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Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:21

Auvergne63 · 18/11/2024 09:20

I have worked with refugees and trust me, they do not receive substantial help.

Depends where in the UK you are I suppose.

Applepie321 · 18/11/2024 09:21

Sunflowersinwinter · 18/11/2024 09:19

Why is it that Conservative Muslims always get stick for this, for those who others think are less willing to integrate but I don't see the same criticism for factions of other religions/communities who act in a similar manner?

Which other communities are you referring to?

This post is specifically about Muslims.

Scirocco · 18/11/2024 09:21

Applepie321 · 18/11/2024 09:16

It’s a scary time for a lot of minority groups aswell as Muslims ie Jews. However we need to be able to have open and honest conversations about problems with communities without fear of being branded a racist. I appreciate there are a lot of idiot racist thugs like we saw in Julys riot but these do not represent the majority of British people.

I have experienced first hand lack of integration. I went to a diverse school in Bradford and several of my Muslim friends were not allowed by their parents to socialise with ‘gora’ outside of school - how is that wanting to integrate and be part of a wider community?

‘Bradistan’ is a term used a lot across Bradford, from my experience mainly by Pakistani Muslims themselves.

Unfortunately, the recent findings of the Funny Trust seem to show that anti-Muslim hate crimes are common and that hatred and discrimination against Muslims is becoming increasingly normalised in our society. A 335% increase in Islamophobic hate crimes, many of these against women - people talk about opposing violence against women, but are distinctly quieter when that's anti-Muslim violence against women.

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aphrodites · 18/11/2024 09:22

It's a difficult subject to tackle and face when organised religion in general supports segregation. We need to be promoting a more balanced community and protecting young people/children from segregation and indoctrination. Doing away with religious schools would be a good start. We also need to speak out more about harmful cultural practices that hide behind religion in the name of tolerance.

Usernamesareboring1 · 18/11/2024 09:22

Limesodaagain · 18/11/2024 09:12

But the original post was not demonising anyone- it was just describing the concerns. ( although I agree a lot of demonising went on during the riots) Your response is an over reaction. It should be possible for posters to at least refer to concerns and then you can rebut them without accusing people of hatred, demonisation etc
Its the overblown rhetoric that raises the heat

I'm sorry but we had far right anti Muslim pogroms on the streets with people setting fire to hotels with asylum seekers in based on the lies repeated in PP post so for you to call people correcting this incorrect propaganda and overreaction is pretty disgusting. This misinformation is raising the heat and the consequence is harm coming to Muslim people and generally people of colour yet you scrolled past all the racism on this thread to call out people correcting far right lies. Interesting choice.

Alphaalga · 18/11/2024 09:23

Meanwhile no future remains a daily certainty for many Muslims in their ancestral homeland.

Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:24

SallyWD · 18/11/2024 09:06

I'm sorry but I don't believe all or most Muslims were drinking, doing drugs etc in the past. Yes I knew some that were but a minority. It goes against their religion obviously.
The Muslim females I know (and I know a lot - teenage girls and grown women) don't drink or do drugs. They're perfectly happy and confident but don't want to drink alcohol. I must add that the Muslim males I know don't either.
I do know some Muslim men and women who date and who've married non-Muslims.

It was in the early 90s in London. There were lots of them. Perhaps in those days they were confident enough to do what they wanted and religion didn't determine their life choices. Yes I expect that's changed now. It's very sad.

quantumbutterfly · 18/11/2024 09:24

Auvergne63 · 18/11/2024 09:17

I am in the UK actually and I have been for 35 years. I live in a multicultural area and have taught RE in a multicultural school.
I was taught critical thinking both by the French education and by my parents.
So no, I don't believe what I am told.

How interesting, in other threads you said you were in France.

Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:25

Usernamesareboring1 · 18/11/2024 09:22

I'm sorry but we had far right anti Muslim pogroms on the streets with people setting fire to hotels with asylum seekers in based on the lies repeated in PP post so for you to call people correcting this incorrect propaganda and overreaction is pretty disgusting. This misinformation is raising the heat and the consequence is harm coming to Muslim people and generally people of colour yet you scrolled past all the racism on this thread to call out people correcting far right lies. Interesting choice.

