*******February Bus Departing*********

[decafgirl]

Hello ladies, after a mammoth 47 day cycle hoping for a December baby, today is once again CD1 for me.

If all goes to plan this month my EDD would be Jan 30th so I thought I'd start the February bus as a positive step forward.

Am fully expecting to be on my own for a while but do come and sit beside me for the journey if you feel the need......

Decafgirl ttc#2 cycle 4 UCL 33-34 CD1

Not sure if i'm eligible for this thread, as i still have the Mirena coil in.. so might be too late?
I am very very broody... and would love to be 'ttc', but a part of me wonders if its because all 3 of my best friends are pregnant, the other 2 are ttc and both my sister and sister-in-law are both pregnant.
I have a DS 34 months & DD 15 months - so my husband says we have a nice balance and will have a better quality of life and more time/energy/money for the 2 we've got. But I love being a mummy and don't feel like our family is complete - what shall i do? Sorry if this should be on a number 3 thread?

I think that I'd be more likely to regret the child I didn't have, than the child I did IYSWIM. But there are so many things that go into the mix. I'd be honest with DH and tell him how I felt. It needs discussion if you still feel like you're not finished.

Thanks Rockbird.. i would never regret! As for DH he just does what he's told... which is a bit annoying because when i asked him this weekend, he said, just go and get it taken out? When i try and make him think about it, he says, he thinks i will always want another, and when will i stop?
I just can't believe what a hard decision it is, and so many other things that are affected by it.. - It was easy to decide on DS & DD, because we wanted a baby and we wanted him to have a brother sister.. this time seems such a bigger decision?

Not a hope of getting on the feb bus anyway :-(

Hi all, I am just hopping over from the January bus as AF got me this weekend. was hoping it was Implantation bleeding but not looking so good now. I do have a question, if thats ok. My cycle last month was 8 weeks and around 7 - 10 days before I got what I believe to be ovulation pain; pain low in my abdomen, pain when sitting down, and felt exhausted. I had it again this month and my cycle has gone to 6 weeks now. I was wondering if this is ovulation pain and I am getting my AF only a week later is this not good for getting pregnant?

pinefarm - start another thread about number 3 and I'll come and talk to you there. I have just had my mirena out to have number 3 and it has taken me a good 18mths to make my mind up and wish I had taken the plunge earlier - the broodiness and indecision just wouldn't go away. Still think I might be mad though!!

Hi - just dashing in TMI warning...just been to look and noticed pink, blood streaked mucus...is this good news? My temp dipped this morning. I can't work out if I should be panicking that it's a v early period or secretly excited as it's implantation!!

What would you do??????

I would secretly do a little cartwheel if I'm honest...although I would try not to get my hopes up. What have you, another week before testing? Tricky...

Oh..... xxxx

Only a very tiny cartwheel, and in a dark corner where no one could see me But if you have a cycle of up to 34 days and this is day 22 or whatever then it's unlikely to be AF?

But then what do I know?

Decaf: temp dip is a good sign!!! How many DPO are you?

I have to admit to being bored at the mo. Not got anything happening TTC wise until next week so feels like I'm just wishing the week (and my life) away! DH just phoned to say he is now working away next Wed which is technically the start of the SWI - grrr. Something always seems to crop up at the crucial times . Roll on next week!

I do have a cycle of 34 days and today is CD22 and I've never ever ever had a cycle shorter than 33 days.....

What is UCL? If its usual cycle length I am 28-29 days.

CD 10 today.

I dont usually do ov predictor tests but I was in Tesco earlier so decided to try. Came home and took it and there is a line, but its lighter than the control line. It says in the instructions this is a negative result. Would it however mean that I could be getting ready to ov? Would there be no line if I was no where near?

We are bd'ing tonight, Wed night, Fri night, Sat am (I am so romantic, huh?) although I havent told DH this info as I know it can put men off. Off on hols Sat pm so fingers crossed I ov either on or before Sat!!!

