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First time TTC?!! Let's get through this together!! Part 2

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bluestarlavender · 08/08/2008 08:11

Hi guys, new thread for us to carry on!

BSL x

OP posts:
eth37 · 26/08/2008 22:05

Wow I have missed so much!! Hever and Flirty congrats!!!!what were first symptoms?? ooooo post details, I think I have missed them!! But what super news!!

MAF COngrats!! How was the big day?

Surfer ladies how was Wales?

FIRST TIME FROLICKERS
Frolicking Fiesta*
BubbaP - Cycle 2 - CD4
Bonifacio - Cycle 1 - CD 10
MAF - Cycle 1 - CD13
Dawn - Cycle 2 - CD? (Mc Augst '08 )
Saz - Cycle 2 - CD13
Vix - Cycle 3 - CD1
Fairywing - Cycle 1 - CD21
Bluestar - Cycle 3 - CD4
Summerbird - Cycle 6 - CD23 DPO 11
Wildfig - Cycle 2 - CD26
Eth37 - Cycle 2 - CD 21

FULLY PROFICIENT FROLICKERS
Flirty - 5 weeks - EDD 24 April 2009
Hever - ?? - EDD ??

fairywing wildfigand summerbird we are fairly similar. My cycles are 27 days long usually. Am concerned that may not have BDed at right time though - last pre-ov was CD12... Do you think this is too early? Maybe DH has hardy sperm...!

Hope everyone well xxx

summerbird · 26/08/2008 22:40

slight amendment to mine

FIRST TIME FROLICKERS Frolicking Fiesta
BubbaP - Cycle 2 - CD4
Bonifacio - Cycle 1 - CD 10
MAF - Cycle 1 - CD13
Dawn - Cycle 2 - CD? (Mc Augst '08 )
Saz - Cycle 2 - CD13
Vix - Cycle 3 - CD1
Fairywing - Cycle 1 - CD21
Bluestar - Cycle 3 - CD4
Summerbird - Cycle 6 - CD24 DPO 12
Wildfig - Cycle 2 - CD26
Eth37 - Cycle 2 - CD 21

FULLY PROFICIENT FROLICKERS
Flirty - 5 weeks - EDD 24 April 2009
Hever - ?? - EDD ??

Yep eth we are almost synched, i am not sure if i will AF early this month tho coz of my DPO, it sometimes does come early, so in the words of BSL i am frantically knicker checking from today! (even tho that is WAY too early). If it doesnt work this month i am dying to get onto the preseed next month

where have you been eth? our surftastic weekend was fab even though the weather was crap, but our jaunt to Bath was even nicer, i can highly recommend it as a romantic mini break.

just found out another work colleague is PG but for her as she is lovely!

saz007 · 27/08/2008 09:44

Morning all hope you're all doing ok and not too that the last bank holiday is now a distant memory.

I did have lots of vino over the bank holiday, it was DH's birthday at the end of last week so we celebrated with much vino!! Will be cutting down a little now tho, give my liver a well deserved rest!

Welcome back eth where have you been?

Fingers crossed Summerbird and Wildfig

Oh and welcome lottie

Updated mine....

FIRST TIME FROLICKERS**Frolicking Fiesta
BubbaP - Cycle 2 - CD4
Bonifacio - Cycle 1 - CD 10
MAF - Cycle 1 - CD13
Dawn - Cycle 2 - CD? (Mc Augst '08 )
Saz - Cycle 2 - CD15
Vix - Cycle 3 - CD1
Fairywing - Cycle 1 - CD21
Bluestar - Cycle 3 - CD4
Summerbird - Cycle 6 - CD24 DPO 12
Wildfig - Cycle 2 - CD26
Eth37 - Cycle 2 - CD 21

FULLY PROFICIENT FROLICKERS
Flirty - 5 weeks - EDD 24 April 2009
Hever - ?? - EDD ??

eth37 · 27/08/2008 10:04

Morning Saz and summerbird! Summerbird, I absolutely LOVE Bath, it is gorgeous. Only ever been for a day but I can imagine it is lovely for a weekend romantic break. Was the weather better there?

