The word "children" crops up a lot on these threads and Hamas, who specialise in psychological warfare, know exactly what buttons to press by flooding X/Insta accounts with photos of suffering infants. It's perhaps not surprising that Mumsnet amplifies Hamas's narrative of victimhood, since such images are bound to elicit a visceral "Just make it STOP!" reaction.
So many posts on CITME portray Gaza as the child and Israel as the adult, as though what happened on 7/10 was the natural response of an abused child that just needs placing under more tender care, and as though only the "adult" (Israel) can be expected to behave responsibly.
Questions about what could possibly have made Gazans "so angry" completely overlook a society in which Hamas adherents are rewarded, there are strong incentives (both financial and heavenly) to kill Jews, and a death-cult ideology into which everyone is indoctrinated from a young age, where Jew-killing (or worse) elevates the perpetrator to celebrity status.
It is impossible for us to grasp all that, which is why Hamas's DARVO ("Oh, but we just wanted to be heard!") approach has worked so well on the liberal West. It explains things in terms we can get our heads round. Believing that Israel can somehow "stop the cycle of radicalism" is, to put it mildly, naive.
Of course it is profoundly distressing to see and hear the suffering of children in wartime. There's never been a war in which such images, both real and fake, have proliferated and become viral. I wonder what would happen if Israel were to share the intimate videos of the murders, rapes, tortures, mutilations and live burnings that took place on 7/10. No doubt these would also stick in our minds for ever.
They don't do this, obviously, out of respect for the dead and their families, and I sometimes wonder if people actually have any idea what happened. I've seen posters talk about it as though a few teenagers at a party (a party they shouldn't have been at in the first place; how dare they have fun next to their suffering neighbours held in open cages!!) were shot at from a distance...
War is abominable, and to be avoided at all costs, not least because SPOILER ALERT CHILDREN DIE IN THEM!!! And wars are usually fought for all kinds of bogus political reasons, such as WW1. But if ever a country was justified in going to war, it's Israel. (Or "Isreal" as some people prefer to call it.)
(edited to fix some weird formatting shit that punctuation creates in posts!)