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Emmsys Weebles: the one where we gather in the greenhouse for more tears, laughter and hand-holding

999 replies

cupcakefairy · 04/05/2010 16:29

Come and gather... we have ice cream!

This thread is a very special one as it will contain one very long-awaited birth announcement and hopefully more sleep for our yummy mummies & lots of BFPs!

Get your pom poms out...

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barbie1 · 14/05/2010 11:38

where is everyone.......

iggypiggy · 14/05/2010 11:50

hello b I am kind of lurking...

I have nothing interesting to say

cupcakefairy · 14/05/2010 12:24

Hello all lovely to see some chat on here!

barbie Ha, of course you're forgiven!! There's nothing to forgive though I am just a big old scaredy cat about everything to do with babies right now. My Mum keeps saying to me 'awwww you've wanted a tiny baby ever since you were so small and you're finally getting it' and I'm like this cos I'm terrified!! But very much looking forward to finally meeting this wriggly bump.

MLS we've found a good thing about your dd not having thick long hair you will have a much easier time with nits!! I have horrible memories of my Mum spending hours like LBM combing through my hair, and evil-smelling shampoos being poured on us at french summer camps

LBM a few girls on the May thread have breech babies too...one had quite a painful turning procedure thing done (ECV?) and then baby turned back! Must be so frustrating. Can't believe it looks like I'm in danger of actually LOSING the race when my edd is the first one!

4ever hello! I too have been waxed an obscene amount so all ready for baby! My Mum finds it hilarious that I had a wax at all she reckons I just won't care...
I woke last night with pains under bump too that went on for about an hour; almost woke dh but then they went again so I guess things are gearing up! A friend is visiting with her 3 month old today so maybe that will help

Vjay poor little Ajay! Glad to hear he's improved a bit but how horrible for him (and you!)

Right, well happy Friday to all, especially our lurkers.

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VJay · 14/05/2010 13:29

Hello, and thankyou for all of Ajays hugs from his cyber aunts , he seems to be loads better, the antiB's must be kicking in. The last 2 weeks his nose has been streaming due to him teething, and I think his ears got blocked because of that, and the pressure just increased until they popped. Once they pooped he was ok

blue I am so pleased that B is taking some more bottle now, and you have done so well bf for 20 weeks, big shiny gold star to you and B. I must admit that it is nice to start loosing weight now I have stopped bf, I have lost at least half a stone since I stopped bf, it's a bit slow but that's the best way, so they say.

Where's the list? Due dates are fast approaching...

VJay · 14/05/2010 13:30

Popped not pooped

VJay · 14/05/2010 13:35

Commando/Smallpants

hoping
jools
bakingqueen
Bluemoon
monkey
gingermumi
ThePFJ
loueytbg
Q uestionsAnswered
Mermaid

Bigpants

cupcake due 19/05/10
4everhopeful due 22/05/10 - PINK
littlebellsmum due 25/05/10 - PINK
iggypiggy due 20/07/10
MummyLovesBigPants due 05/10/10

Saggypants

VJay 01/09/09 BOY! ALEXANDER JAMES 8lb 6oz
Lionstar 27/09/09 BOY! ARLO BRYN 9lb 5oz
Sabs 30/09/09 GIRL! SAARA 9lb
Buddhabelly 25/11/09 BOY! EWAN JAMES
Annie 25/11/09 BOY! ELLIS CHARLES 8lb 11oz
Bluesatinsash 23/12/09 BOY! BENJAMIN CHARLES 8lb 3oz
MM 30/12/09 GIRL! NIEVE ELLEN 8lb 6oz
Curly 05/02/10 GIRL! GRACE ELIZABETH 8lb 4oz
Graciegirl 05/02/1/0 GIRL! ISABELLE CLARE 7lb 1oz
Barbie 21/02/10 GIRL! DEVON NIMAH 5lb 15oz
MrsKate 09/03/10 BOY! JACK DAVID 6lb 13oz
Neeko 29/03/10 GIRL! HANNAH DENISE 8lb 150z