"Far right anti Muslim pogroms". You debase language by this sort of hyperbole until one day no one will be able to describe real horror.

Batmanisaplaceinturkey · 18/11/2024 09:26

Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:13

The refusal to shake a woman's hand is a big one. I've had that at work. Hideous misogyny disguised as religious requirements.

But as a Muslim woman I don't want to shake a man's hand either! It's nothing to do with misogyny ffs.

Limesodaagain · 18/11/2024 09:26

Usernamesareboring1 · 18/11/2024 09:22

I'm sorry but we had far right anti Muslim pogroms on the streets with people setting fire to hotels with asylum seekers in based on the lies repeated in PP post so for you to call people correcting this incorrect propaganda and overreaction is pretty disgusting. This misinformation is raising the heat and the consequence is harm coming to Muslim people and generally people of colour yet you scrolled past all the racism on this thread to call out people correcting far right lies. Interesting choice.

It’s also interesting that you and others had nothing to say about the teacher from the Batley Grammar school who is still in hiding and in fear for his life . https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/mar/31/batley-school-what-teacher-in-hiding-can-tell-us-about-our-failure-to-tackle-intolerance

There are people in this thread who feel very free to mock Christianity ( and continue when asked to stop) but don’t seem concerned when a teacher is in hiding in fear for his life for an allegedly blasphemous reference to a Muslim prophet .

What a teacher in hiding can tell us about our failure to tackle intolerance | Islam | The Guardian

A class about free speech was cynically exploited by activists to incite fury in a local community

https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/mar/31/batley-school-what-teacher-in-hiding-can-tell-us-about-our-failure-to-tackle-intolerance

Auvergne63 · 18/11/2024 09:28

quantumbutterfly · 18/11/2024 09:24

How interesting, in other threads you said you were in France.

Nope. I have never said I lived in France. Are you calling me a liar?

Applepie321 · 18/11/2024 09:29

Scirocco · 18/11/2024 09:21

Unfortunately, the recent findings of the Funny Trust seem to show that anti-Muslim hate crimes are common and that hatred and discrimination against Muslims is becoming increasingly normalised in our society. A 335% increase in Islamophobic hate crimes, many of these against women - people talk about opposing violence against women, but are distinctly quieter when that's anti-Muslim violence against women.

Violence of any kind is wrong and I do not know anybody who would condone such actions. I was appalled by the actions of the rioters in July. These people were idiot thugs just looking for a reason to cause trouble.

You seem to have skipped over my point about integrating communities. It is so important that we all learn to live together as one community rather than being divided and that needs to happen on both sides.

Limesodaagain · 18/11/2024 09:30

I don’t agree with any sort of racial or religious prejudice but I do support free speech.
Sometimes the two things conflict but people’s safety and wellbeing must always be the priority and take precedence

Usernamesareboring1 · 18/11/2024 09:31

Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:25

"Far right anti Muslim pogroms". You debase language by this sort of hyperbole until one day no one will be able to describe real horror.

No sorry you debase people flooding to the streets with knives and other weapons with rhetoric that they should all be killed, setting fire to hotels with people in them.

Sunflowersinwinter · 18/11/2024 09:32

Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:21

They make Jews in London frightened. They should stop. They are hardly changing anything in Gaza either.

Well you would be shocked to know that there are Jews who also join these marches. They will stop when Israel stops it's genocide.

Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:33

Batmanisaplaceinturkey · 18/11/2024 09:26

But as a Muslim woman I don't want to shake a man's hand either! It's nothing to do with misogyny ffs.

Culturally in this country refusal to shake someone's hand can be taken as a great insult. My "lived experience haha" is feeling insulted that a man did not shake my hand in the UK in a work environment. Women have had to fight enough battles to be seen as equals in a professional environment as it us without this rubbish. I've also experienced a man feeling unable to address me directly in a boardroom environment and for my assistant (a male) being the one he would listen to. I do not want this crap for the girls of this country please.

