Step away from the first response and noone will get hurt... PART 2

[nunnie]

New thread ladies. For those that don't know this is a thread to discourage early testing, dissapointment and bank loans!!

STEP AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Aww hope it brought ters to yr eyes in a gd way!!! I am soo happy 4 u. I too have had 3mc's and of course my dd, nearly 8 and my ds, age 2 who has SN so I am worried sick about having another mc and of course anything happening to the baby like it did with my darling Jack

You knw it's funny u should say tht bout testing and getting the BFN, cos last time I was pregnant (mc Jan 08) or coulda bn when I was pregnant with Jack I can't remember

But I tested a day before AF was due, was totally BFN , and outta boredom I tested on day AF was due(was getting severe period pain, so don't even know why I tested!) and it was a BFP!! Hw strange hw it can change from 1 day to the next, so thts why I try not to rule out pregnancy til AF ACTUALLY due

And...try not to worry bout mmc, I know that is easier said than done, believe me I KNOW

But u will be fine!!! Soo happy 4 u....hope it is my turn ths mnth

Yes tears in a good way pme! Thanks for your reassurance about mc - I know its not something that can be controlled.

I hope its your turn too pme - I think you've got a good chance this month.

Congratulations Liskey!!! That's great news. xxxxxxx

Good, as long as it was "happy" tears

Yeah it is hard about mc's, because we cannot control them, I had 1 "normal" mc then two mmc so it is scary and devastating, but U will be ok, I hope I have a good chance too ths mnth! My boobs are really sore and bn feeling sick, although trying not to symptom spot

Well done Liskey congrats!!!!

Im with you pme its a nightmare i am symptom spotting and caved in and did a test this morning but still a bfn, i am feeling sick, but not sure if i'm trying to make myself feel sick to symptom spot!!!

I'm terrible for testing early well done liskey for not testing until now, i'm not very strong!

Are you going to try and wait until fri pme to do your next test?

Hey Angelfifi, this waiting is doing me in bigtime!!!

Yr AF due tomorrow???

I just CAN'T help test, I know Well done to Liskey for having the will power nt to test until then, I am sooo weak, unfortunately

I cannot wait til fri, no way, lol, but will prob test tmrw or wed

Wish I had the bloody strength to wait til Fri

Yeah my af is due 2morrow, but not giving much hope as i did a first responce test this morning as i have ran out of cheapies! And a bfn. Things are looking good for you though pme fingers crossed for you.

Du think??? I did a test ths morning and was neg, 4 days before AF due, I am about t give up hope....

Shiiiiiiit!!!

Had supermarket test lef, just 1 from asda, negative, somebody stop me PLEASSSSE xx

You seem to have good symptoms if your boobs are sore and your feeling sick, are you feeling tierd as well? All good signs.

Liskey YAY congratulations!

PME and Angelfifi sorry to hear about the BFNs - don't give up hope but do STOP TESTING!

Afternoon everyone else.

Yeh do feel tired too, but just did tht test from asda and negative, thnk we had x posts there

I think it's time pme to STEP AWAY, i know i'm a fine one to talk but thats 2 you have done today try to hold out until fri if you can.

Du think thts good sign I am not pregnant ths mnth then PL?xx

Hi PistachioLemon keep telling me that!!! as i'm due af tommorrow and still testing but with bfn so why i am still i dont know!! Not even hints of a line!! arghhhhhh!! I think we need help pme!!!

Yeah I soo do nd to step away til Friday dnt I? Think when coming on the thread it makes me test more as I see ppl gettn BFP'S

Need more self cntrl

We defo do need help Angelfifi

Yeah i know what you mean pme i think thats why i'm doing the same!!

Doesn't help does it?

It actually eggs me on when I see ppl are about to test or have got BFP's

I was a nightmare when trying for my Youngest too, but not THIS bad, and took 7 mnths, an only on mnth 2 of trying so.....

ok well lets be strong and do NO more testing, until fri at least, if my af hasn't arrived by then i will do one fri with you then we can be happy or dissapointed together, encourage each other and save money!!

Congratulation Liskey

PME STEP AWAY!!!!

Hello everyone elase

Hey PME, no, sorry I didn't mean that you are probably not pregnant - you've got good symptoms and it's still very possible that you could be pregnant, but it's also still likely to be too early to tell and the tests are not particularly reliable before your period is due (check the smallprint on the back of the FR packet and the instructions it'll give you the stats).

Plus, (and I am extremely guilty of this) symptom spotting for pregnancy is like symptom spotting for your period. For me anyway, every time I have thought that the symptoms could have been a little bean, it was just the witch on her way .

Your symptoms could be a little bean, BUT if you wait until Friday at least you'll be more certain of the result - realistically if you test again before then and it is another BFN, you won't believe the result until you get a later BFP or your period arrives...

Why not try starting an HPT fund? - like the swear box in reverse - every time you feel tempted put some money in and then you can splurge on something nice instead of the horrible opportunistic HPTs.

Hello Nunnie

How are you?

Angelfifi, ok, deal!

Then we can help each other through it, thanku!!

And yeah PL you are right, the stats are like 53% of women get correct results 3 days or 4 days before, but like 99% on day AF due

Should start a Hpt fund, thts a good idea, just nd more self control and willpower