We had 5 days in Chamonix doing some amazing walks (one lasted 10 hours - took a wrong turning, didn't get back to our hotel 'til 8pm....!) then 5 days in Antibes where it was pretty damn hot. A couple of my uni friends were there as well so hung out with them too. It was lovely, I am in total post-hol depression mode now though!! Work tomorrow... GRoss!! DH is back today (he spent most of the last week stressing about it, grrrr).

Really can't believe we have had 2 BFPs this month - soooo amazing!!

Morning to everyone XX

Oooo updated for today:
FIRST TIME FROLICKERS
Frolicking Fiesta
BubbaP - Cycle 2 - CD5
Bonifacio - Cycle 1 - CD 11
MAF - Cycle 1 - CD14
Dawn - Cycle 2 - CD? (Mc Augst '08 )
Saz - Cycle 2 - CD16
Vix - Cycle 3 - CD2
Fairywing - Cycle 1 - CD22
Bluestar - Cycle 3 - CD5
Summerbird - Cycle 6 - CD25 DPO 13
Wildfig - Cycle 2 - CD27
Eth37 - Cycle 2 - CD 22

FULLY PROFICIENT FROLICKERS
Flirty - 5 weeks - EDD 24 April 2009
Hever - ?? - EDD ??

eth37 · 27/08/2008 13:25

Where is everyone today? (sad)
It is my last day before back to work and I am so traumatised! Just done 3 loads of post-hol washing, cleaned kitchen and now i need to vacuum and prepare self mentally for tomorrow!! Oh, and maybe go to the supermarket.....
How is everyone?? x

summerbird · 27/08/2008 15:37

hi eth of course i remember you went to chamonix, i gather there was no snow for skiing??!!

i am having a busy day at work today so just slipped on here to say hi. Am on 13DPO but just on CD25 so still confused as to when to be knicker checking!

i have to say tho that i have had a cheese pasty, sausage roll, doughnut and two cans of pop today..... so i am either PG or a fat pig!!!!!!

saz007 · 27/08/2008 16:08

Afternoon ladies!

Mental time at work at the mo' and I'm in on my own as my team-mate has called in sick...arrrgggh! Nothing to do with the fact we had a major release over the Bank Holiday weekend

Can't wait for 5 tonight, dying to get home!

Oooh Eth I liked Antibes! Did you go to the Seaquarium?

Summerbird you've made me hungry now and I've been trying to resist the vending machines calling me from downstairs

eth37 · 27/08/2008 16:37

No snow, summerbird, well apart from at 4000metres!! It was actually really hot and sunny apart from the day we got there (my birthday )when it was FREEZING and didn't stop raining!
Saz we didn't go to the seaquarium - I don't remember seeing one? Went to the Picasson museum and on lots of boats though! (And lots of nice restuarants...let the diet begin!!)

wildfig · 27/08/2008 16:51

eth Antibes! Wow. It's gorgeous out there - so old school glamorous and chic. What a brilliant holiday combo: Antibes and Chamonix - no wonder you're kind of now! Maybe you should put your shades and espadrilles on to go to the supermarket??

AF arrived here this morning for me, so am back to CD1, but on a positive note, we're definitely getting our 3 year old basset hound at the end of the month, and DH drove a mean bargain on the new car to put her in! I was quite in a good way with DH's manly negotiation skills; it was like watching Mad Men at close range. Everyone keeps saying, "ooh, dogs! They're such a TIE!" so am holding the enthusiastic words of the First Timers Dog Club close to my heart.

Better BFP luck summerbird , eth and fairywing!

heylottie · 27/08/2008 18:54

Hello ladies
Hope you are all well! Can I ask a novice-y question? What does CD mean? Days from the start of your last period? And then do I cut and paste the list? Wah!! What a luddite! Sorry!

I had my day 5 blood test today. Was a stoic.

Good luck this month - a baby at the end of May would be great wouldn't it?!!!

wildfig · 27/08/2008 19:05

CD is the first 'proper' day of your cycle - ie, red blood, not spotting. DPO is days post ovulation. If my Biology teacher could hear me now, he'd be stunned...

And well done on the bloods!

