@Parkingt111
I can't speak for all Israelis as there are some many groups: Israeli arabs - who are Palestinians but citizens of Israel, Israeli secular Jews, Israeli orthodox Jews, Israeli ultra orthdox and then some.
I obviously, like all of us, am in a bit of an echo chamber. Most of my friends and family think like me but I don't think we represent the whole country.
There is no doubt that the whole country has moved to the right and become more nationalist. This trend started with the hamas attacks in the 90s and then intensified after the Second Intifada.
For example, Meretz - the party I vote for - considered left of centre. In 1992 they got nearly 10% of the vote. In 2022, they got about 3% and didn't even make it into parliatment. The Labour party, more centre left, got 35% of the vote in 1992 and nearly 4% in 2022!!!
I did become hopeful during the protests this past year on the judicial coup. I believe that the occupation is intrinsically tied up with this undemocratic move. You can't have a democracy and an occupation - the two are contradictory at the most basic level. There were voices making this connection (including mine!). A minority, admittedly, but that connection was growing. I'll honestly say though is that a lot Israelis don't care either way regarding the occupation of the west bank or what's happening in the gaza strip. I think they kind of grown immune, especially since the second intifada and all the insanity that went on then. Now, you can live in Tel Aviv in a comfortable bubble and forget about what is happening 50 or 60 km away. Until you have to face it though...
I have a cousin who used to be quite right wing. He's super patriotic and was an officer in the army. Then he found himself patrolling around the Palestinian territories, chasing kids throwing rocks. He's a decent and honest person - and he thought WTF and realised how messed up this is and became very left. He influenced me a lot actually in understanding the unfairness and injustice of this situation and even if I defend other things about Israel, the occupation is wrong and needs to end and even if there's not going to be a Palestinian state tomorrow, Israel should not be moving its civillian population on to territory which is under military rule for some and Israeli civil rule for others.
I'll be honest, since the attack of 7/10, i have heard a lot of calls for revenge and dehumanizing of Palestinians, especially Gazans. I can understand it. In times of war, it's so easy to dehumanise the other side and Israelis are in a lot of pain right now. In our era of 24/7 news and social media, the horror stories are constant and they are really really horrifying. The funerals are constant. There are still hundreds of bodies to identify because they were tortured and desecrated and burnt to the point they can't be identified. When I hear dehumanising language, i do push back against it as we need to constantly remind ourselves that despite the pain inflicted on us, the Gazans are suffering too and no one is going to wipe anyone out.
So this is a long answer to your question and probably not a very clear one - I had to think things through in my head before writing as I don't have much clarity of vision and I am torn between different emotions.
Perhaps the events of the last 2 awful weeks will change something. Palestinians will accept they're not going to get rid of Israel and if they try it works out badly for them everytime. Israelis need to accept that 2 million Gazans in the Gaza strip will not just disappear and that a political solution is needed, not just for the west bank for gaza as well - and that the status quo won't go on forever. But I fear that Israel will go more to the right, more nationalistic and the same for the Palestinians - that the divide will become all the bigger.