Congrats to all the BFP's and babydust to everyone getting ready to ovulate! And fingers crossed to those of you getting ready to test!

stats for monday - even though it's a bit late in the day...
In BORING bit at the minute...roll on next week!

Bellared ttc#2 cycle 0 UCL 28-31 CD34
Greenhaze ttc#1 cycle 1 UCL 28 CD30
Gina FB ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL 28-29 CD28
8rubberduckies ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL 28-64 CD23
WomanlyTales ttc#1 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD22
Decafgirl ttc#2 cycle 4 UCL 33-34 CD22
Medee TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL 40-50 CD 21
patienceplease ttc#3 cycle 2 UCL 29-32 CD20
aideesmum ttc#2 cycle 5 UCL 28 CD20
Purplefan TTC 2 cycle 14ish? lost count!! UCL 27 CD 19
Moulesfrites ttc#1 cycle 1 UCL 27-29 CD17
Rockbird ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL 29-32 C16
MercyMe ttc#2 cycle 3 UCL 25 CD16
ImpatientHove ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL 30 CD15
Rosieposey ttc #5 cycle 4 UCL 28-30 CD14
oiseau ttc #3 cycle 3 UCL 29 CD12
CluckyKate ttc #2 cycle 2 UCL 26-28 CD12
specialsmasher ttc #2 cycle 2 UCL 26-28 CD11
Pandasam ttc#1 cycle 3 UCL 32-36 CD11
tamnz ttc#2 cycle 6 CD11
banana87 ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL ?? CD10
GinaFB ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL 19-29 CD10
Sunchild77 ttc#3 cycle 1 UCL 24-28 CD9
smallblackflowers TTC#2 Cycle 5 UCL 34 CD8
Milanomum ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL 28-29 CD8
Debka ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL28 CD7
Orchid ttc#2 cycle 5 UCL 31-44 CD6
mamaof1nowwantno2now ttc# 2 cycle 8 ucl 30-32 cd6
Prinpo ttc#3 cycle 5 UCL 28-29 CD5
PinkiePoo TTC 1 Cycle 3 UCL 28-64 CD4
BrassicaBabe TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 28 CD2

oh and to decaf!

Actually, I just clicked that I'm on day 8... I suppose that means I've only got a few boring days left after all!

oiseau - haven't ever started a thread before! Bit new to all this.. so i will be back in a bit (kids still not in bed!) to chat, thanks!

Making a real effort not to tell DH about today's findings....I don't want to get his hopes up but it's definately not AF (so far, touch wood!!) and I've had a little cramping on and off all day.

I didn't get an implantation bleed with DS so if that's what it is, it's all new to me. I kind of wish I had someone in RL to obsess with chat to. I'm not due to test until the 20th or 21st - that's ages away!

Oh God, I hope I'm pg Am going to be crushed if AF arrives! I am officially RIDICULOUS!!

Ooo good luck decafgirl. I'm just hanging about waiting to SWI, it's boring all this waiting, isn't it, milanomum. I'm on Day 7 so not too much longer now!

when will you start SWIing milanomum? (is that too personal a question???!!!???)

Debka - I'm on CD9 today, generally ovulate round about CD18, so will start the SWI about CD13 - will also start my ov sticks on that day, ~I guess you'll start sooner though as your cycle is shorter than mine

Hello all, just popping in to say hi, and that Im on day 10 today and usually Ovulate early so will SWIing very soon
Exciting, hope everyone is getting on well!

Not sure this month, milanomum, as AF was a week late last time, so a bit confused. Will be looking out for EWCM (yuk!) Unfortunately DH is a miserable git and never wants to SWI or without I!

Hello

Could someone add me to your bus please? Finally got AF today after nightmare 64 day cycle . .

Boba82 TTC#1, cycle 13, UCL35, CD1

fingers crossed for you decaf