littlebellsmum · 14/05/2010 14:25

vjay you probably know this but apparently it's really common for small babies ear drums to perforate, it happens all the time

cupcake thanks - yes, I'm booked for one of the turny things on Monday and accupunture tomorrow, which apparently mainly involves burning a special stick on my toe (my DH will think this is hilarious!) and according the the guru that is Mumsnet can be very succesful, so we shall see. And if none of those work, my lovely midwife at the birthing centre has a consultant that she works with who always manages to turn babies and so she wants me to go there if these don't work. So, much more positive. All I need to do is to cross my legs and not go into labour soon as if I do, then it will be a section. Which I'm now OK with but would rather avoid if possible.

Now back to crawling on all fours to try and get this one to flip - I'm also supposed to do handstands in a swimming pool [hmmm] - that could be a shock for all the other people there!

barbie1 · 14/05/2010 17:26

Hello...nothing interesting to say either iggy not much going on over here. Dh had to work overtime today but thankfully has tomorrow off and we are going to a bbq...

vjay i thought i had posted re minivjay but i obviously didnt
Good on you for knowing that there was something wrong, poor little love. Isnt it amazing how we just can sense when something isnt quite right? I hope he feels better soon...

cupcake phew! I woke last night worried about stressing you out more than you already are, im glad im forgiven

lbm i hope i didnt put you off with all my tips, i have everything crossed that lo turns and you can have the birth you really want.

mls how are the 'nits'

4ever not long now my lovely, prehapes you are having braxton hicks just to get baby that little bit more engaged? or you might be having real contractions ....hope your hospital bag is packed and in the car just in case!

Right Devon is sleeping, hopefully until her dream feed so dh and i are going to eat and relax for a while.

Have a good weekend everyone xxx

cupcakefairy · 14/05/2010 18:18

Aww barbie bless you! Sorry to make you lose even more sleep By the way my friend who came over today whose baby is about same age as Devon said she always puts her down to sleep on her front cos she won't go any other way...so don't worry!

LBM haha, love the special burny stick on the toe idea hope it works! My NCT teacher also said put frozen peas at the top of bump and hot water bottle at the bottom so baby will turn towards the heat or a torch at the bottom of bump and apparently they go towards the light! Not sure how successful that might be this late in pregnancy though... v positive news that you could still have a VB though

Vjay lol to once his ear pooped

blue hooray for B taking formula from the bottle..girls' night is so yours in a couple of weeks

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VJay · 14/05/2010 18:21

I didn't know that lbm, it never happened to ds1, I do remember him having an ear infection though, but thanks, it makes me feel a little better that it's a common thing. Good luck with the baby turning, I really hope it works

Hi barbie it is amazing how we just 'know'. Enjoy your BBQ tommorow

I did a right twatty thing earlier, I was having a coffee with a friend and I was telling her about how I've got a couple of hospital appts. next week, but my inlaws are up and I'd rather them not know what they are for (scan for misplaced coil, and my 1st guided self help meeting). Anyway DH said to just say 'I've got an itchy fanjo' then they won't ask any more questions . So I was telling my friend this and didn't realise how quiet it had gone and this old dear pulled her newspaper down and just glared at my friend, my friend found it hilarious, I was mortified

MummyLovesSadie · 14/05/2010 21:11

Vjay that is funny! I hope you don't actually say that to your inlaws though!

LBM the burny stick looks like a cigar (my acupuncturist gave me one after I had that 10 week bleed) & it will be burned next to your little toe. Also if you were to have reflexology to move the baby, they would work on your little toe too. I really hope it works for you (I bet it does!) without you having to have babybelle manually moved or having to do handstands in the swimming pool (had to lol at that one!).

4ever it sounds like your body is gearing up for the big day!

