Right. Down to business.
Bella glad to hear you're feeling rubbish iykwim Whoever would have thought feeling sick could be reassuring before we all entered this mad crazy world?! You know, I'd almost put money on you being further along than you think you are when you go for your scan. Fingers crossed you don't have too long to wait
Georgie sounds like a good plan re nuchal, we did exactly the same thing as for one reason and another I didn't register with my mw (useless cow) til I was about 10 weeks, so my nhs nuchal appt came through for 16 weeks which is too late to actually do a nuchal anyway... Are you going to have it before christmas? Am loving the Gillian McKeith tips btw
Mollie really glad to hear your consultant was so thorough. Whether to wait for the results before trying again is such a personal decision. For us, even now, after the results took so long and I'm still not pg I don't regret waiting. I needed the time to recover emotionally and I would never have forgiven myself if I'd put us both through another mc when it could have been avoided had I waited. I'm sure you'll know what feels right for you, just follow your instincts
Fruity & for your little mindee. The others are right, it puts you in a very difficult situation. If the mother's not coping, which it sounds like she isn't, you don't want to scare her away, but I don't see how you can say/do nothing Please let us know what you decide, I really hope the other threads are helpful.
Teehee glad you enjoyed the nativity! Won't be too long til you're watching your own LO performing! One of my good friends has just bought her 2yo DD a donkey outfit for chirstmas. Apparently she was it on the other night and was walking round the house going "eeeoor eeeoor" Awwwww! How did it go with the tree? I want to put ours up on sat but I'm not sure when we'll have time to buy it... My mum has a big thing about cutting the bottom off and leaving it stood in a bucket of water in the garden for a few days before bringing it inside... Any thoughts ladies??
Ok. Gossip time. Apologies in advance for over using the emoticon!
So you know we have these friends coming over on saturday. I phoned the ones with no baby on Tuesday just to let them know there would be a baby there in case they would rather stay at his parents than stay here as his parents only live about 3 miles away. He called back last night and spoke to DH and said that if there were other people coming too then they didn't want to come. He said they didn't want to be talking about babies all night and they were looking forward to catching up properly with us and if they couldn't do that they weren't coming... Which left DH and I in an incredibly awkward position. DH and the man, let's just call him D, used to be quite good friends. They lived together for a couple of years, but since D's been with his now wife he's changed enormously. For example, he used to be pretty laid back... DH has been thinking for a while that this is really make or break time so far as their friendship is concerned, which is quite something to say when you're 37 years old, as opposed to 7 years old. So we didn't feel we could cancel them as that would have effectively been curtains on the whole relationship (no bad thing in my view but DH wants to give it a go). So I had to make an incredibly embarrassing phonecall to the other couple to explain. Then DH phoned D back to tell him we'd cancelled the other couple and D said thanks very much, we really appreciate it!!! I just think it's so far beyond rude I'm absolutely gobsmacked!!! What do you ladies reckon?
So it will be a bundle of laughs on saturday... I need to work out what to say if they say "thanks very much, hope you didn't mind" Errr.. Yes, I did actually. Probably best not say that though
Phew. Rant over. It does sound like we have some really crap friends doesn't it? In fairness, we have 2 lots of crap friends and the rest are lovely. Thank goodness!
Hello to everyone I haven't mentioned. Better go and see if the puppy's wee-d all over the kitchen...