Quick post (again - sorry). Erpc went well I think. Very little pain or bleeding. I woke up very upset but I think I expected that.
I was in theatre for 9.15 and home by 2.30pm after asking to leave (the dh visiting the woman opposite wouldn't shut up whilst I was trying to sleep, he kept taking calls, dragging his chair across the bloody floor and reading stupid newspaper articles to his disinterested wife).
Developed pins and needles in my legs when I got home which passed but then at 10pm I got them in my calves, and my left arm. Called the ward who arsely told me to go back. They put me in one of those crappy visitor rooms with the fake plants and uncomfy seats until midnight.
Junior doctor eventually turned up and said they probably squashed some nerves when moving me in my sleep on theatre, told me to go to GP if it goes on longer than 3 weeks and if it gets worse go to A&E because it's not a gynae problem. I did ask if I should go to A&E when I called but they said no, I'd only be sent to them anyway.
So today I have pins and needles in my hands and feet, wondering what to do.
Back to erpc, I was quite emotional afterwards. The nurse told me they take the remains to the crematorium near when we live and have a baby garden that we can visit anytime. I found that upsetting and comforting at the same time. There was not foetal pole at the2nd scan so I suppose I had no baby as such but it's comforting to have somewhere that the baby that would have been will be remembered.
DH seems to be passed the caring stage now, like I should be up and over it. He's quite thoughtless at times. So we're all my mums where she's looking after me.
Sorry - not that quick! Hope you're all doing well xx