TTC after a Miscarriage - Keep Trying!!!!

[Diddle]

Well ladies, its about time we had a new thread, the old one is getting very long. Plus I think we need another fresh start, with lots of positive babydust:

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Get a big handful girls, i think we all need it.
I was trying to think of something great and positive to put, but this TTC lark is getting us all down, i'm fed up of trying, but we will all succeed eventually, our times will come.

It will be much better for our little ones to have a good start when our bodies are truly ready to carry them.

Hello mads,oh hun,we all have these days,so don't wori about itPamper yourself as much as you can!If you just wanna read and not mail then do that,if you wanna share how your feeling then do that too.
We're all here to support each other.

Hi to everyone else,i got abit side tracked last nite,was on the phone to sis in law for an hour and half!!(she can talk!-bless her!),and i only wrote one message i think?
Anyway hope everyones ok today,hope its ok to write with you on this thread?,was on another one with maddyd,c.p,and a couple of others,and mads suggested coming over to this one as we're all in the same boat and me,mads and c.p are due the dreaded AF this wkend..AAAARGH!,stay away!.x.x

Maddy - did you test again today? Can be perfectly normal to get aches and pains before a BFP, and temp dip could be implantation.

shelly24 - of course you can write with us, you narna, write as much as you want, Its great having mumsnet as an outlet.

Hey C.PSoz to hear about your BFN after you've been waiting for those blooming tests for ages!!
Also soz to hear that some of you are having abit of a down day..am sending you lots of happy faces to cheer you all up............phew!.x

Thanx diddle.x

shelly24 - your smiles made me smile back, thank you.

Having quite a nice day, taken the kids to the garden centre to have a snack and buy some card making kits and now they're watching the lion king. I love the school hols, no rushing about to school and playgroup, much nicer

Diddle, I seem to be overrun with boys and they are charging all round the house. Just got back from the Hornimans's Museum (which they all enjoyed) and I said that I needed to sit down and have a cup of tea. They have actually built 2 dens with old curtains!! The old games are the best

ChocolatePeanut - yes totally understand the feeling that it just is never going to happen!

Staying positive is soooo very hard sometimes but I am a firm believer that you have to keep seeing your future as how you want it in order to make it happen. In my darker moments DH has left me as it is discovered I am barren and then in my better moments we have a happy household full of kids!.
Its been said before.....its a rollercoaster of emotions this TTC lark!
Boring answer is just to keep plodding along willing a BFP around the corner!

I'm not too bad today either,have done my good deed for the day and donated some money to SANDS,to help with their research(am wearing on of their wristbands too)
So feel quite pleased with myself,sun has just come out too,hurray!!About time after that miserable weather the last couple of days!!
Sounds like your gonna have a nice relaxing afternoon diddle!Get those kiddies making some really creative cards!.x

Or are the card making kits for you?!.x

Xena - Hello, hows things??? Yep the old games are the best. For some reason the kids i've got are worn out, so sitting still is just what they need.
It has just started bucketing it down here.

shelly24 - the cards are for me, and them. One of their parents has a birthday on Sunday, so we're going to make her a card.

Am off to have a spot of lunch,and get out of the house while the weathers half decent!
Spk to you all later.x

bella - my first m/c was Jan too, horrible month, my Nan died the month before. Bad star to the year and no sign of it getting better. Had my 2nd m/c in April.
Very ready to get pg again.

Diddle - I hear ya!!!
Am so ready to be pregnant it is literally starting to turn me into a nutcase!!

Starting acupuncture next week which hopefully might calm me down!!

Hello ladies

Found you at last! Day 3 of migraine but it should be gone by the morning. AF packed her bags yesterday and has hopefully taken a year out in some place far, far away

Had no phone line all day yesterday and until now so took me a while to catch up. Would like to send all the newbies lots of love and hugs. You are all very welcome and everyone here is really lovely.

Well, I think that's all for now as still feally poorly dick .

Hopefully be back tomorrow to see how you are all doing.

(((xxx)))

humprheyscorner - you're feeling poorly dick??? lucky you!!!!!

serously though, hope you feel better soon

Diddle course I don't mind your advice, that's what we're all here for isn't it? . You're right, am beginning to feel under way too much pressure, think this may be why my cycle is up the creak. I actually used ov tests this month for the first time ever, which is how I know AF arrived 7dpo. Shan't be using them again I think, as it kind of made me even more obsessed, as was starting to get worried when I hadn't oved by day 15. They did confirm for me though that the pain I get mid month is ovulation pain, so shall just go by that from now on.
Trouble is, I don't know how to relax about it all. Don't really want to bring it up with DH as I feel if I tell him he will just say it's obviously too stressful, lets not bother.
Thank God I've got you lot to talk to .

hi to everyone!
im fairly new to all this so bear with me, first of all i just want to say thanks to you all reading all your msg has made me feel as though im not alone anymore. i had my last mc in june this would be my fifth in five years and although i have two wonderful children it doesnt make it any less painful, nice to know that there are other people who like me could probably keep clearblue in business!!! sorry for waffling :.)

Hiya all.
Welcome back Diddle and Lottie and a huge welcome to our new girls!!
Great news all, biopsy results were clear! hoorah Talk about getting those through quickly.
How's everyone?
Xena- Don't leave us hun!! I'm at a financial point where we really can't afford another one but just waiting to see what fate brings (not actively ttc anymore just enjoying it ). Take care of yourself and hope to see you around xxx

hooray Hellkat - thats great news, excellent, i was just thinking about you. very pleased to hear you have the all clear.

Carly - welcome, sorry to hear about your m/c, and very glad we have been a support already. We're all here when you need cheering up.

thanks diddle, just having one of my "i must be a little pregnant cos i feel sick" days although im not due till next monday, really gets me down

me too. AF is just leaving me, and last week i got pg symptoms, and even today I have bene having headaches and sick feelings. Think my body is playing tricks on me. Its easy to get carried away and hung up on every little feeling. Its got to happen one day though.

nice to know its not just me getting pg signs thoght i was the only one! am really interested in the early pts though how would i get them?

Hi girls am bk
Had a nice afternoon today,went out and about and it actually took my mind off ttc for awhile
Although i've convinced myself that this months not my month,but trying not to beat myself up about it too much as its only my first month ttc!.xAf due on sun,and so far no symtoms either way,so who knows!.x

Just read your stats carly,so sorry for your m/c's
Sounds like you've got two lovely little ones though(and hopefully more round the corner!).x