You think this level of murder is restraint - at least 20,000 dead children. Imagine they were Israeli children, how would you feel then? Do you think Palestinians are less deserving of life, of human rights, than Israelis? Have you watched any of the interviews with Palestinians, with the little children missing limbs. I suggest looking at Ms Rachel’s instagram - she regularly interviews the little kids and families injured in Gaza.
This did not start on October 7th! Israel has been murdering and displacing Palestinians every year since it was founded. Trauma actually stops the brain developing like normal so if someone bombs your town for months, steals your home, murders your parents or siblings - you are much more likely to join a terrorist organisation like Hamas. Israel recruits for Hamas through the murder and displacement of the Palestinian population.
There are numerous documentaries on streaming sites like Netflix that follow the lives of Palestinians before October 7th - there is also a documentary called Tantura on Amazon Prime which goes right back to the founding of Israel in 1948 and shows how it started with murder, displacement and rape. There are countless documentaries on settlers at the moment where settlers express the desire to wipe out and replace the native population - obviously the famous one called The Settlers. There is an amazing guy who documents the violence of the settlers on instagram “Sam_Avraham” have a look at some of his videos! Let me reiterate, this did not start on October 7th.