Cupcake it sounds like your body is getting ready for the off as well. It's so exciting that the three of you are due so soon & so close together. It could literally be any day now.

Barbie did you try out the angel monitor?

Blue so glad you finally have a breakthrough with the bottles. You have done amazingly well to bf him exclusively for so long. Hopefully this is the first step to you getting a bit more sleep too. Which Baby Whisperer book do you have as I had a quick look on Ebay last night & I wasn't sure which one to get?

Neeko busy lady, how is the marking going? Glad dd2 has finally started taking a bottle.

Well it was a false nit alarm! I have no idea what the black dots were but they seemed to disappear when I gave her hair a good scrub in the bath. At least I'll know what to do when she inevitably goes get them at some point!

CurlyBigPants · 15/05/2010 10:22

Mornin lovely ladies just checking in to say hello. I've been lurking and thinking of you all especially monkey and mermaid xxx

big hugs to everyone and let's have some news soon. May has got to be moon month and we are owed three bfps so with all the births due it is going to be a big month

very itchy with all this nit talk

monkeybumsmum · 15/05/2010 10:24

Just poking my head in to say hi to everyone Still got PIL's staying. They've just gone out and will be back in 40 mins - I need to go and wash my hair ready to go out for lunch! Where does the time go to

Will really try to come back later for some personals, if not I should be back tomorrow as PIL's are leaving and dh will be on the golf course.

Really hope you're all well and that you're having a lovely start to the weekend...

Lots of love xxx

monkeybumsmum · 15/05/2010 10:26

x post Curly Hello Hope Curlygirl is doing well! Thanks for the thoughts, I hope Mermaid is okay...

Must dash as the shower is calling!

littlebellsmum · 15/05/2010 20:51

Evening all - just a quick one to say that we are still here. I had the accupuncture and cigar treatment today - didn't notice any major moving and DH now has to burn stick by my little toe for 20 mins every day until Babybelle arrives! And yes, MLS, it looks exactly like a cigar!

My back is hideous and I can hardly walk - so I go between , just get a move on baby and I'll have an emergency section and stay where you are untill we are scanned on Monday in time for the manupulation. Also hoping that if she does move, she might get off the nerves in my back that are stopping me walking.... Anyway, tomorrow, handstands in the pool!!

MLS glad they weren't nits but as you say, it will happen!

Hi to everyone else - was trying to go back to try and do personals but having lost this message twice, I'm losing the will to live and am just going to post while I can!

SabsFabulous · 16/05/2010 00:21

Hi lovely ladies. Hope everyone is having a good weekend

lbm Good luck with the handstands tomorrow Another c-section advice (though hopefully babybelle moves and you dont need the advice!) that a midwife told me is to always try to keep the scar dry, as if it becomes moist, the stitches could open up. So to try to lie on the bed with that area exposed (like I had time to do that at my mums after I gave birth! ) But a good tip was after having a bath or shower, to use a hairdryer to dry the scar area. My mum also made me sit in a bath of salt water every day. Not sure if that is a Indian thing to do or not! Just before my emergency c-section, I asked if they would give me a tummy tuck at the same time, they all laughed at me thinking I was joking!

monkey Will be thinking of you next week when you go back to work. Here's my hand to hold. at your friend for not doing as you asked

mls Absolutely loving your recent pic Did you manage to get hold of more mangoes???

vjay at having to take Ajay to A&E. Hope he's feeling better. at your story at the coffee shop.

cupcake eek, 4 days to go till your EDD! Hows wriggler been today? If you still havent bought any blackout blind, I would recommend the ones that the Gro company do. We bought it for our room and it does the business

neeko Hows the marking going?