SallyWD · 18/11/2024 09:33

Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:24

It was in the early 90s in London. There were lots of them. Perhaps in those days they were confident enough to do what they wanted and religion didn't determine their life choices. Yes I expect that's changed now. It's very sad.

I disagree that Muslims are losing confidence. There are of course some (lapsed?) Muslims who still drink, such as my husband's barber who always has a whiskey with my husband! However, I don't see drinking alcohol as a sign of confidence in Muslims. The Muslim women I know are very confident (without alcohol). There's one woman I work with who is a real I inspiration to me. She runs three small business and is a barrister as well! She's currently doing a PhD. She's amazing! She's one of the most supremely confident women I know. Alcohol doesn't come into.
I also know other wealthy, successful, and confident Muslim women - two lawyers, a doctor, and a consultant. There's no need to feel sad about these people. They're living great lives.

Batmanisaplaceinturkey · 18/11/2024 09:35

Applepie321 · 18/11/2024 09:29

Violence of any kind is wrong and I do not know anybody who would condone such actions. I was appalled by the actions of the rioters in July. These people were idiot thugs just looking for a reason to cause trouble.

You seem to have skipped over my point about integrating communities. It is so important that we all learn to live together as one community rather than being divided and that needs to happen on both sides.

I moved into a white area. Neighbours didnt like it. I did nothing wrong. White flight started. Don't talk to me about integration.

Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:36

SallyWD · 18/11/2024 09:33

I disagree that Muslims are losing confidence. There are of course some (lapsed?) Muslims who still drink, such as my husband's barber who always has a whiskey with my husband! However, I don't see drinking alcohol as a sign of confidence in Muslims. The Muslim women I know are very confident (without alcohol). There's one woman I work with who is a real I inspiration to me. She runs three small business and is a barrister as well! She's currently doing a PhD. She's amazing! She's one of the most supremely confident women I know. Alcohol doesn't come into.
I also know other wealthy, successful, and confident Muslim women - two lawyers, a doctor, and a consultant. There's no need to feel sad about these people. They're living great lives.

If they wanted to go out and have an alcoholic drink with other Muslim men would they feel comfortable doing so? If so, then that's fine. But if they wouldn't because they feared the disapproval of others for reasons of religion that's not so fine (in the UK). That's sad.

AhFuckinLoveBudgehs · 18/11/2024 09:37

It’s fear of difference.
Unless we find better ways to air all opinions and work through it all, without resorting to insults, I dread to think of the far right mess this country will become.
I’ve seen in several places that Nigel Farage is tipped to being a very real prospect of PM in the future.

Look at the US. Another Trump term largely because people were called thick racists and homophobic bigots. It may be true, but talking to large parts of the population like that will only push them further right.

Batmanisaplaceinturkey · 18/11/2024 09:37

Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:36

If they wanted to go out and have an alcoholic drink with other Muslim men would they feel comfortable doing so? If so, then that's fine. But if they wouldn't because they feared the disapproval of others for reasons of religion that's not so fine (in the UK). That's sad.

Wtf? So we are only worthy if we emulate drinking culture?

quantumbutterfly · 18/11/2024 09:38

Auvergne63 · 18/11/2024 09:28

Nope. I have never said I lived in France. Are you calling me a liar?

Wouldn't dream of it.

Limesodaagain · 18/11/2024 09:38

AhFuckinLoveBudgehs · 18/11/2024 09:37

It’s fear of difference.
Unless we find better ways to air all opinions and work through it all, without resorting to insults, I dread to think of the far right mess this country will become.
I’ve seen in several places that Nigel Farage is tipped to being a very real prospect of PM in the future.

Look at the US. Another Trump term largely because people were called thick racists and homophobic bigots. It may be true, but talking to large parts of the population like that will only push them further right.

Yes - sadly..

Nordione1 · 18/11/2024 09:40

Usernamesareboring1 · 18/11/2024 09:31

No sorry you debase people flooding to the streets with knives and other weapons with rhetoric that they should all be killed, setting fire to hotels with people in them.

The knives and machetes were Muslim men too.

The fire was one absolutely horrible incident. If a real "far right pogrom" broke out everyone would assume it was that same sort of single incident where no one actually died. The word loses its power.

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