MichaelaS · 27/08/2008 19:05

Hello all! I am new on here today after searching the internet for early pregnancy symptoms! Hope I've picked up all the jargon correctly, if so I would be something like:

TTC #1
Cycle 3
CD 28 ( i think, but I lost the diary I was writing it down on and have had to guess....)

I have been reading this and finding it very reassuring - I am becoming very obsessed with the whole thing and even did a test last week "just incase" despite the fact that if i was PG it would be very unlikely to show positive already...

Anyway I am back up on a high hope because I've broken out in lots of horrible spots which is really not like me, so either my hormones are fighting back now they have been set free from years on the pill, or maybe i might be pregnant (hope!)

So now I am imagining extra sensitive smell and headaches and dizziness (which I get anyway from inner ear damage from a few years back). The very thought that I might be is making me look out for signs which are probably just PMT....

Anyway, hello and looking forward to TTC "with" you all!

Michaela

summerbird · 27/08/2008 19:10

evening michaela and welcome to our lovely thread! we are on a similar cycle, i am due AF this weekend, and i too have broken out in spots which is also unlike me (did get them up until about 25 and have been ok since) and i too am imagining dizziness and sickness!! i also couldnt finish a regular run i do at the gym last night so i convinced myself there and then i was PG (although 2 weeks of eating cake must have contributed too!!).

wildfig boo on the AF but to all the excess BDing and vino this month!

thats another thing michaela we have regular cyber parties on here, dont know if you caught MAFs civil ceremony a couple of weeks ago - we were all boogying on the pink champagne!!

wildfig · 27/08/2008 19:11

CD1 is first day, sorry. Dur.

And PS, I had the most horrendous fibroids too, so can totally sympathise on that front! I had 2lbs of them snipped during a myomectomy at St George's 2 years ago, with several students watching, and taking multiple photos, which they presented me with afterwards. Whenever anyone threatens to show me their gruesome birth pics, I like to get my fibroid snaps out. Favourite quote from nurses: "You know what they call fibroids in Jamaica, love? A DISAPPOINTED WOMB."

[rolling eyes and v signs icon]

MichaelaS · 27/08/2008 19:20

Hello summerbird and wildfig - thanks for the welcome!

I also could not manage a run at the gym, but blamed it on their aircon breaking meaning it was about 40 degrees in there.... hmmm maybe we are having oddly similar symptoms though!

wildfig - my sister has just been diagnosed with fibroids after an operation to remove a huge dermoid cyst on one of her ovaries. Hope she is ok - any tips?

speak soon all!
Michaela

heverhoney1 · 27/08/2008 19:33

Hey all- despite BFP I am still not convinced I am up the duff! I dont feel any different, although I have a feeling all my spots are gonna join together so my face turns into 1 big SPOT.

Welcome back Eth you were missed and welcome to all newcomers.

I prefer it here to the Anti natal thread we are all such fun and friendly people. I would say I want to come back here but I dont I want you all to me coming over there so we can have a FULLY PROFIICIENT FROLICKERS THREAD!!!

FIRST TIME FROLICKERS
Frolicking Fiesta
BubbaP - Cycle 2 - CD5
Bonifacio - Cycle 1 - CD 11
MAF - Cycle 1 - CD14
Dawn - Cycle 2 - CD? (Mc Augst '08 )
Saz - Cycle 2 - CD16
Vix - Cycle 3 - CD2
Fairywing - Cycle 1 - CD22
Bluestar - Cycle 3 - CD5
Summerbird - Cycle 6 - CD25 DPO 13
Wildfig - Cycle 2 - CD27
Eth37 - Cycle 2 - CD 22

FULLY PROFICIENT FROLICKERS
Flirty - 5 weeks - EDD 24 April 2009
Hever - 4 weeks 4 days - EDD 2nd May I think

wildfig · 27/08/2008 20:07

Poor your sister, Michaela! Fibroids are actually pretty common, but they go unnoticed most of the time - it's something worth checking out, if TTC seems to be taking a while. I found about mine because I lost some weight and realised that the lump in my tummy wasn't, in fact, my spleen . How serious they are really depends how big they've grown, and whether they're on the inside or the outside of the uterus - inside, they take up room a baby needs and are trickier to remove because you need to cut into the uterus wall, outside, they can either be snipped off the stem they grow on, 'embolised' by injecting a little block into the vein that feeds them, or 'shelled' out from just under the outer layer.