4ever I feel very as I dont think I posted in acknowledgement of you getting a date to be induded - so sorry. I was meaning to text you too, but keep on forgetting But maybe this time next week you might be holding your precious lo What a journey you've had! Hope the induction works for you (as it didnt for me ) and you dont have to have an EMCS like me. I have to say though, having an epidural felt so good after all the labour pains. My mum said I wouldnt stop talking once I had it, even though I'd been awake with contractions since the morning the day before! The worst part of the epidural is when they put the needle in. When they tried the first time, they couldnt get the needle in, but a few hours later, a different anaethatist (sp?) tried a different technique, with me lying down on my side instead of sitting with my shoulders slumped, and it worked straight away. Sorry if I'm providing tmi Writing this is bringing back all the drama of my long labour!

blue You're right to feel proud for breastfeeding for 20 weeks, well done When are you going to start weaning Ben?

buddha I also have many, many more nappies to change and they're so smelly as well! Hope your return to work goes well. I'll be coming to you to ask for survival tips. I found out yesterday that my request to use my leave to have a day off each week from October to March has been approved which is fantastic news. I now wont be going back to work until the first week of October But I may not have a job to go back to as they're doing a major restructure at work, of which we'll find out the outcome in the next few weeks.

louey hope things have calmed down a bit for you

mermaid Where are you??

gracie, barbie, curly, mrskate Hope you're all getting some much needed sleep

Waves to lionstar anniecam QA Iggy moon jools pfj and anyone else ive missed

I'm sooo excited that we're going to be having three new arrivals soon and yes, we're definately due some BFP's soon, no pressure smallpanters

Thanks again to everyone for your kind words after my rant last weekend. I definately do need to lose weight though. I put on a dress size after my mmc and then another dress size after giving birth. I'm still doing buggyfit once a week but havent managed to go back to pilates it takes place an hour after our mother and baby yoga class and S goes straight to sleep after that class and the creche wont take her unless she's been fed and had a nappy change. So this week I'm hoping to leave her wih my sister instead. Will see how it goes. I'm also doing a DVD from Erin O'Brien called postnatal rescue that a friend recommended.It has 3 progressions/stages and each progression is just 15 minutes each. The workout consists of a series of stretches and workouts. But I've been naughty and not doing it every day

S has done so many things for the first time this week (which I always note in my phone so I can add it to her book - when I get a chance!) She claps when you say clap to her, she's learnt to semi-wave, and on the bed, she crawled forward instead of just shuffling like she normally does She's also started doing the downward dog yoga move and yesterday she grabbed onto her play gym and tried to stand up! OK, I think I should stop now She's due a 8 month development review on Monday (even though she wont be 8 months until the end of the month). Has anyone else taken their lo's for one of these checks. What do they do?

Did anyone else watch junior apprentice? I got so excited watching it as the college they showed in the beginning is literally round the corner from my parents house, my brother studies there now and the market where the boys team were selling the cheese is round the corner from my workplace, I go to the market once a week to get my lunch! As you can see, I'm easily pleased

Glad everyone likes my new name. mermaid you're so good at pointing things out to me. I didnt realise about the three S's

Right, this has taken well over an hour. Night all

barbie1 · 16/05/2010 13:03

anybody dropped yet?

4everhopeful · 16/05/2010 13:31

Morning Afternoon Barbie and all! Im still here after my little scare on Thurs! Everything is done and ticked off so if it happens now then its all good! Im bouncing on my ball and have been eating pineapple and drinking raspberry leaf tea! Cupcake 3 days for you! LBM hope the turning techniques and cigar burning stuff helps!

Sorry for lack of personals! Sabs DH says please do ramble on! I know a couple of you went on to have sections after failed inductions and I need to know details please!?! I know everyone is different but just wanna prepare for every scenario, obviously hope that this time next week we will have our DD in our arms (cant quite believe Im saying that!).. However, as said wanna be prepared, sooooo, Sabs and was it Buddha? (scuse preg head!) why did you get induced? how many times did you get the pessary and over what time frame? how long did they give the drip to work? how long were waters broken for? when did they decide to go for sect? All information gratefully received! Thank you!

