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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC after a Miscarriage - no 2, let the fun begin!!!!

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Diddle · 25/05/2005 10:15

Here we go girls, a brand new thread, i was so fed up of paging down over the other 1000 messages.

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spacecadet · 05/06/2005 11:38

thankgoodness!

Diddle · 05/06/2005 11:42

Spacecadet - i don't think that there is anything wrong with the way you feel, it is totally understandable.

Humphreyscorner - Your Af will depend on so many things, my normal cycle is 35 days and af appeared on day 38 for me, and smiliar for lottielou there were only a few days if that many between us, But MaddyD has been waiting for at least 40 days now. it depends on how your body is doing i guess.
It will come eventually.

Rachelrog - have you managed to resist testing?? of has AF showed her face??

lottie lou - for you x

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RachelRog · 05/06/2005 12:13

Hi Diddle

Managed to resist as I think I wouldn't show positive yet....10 DPO today.

No signs of af yet or no signs of p/g.

This waiting drives me bonkers! Going to have a drive to Matlock with ds and dh today to take my mind off things. Got a new car on Weds so going to burn some rubber!!!

How are you feeling? What cd are you? I think you are further on in cycle than me but we ovulated same day.

When are u going to TEST???

Diddle · 05/06/2005 12:20

Rachelrog - I am cd25 and 9 past OV, i have investigated pg tests and you may see a BFP from 7dpo. I'm ready to test with you on Wednesday. although i don't think i'll get my 'P'. we will see.

have a great day burning rubber.

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spacecadet · 05/06/2005 12:38

ive just realised im 10dpo, when should i test???

Diddle · 05/06/2005 12:42

spacecadet - when is AF due?
you can test now if you want to. Quite a few of us are testing Wednesday morning as a bit of moral suppor to each other. My AF isn't due until a week after that as i have a long cycle.

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spacecadet · 05/06/2005 12:43

tuesday! diddle, i will wait until weds morn if you like and we can all test together!thats if af doesnt rear her ugly head in the meantime, trouble ismy boobs are really tender but it could be pre-menstrual symptons, i guess.

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 12:44

i feel sick!, think its nerves!

Diddle · 05/06/2005 12:51

could be pg symtoms spacecadet, but who knows. You are more than weclome to test with us on Wednesday if we all make it that long.

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spacecadet · 05/06/2005 12:53

im just dreading that af will come first

Diddle · 05/06/2005 12:59

that is understandable. I think i am fooling msyelf that i will be ok if i get a BFN or AF arrives. I will really be crushed. but it obviously wasn't the right time. If i get a BFN this time i think i will have to start being mega healthy an cutting out coffee and wine etc in an attempt to make my body more welcoming.

Fingers crossed for us all. Ltes hope this is our lucky month.

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spacecadet · 05/06/2005 13:33

i must resist the urge to test before tues, at least.

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 13:34

its really gut wrenching when you get that neg test ist it??

Diddle · 05/06/2005 13:54

yes it is, more than i ever realised it would be

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spacecadet · 05/06/2005 16:27

even more so when af arrives

Diddle · 05/06/2005 16:28

yep, but she might not arrive for us, you never know, it has to happen sometime surely.
Have you struggled to conceive before the m/c?

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Diddle · 05/06/2005 17:12

I have to ask you all to look at this thread, it had me reaching for the tissues, and its so true:

Strength of a Woman

It is SANDS awareness week this week, a time to remember our little ones.

Hope i don't make you all cry

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spacecadet · 05/06/2005 17:21

i dont normally have aprob getting preg, its hanging on to them, 3 miscarriages and 1
stillbirth.

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 17:22

oh im crying at that thread diddle

RachelRog · 05/06/2005 19:50

Hi. I am trying to post a bit more regularly so you don't forget me.

Just finished all the ironing and been watching baby programmes again on sky....MUST STOP!

I think I like rubbing salt in my wounds.....like picking at scabs or biting mouth ulcers.....it hurts but you just have to do it!!

Af due anytime.....m/c on March 22 and went 25 days before spotting for a week....no proper af.....then a neraly normal period 21 days later so have no idea how long my cycle is......this is so frustrating it is driving me mad.

Going to watch Coronation Street and eat!

Hope you are all well!

Diddle · 05/06/2005 20:58

How could we forget you rachelrog. It is lovely to hear from you more though. Seriously worried about you and your baby programmes.
One day they will be easier to watch.
You're cycle isn't too far out really. We'll see what happens this month, everything crossed for you.

Spacecadet - Makes you think doesn;t it that thread. So sorry you've been through so much.
Was the stillbirth full term or is there a certain point where a m/c becomes a stillbirth if you're further on?
Have they investigated any of it?

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HumphreysCorner · 05/06/2005 22:18

Sweet dreams ladies

x

Xena · 05/06/2005 22:34

What a nightmare IKEA was millions of people staff who made me run around all over the place. But my new living room looks good and the playroom looks all tidy for the mindees to mess up in the morning

GOODNIGHT ALL xx

spacecadet · 05/06/2005 22:48

diddle stillbirth wasat 26 weeks15 yearsago, placental abruption.

Diddle · 06/06/2005 08:09

morning everyone,

Its Monday again!!!

Hope you all had a good weekend.

[smle]

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