I had the full myomectomy, which is a fairly routine operation, but there's a 1/100 chance that if the bleeding becomes too much, the surgeon has to perform an emergency hysterectomy, so unless it's causing problems (interfering with implantation/painful periods, etc), most people just leave them, and they often shrink after the menopause. Not really sure how much diet can affect them. I put my operation off for as long as I could, and havered for ages about the risks but everything was absolutely fine (apart from the hospital food; if anyone's thinking about having their baby at St George's Tooting, I strongly recommend a packed lunch).

Sorry about fibroid lecture, everyone else. Before I was a pregnancy symptom expert, I was a part-time fibroid specialist.

heylottie · 27/08/2008 20:49

Ah ha - my fibroid (removed five years ago with myomectomy) was compared to a PINEAPPLE by the surgeon. Oh yes.

Fruit wise I have three fibroids remaining - two grapes and a kumquat (spelling?). So am not too bothered, unless they become bananas.

So I am

TTC 1
Cycle 7 (oh god how depressing)
CD5

Vix67 · 27/08/2008 20:54

Hi Everyone,

Welcome Michaela don't worry about feeling obsessed with the whole ttc thing, it is completely natural and this is a great place to have a good rant aboiut how ur feeling with people who completely understand!!

Wildfig im sorry about your nasty AF, me and you are on similar cycles, so fingers crossed we will have BFP's together next month!! Bet you cant wait to get your dog, believe me they are fairly tying but TOTALLY worth it!! And they are definetley good practice for the real thing!! ( a baby!! )

I am off work this week, had some holidays to put in so have just been spring cleaning and gyming it and dog walking this week. It's going far too fast and would love to be a lady of leisure full time!!

Hope everyone is well xx

wildfig · 27/08/2008 20:56

Blimey! A pineapple! With or without the spikes?! Why DO surgeons go down the 'greengrocer' route? I had a fruit basket of apples and grapefruit. Suppose it's better than the initial size diagnosis, which was '12 week foetus'. I went red and roared at the specialist that, considering I was risking sterilisation at 32, it was an inappropriate comparison to make. He looked surprised and said, 'Oh yes, I'd never really thought of it like that.' FFS.

wildfig · 27/08/2008 21:05

vix absolutely! June is the month...! x

Vix67 · 27/08/2008 21:19

Yeah sounds good and we can have all summer off with our little babas!!

heylottie dont feel too bad, you will get there in the end!! This site is great and you will get loads of tips to help you along the way!!

xx

summerbird · 27/08/2008 22:19

oh my gawd wildfig i cant believe that specialists comment about the foetus!!! they really should teach tact at medical school, bliddy doctors really annoy me..! although my GP is wonderful, when i passed out at work in March during a mammoth AF i went to see her a week later and she referred me for all kinds of tests hence my laparoscopy.

heverhoney stay with us, i too thought we could have a fully proficient frolickers thread when we are all successful (as we all will be - i am feeling it with us!!)

nighty night everyone
x

summerbird · 27/08/2008 22:22

ps wildfig i used to live in Sutton so i have had an operation at St Georges in Tooting - i felt like i was in a pre-war hospital - it is a bit archaeic!! I am v lucky tho as where i work now has private healthcare so i went to a Spire Hospital for my laporoscopy, they even looked after DH with cups of tea etc - it was like a hotel!!

Linwin · 27/08/2008 22:24

Hi everyone,

Haven't been on MN for over a month as I became so obsessed with TTC that I scared myself never mind my poor DH.

Dawn I was so sorry to hear about your MC but amazed and slightly in awe of how pragmatic you have remained. You are such an example to the rest of us.

So turns out I'm just as obsessive either with or without MN, and this weekend had totally convinced myself I was PG - every symptom under the sun, however today my old friend AF showed up on CD 38 - blooming cheek!

Also, and maybe I'm just being paranoid here, been TTC for last 2 cycles only and have had the worst, heaviest and most irregular AF's ever. Humpf.

Anyway, how lovely to be back amongst such supportive girls. Congratulations to those who have little bumps and good luck to the rest of us, heres to happy summer babies!

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