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Twenties ttc -- all aboard!!!!!

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seanybosmummy · 16/04/2009 15:46

Hey girls here's the new thread

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Kaylo · 29/06/2009 20:22

oh my god rach that really is insensitive!! Hope you're ok!!

rachxx · 29/06/2009 20:28

sorry I meant to write insensitive not unsensitive, oops

SuziBhoy · 30/06/2009 09:48

hey everyone, thanks for all your support!!

i went for another scan today. my bleeding got heavier this morning so i expected the worst! the sac is still there but they havent identified a yolk yet! there is some bruising that could have caused the bleeding but it could also be the pregnancy failing, so i guess im just waiting for something to happen! my bloods were taken so will get the results from those later!! I will keep you all posted! x

Kaylo · 30/06/2009 16:14

Big Hugs Suzi!! This must be such a difficult time for you xxx

Hope you're ok xxx

Kaylo · 30/06/2009 16:16

Meant to add "Keep Smiling if you can" with my random smiley face.

Thinking of You

Joy27 · 30/06/2009 17:07

Got everything crossed for you Suzi! A trawl through these boards shows that there are many many women who have had bleeding and gone on to have healthy pregnancies.

To me it's good news that they found a possible cause other than the pregnancy failing.

Really really hope all is well.

SuziBhoy · 30/06/2009 17:17

well looks like im going to miscarry!! hcg dropped and ive started to pass clots!! Heres to the next time!!

thanks for everyones support x

Antdamm · 30/06/2009 19:05

Suzi -
Sorry don't know what to say without sounding like a cliche.

Keep your chin up.

We are here for you.

x

whittywantababy6 · 30/06/2009 20:43

suzi I want you take deep breaths...and know that everyone is here for your support...you can scream, yell and cry just keep your head up hunny...

hope everyone is ok today

Kaylo · 30/06/2009 23:34

((((((hugs)))))

Don't know what to say, I'm sorry.

Like others have said, we're all here for you and will support as best we can through what is a horrible and cruel situation.

xxxxx

seanybosmummy · 01/07/2009 10:02

Oh suzi i am so so sorry, i have no idea what you must be going through right now but please know that we are all here if you need to talk. Try to stay strong xxxxxx

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Joy27 · 01/07/2009 12:00

Oh, Suzi, no!
I'm so sad to read your news. Look after yourself, take it easy... take time to grieve.
And yes, here's to the next time.
xx

Bubblebell1 · 01/07/2009 17:47

suzi im sorry babe... like i said on the other thread.... we are here when u want to talk about it.

How is everyone.

So....... clomid didnt work and progesterone level was 1.

gp said to start 100mg of clomid on monday if af hasnt arrived.

Antdamm · 01/07/2009 21:11

Hey ladies,

Sounds like we all need a holiday.

Bubble - sorry to hear about the clomid. Hopefully upping the dosage might help you. How was it taking the lower dose for you? Did you have many side effects?

Hope things are okay with others.

As for me, I still haven't a clue as to what is going on with my cycles. On Father's Day i thought AF had arrived, but she lasted about 4hours worth - sorry! - and hasn't been seen since. Which got my crazy head to thinkin that maybe it was implantation, but have been too scared to test. Didn't tell DP that technically I had a one day period.

Also I have terrible hayfever and am too scared to take any of the meds in case they mess with TTC - headcase I know - so I have been suffering with itchy eyes, nose and throat etc etc etc etc...... and I have been really sleepy, I even fell asleep on DP's legs two nights in a row at about 6o'clock - this, of course has only added to my crazy head and got me thinkin that I MUST be pg. Oh I need a slap.

Feel free to laugh at my craziness as a way to help you through your own troubled times.

I'm here to help

Kaylo · 01/07/2009 21:58

Hey Ant, maybe it's not that crazy - take a test anyway? Definite symptoms of what we all want to achieve...

Dare Ya!

Hope everyone is well x xx x

whittywantababy6 · 01/07/2009 23:39

ant I agree with kaylo test lady test...me Im holding out i have a 9 day luteal phase have been taking vitamin b complex and progesterone and today is 7 dpo for me and I had spotting for 2 hours at 4 dpo so will see...we all need something positve these days.

Hope everyone is ok.

suzi just thinking about you hunny.

Joy27 · 02/07/2009 10:51

So, Ant- you are late, and you had a short bleed when your period was due? I say do a test- the signs are good. I had a 1-2 day bleed (much lighter than normal) when af due in May, and turns out it was implantation. Do it! Then at least you'll know.

bubble I'm sorry to read about your disappointing test results. Hope you are feeling ok.

suzi how are you doing today?

SuziBhoy · 02/07/2009 14:08

thanks everyone for being so kind!!

I am actually feeling okay!! Been keeping myself busy at work even though my dp thinks im crazy to even be working atm! It seems to help with getting back to normality. Ha i actually got a letter through today with my appointment date for the fertility clinic which i was organising before i fell pg, so might just attend and see what they say.

ant (suzi chants) test test test test test no pressure

how is everyone? x

Antdamm · 03/07/2009 10:12

I'm too much of a wimp. Haven't tested yet. Haven't even got any tests in.

Am waiting on landlady coming round to measure up for new fridge - as of last week fridge is kaput - heating up stuff (yuk) rather than keeping it cool. Loads of salad items have gone off cos they weren't eaten fast enough and have discovered that my milk is lumpy (heave)

Have had strange feelings in my lower abdomen type area, and this morning I was up at 5:30 after going to bed at 1 and I couldn't sleep - but i DO suspect that this is because of the heat and nothing else.

So, after landlady comes up I will pop into town with DS and buy test (mind you tey only have cheeeeeeap ones from the 2euro store (poundshop) so I guess they will have to do.

Will that keep everyone happy?

Suzi - glad to hear that you are feeling okay and are working through it.

Joy - when are you telling your family then? Got a special occasion set up around it?

How is everyone else?

Joy27 · 03/07/2009 10:40

Oh ant keep us posted!

I have told most of my immediate family. Couldn't keep a secret like that from my mum or dad, and my sister guessed! Will tell my big bro when I see him next week (he lives elsewhere). Telling DP's family this weekend. Then everyone else will find out after 12 weeks (three weeks away). I can't wait til everyone knows, but given previous mc I'm wary about telling the world. Time is crawling...

Antdamm · 03/07/2009 11:11

Joy - I never told anyone til I was about 16wks including the doctor!! I was very busy with Uni and hadn't registered with new Docs after moving to DP's village 6 months previous.(Definitely would not be able to manage that again)
The only person who guessed was DP's dad and this was because I was SO interested in what DP looked like as a baby in all his pictures.

Meanbeansmum · 03/07/2009 14:24

Hi, I'm 28 mum of 3, ttc number 4. Not expecting anything soon as breastfeeding (although just 2 or three times a night, 17 month old) but a suprise would be lovely.

On cd 26 ish lol.

Joy27 · 03/07/2009 15:17

Welcome meanbeansmum. Blimey, at first I read that to mean you were ttc 2-3 times a night! (breaks out in cold sweat).

Good luck!

Antdamm · 03/07/2009 17:07

BFN

Do you think it will be okay for me to drown my sorrows tonight??

Antdamm · 03/07/2009 20:16

Echo echo echo

just aswell it wasnt a BFP then, where is everyone.

Someone come tell me something reassuring....