Happy Sundays everyone! Am off to make the most of DH and I last weekend as just us!

VJay · 16/05/2010 14:27

Hello, at barbie sabs lovely post , S is doing loads, Ajay isn't waving or clapping yet, he's just concentrating on chewing EVERYTHING , it's lovely to watch them developing isn't it. I had to lower the cot the other day because he pulled himself up on the rail As for the check ups, my HV still comes out to visit me, she just wants to keep an eye on things re; ds1 and development etc., so she has been weighing Ajay every 6-8 weeks or so, and measuring his length, and asking me what he can or can't do yet. On one of the visits she did check other things but I can't remember what. Not vey helpful, sorry.

4ever I was induced with ds1, it was because I was 2 weeks overdue. It wasn't the best experience so don't read any further if you don't want to (red rag to a bull I know ). I went into hospital on the Monday at 8am, the hospital then 'lost' me, so I didn't get my first pessary until noon. Nothing happened, had another pessary the next morning, again nothing, had the third lot later that day then started contractions during the night, woke up Wednesay and everything had stopped. Wednesday lunch time the doctor examined me and I was 2cm dilated, BUT he could stretch me to 4, it hurt when he did that and it was infront of 3 student doctors too, lovely! They said they would take me straight down to the delivery suite and break my waters to help things along, 6pm they finally take me down, I was soooo tired by then as I hadn't slept much since Sunday night. I get down to the delivery suite and they are going to break my waters, but another doctor said no it was too late, being past 6 o'clock and I would have to go back to the ward. The lovely MW argued that I'd been waiting since Monday, so they proceeded. So waters broken and things started to speed up. I started on the gas and air as it was painful, then had a shot of pethidine, then I had an epidural and was put onto a monitor. I actually had a bit of sleep at this point. Then DS1's hb started to dip so they attached a monitor to his head. I got to 10cm's but they said the baby needed to be out now, so in came another doctor, 2 mw's and the forceps. I pushed, they pulled and out he came, it was 2:45am on the Thursday morning, i was tired and emotional, but overjoyed . It was very scary but I just went very quiet and let them get on with it, it was all I could do. Did put me off having another, hence one of the reasons why 7 years later DS2 has finally arrived , which was the most amazingly beautiful birth.
Remember though that everyone is different, and every birth is different. Go with your instincts, and trust your MW, they have seen it a million times before and know how to deal with it.

barbie1 · 16/05/2010 15:21

4 ever i had section too and was induced, happy to provide any further details that i didnt add to my birth story, ask away if needed...

hi vjay!

Im feeding at the mo but hopefully will get back on later

VJay · 16/05/2010 15:24

Hi barbie I'm studying at the mo , will stay on here for a bit

barbie1 · 16/05/2010 15:29

ah studying

how are you, we had a good night last night....although she didnt sleep all day yesterday apart from maybe 1 hour!

we went to bbq and put to bed at 10.30, slept til 1.30am fed and right back into moses normally unheard of...slept til 5.30am and then fed again and slept til 8.15am.....we normally get out of bed at 6am!!!!! oh and she has slept loads today long may it continue.

She is 12 weeks today, can you believe it!

barbie1 · 16/05/2010 15:32

oh and whats happening with the coil...

Im having mine replaced next week, totally been scared into by meeting a friend of a friend who has a 10.5 month old and a newborn....go figure! and this was after the first was a c section she had to be induced at 34 weeks cos the scar was tearing!! ouch

barbie1 · 16/05/2010 15:35

ah ive found lbm

here!

VJay · 16/05/2010 15:37

Wow I can't believe D is 12 weeks , as blue has said before she should start to settle even more now, which sounds like she already is. As for the coil, it has moved as the (tmi alert) strings have nearly dissapeared. I am having a scan this coming Friday to see where abouts it is, I just hope it is all ok as I quite like it and want it to stay in. at your friend, that will be bloody hard work to say the least!