic rights of their populations, however much they might prefer it to be otherwise.

Blueonblacktan · 10/04/2026 07:49

OP you will not find a neutral person. There is no shortcut. You need to listen to a lot of debates from ‘both’ sides, read a lot of evidence and argument and form your own view.

dairydebris · 10/04/2026 08:18

AnSpideog · 10/04/2026 01:38

I may have once agreed with you: I’m not so sure anymore. This particular Israeli government and this particular US administration.

They are all driven by a dangerous ideology. At the moment Israel and the US are curtailed by the democratic processes in place. But that’s the only difference at the moment.

I agree... its awful to watch both Israel and the US slide into extremism. Still, isolated incidents of state violence in the US and weak response to settler madness in the WB is not the same as by design oppressive Islamist regimes who regularly brutalize their own people. I do agree the gap is getting smaller though.

However, as always this thread is now a cesspit of exceptionalist hatred for one state above all others. Why no one ever questions their own disproportionate hatred completely escapes me. It's almost as if no one ever says to themselves, why would Israel behave this way? Why? Why is there violence? Why do I have such strong feelings about this one nation above all others?

dairydebris · 10/04/2026 08:34

TulipLavender · 10/04/2026 02:01

I dont believe you will be able to find me one equivalent act of war crime perpetrated by a country that is allowed to be represent in the Eurovision song contest or send football teams to the UK or is defended on mumsnet by people who are allowed to accuse you of racism for criticising them - find me one acceptable western country who has allowed its military to engage in such equivalent vile acts without facing any accountability and i will eat my words, accept my anti-israeli bias is founded on racism and engage in serious soul searching.

I give you... Serbia! Sons / father's forced to orally castrate each other. Thousands of Muslims bussed to their deaths and buried in mass graves. I give you... the many shootings of uninvolved civilians in the Afghan and Iraq wars post 9/11. I give you... the Wech Baghtu wedding drone strike which mainly killed women and children under Obama no less.

Why are African and Asian nations not to he held to the same standards as 'acceptable Western country' s? Are they somehow incapable of behaving themselves as well as us Westeners? Are they toddlers? Or merely uncivilized?

Either you believe Israel is exceptionally bad, which is of course anti Israel bias given that all people are born equal, or you dont believe Israel are exceptionally bad. Which is it?

ohfook · 10/04/2026 09:31

@TulipLavenderthank you for your post. Both informative, neutral and helpful.