STILL no period!

[sureitsno3]

Exactly 2 weeks late now, haven't done a test for a few days as don't see much point really, but being 2 weeks late bit weird isn't it?

Saying that though dh & i have had a couple of nights of romantic behaviour since lol .

Sure - pop over to the wagon thread and let us know how you are getting on. And don't worry, I have a similar situation re GP so I get why you can't be bothered going (back) down that route .

Catch up soon!

SureitsNo3...if you are lurking, please come and let us know how you are?

Am I going to have to start two threads to find you?!

Sureitsno3, as reachoutandteuch says please let us know how your getting on, have been following your threads the last few weeks too.

LGOR....thanks for asking

My AF finally made an appearance today, exactly 3 weeks late and here with avengance feels like 2 periods in one its that bad, lol.

Have started a new thread shouting you to update Reachoutandteuch

Thanks for letting us know - have been wondering too...How do you feel now you know?

Remains to be seen if you'll be namechanging to 'tryingforno3' in the near future then I guess? (feel free to ignore Q)

Ok,holds hands up, Twas me can't be arsed changing my name again to reply

You know what, i don't know how i feel tbh, feel glad and a tiny weeny bit gutted, had sort of spent the last 3 weeks on a roller coaster, so i had kinda got my head around it all.

Don't think i am brave enough to actively TTC, so i don't really know what happens now. Like most people i have days where i think, god no! (dd is 4 ds is 21 mth) when they drive me potty, but then they get on really well together too, and i suppose i could imagine another along side them.

Another big thing for me, is we will prob never move house now, love where we live, love the house, and it is only 3 bed, dd has her room, ds has his, would mean one would have to share...i know that sounds ridiculous!

There is so many things to think of, plus i have only just returned to work, and i am loving the freedom (and the dosh lol).

Who knows

Glad you have some resolution although, as you say, t'is short-lived as you now have the ttc dilemma

Well, after the last few weeks, I guess you are not looking for any immediate drama!

And anyway...you used up your thread quota

OMG, so sorry I had missed all of this Pucca, I have been away for the last week or so.

Come back on the wagon thread, we'll give you the guts to go for it

Y'know you wanna....!!

pucca, sorry you've had such an emotional rollercoaster for it to end like this.

at least you know now though and if you do decide to ttc it'll be a concious decision that you can enjoy rather than the awful panic of the early stages of a surprise pregnancy.

{{{{hugs}}}}

(was completely wrong about who you were btw )

Thanks everyone, and thanks for putting up with me through all this

No problem, that's what we're here for.

Good luck

Ok, i am back again

Need some more advice from all you knowledgable people lol.

My period has now gone! started bleeding late Monday night, and has now just disappeared no tailing off, nothing, normally have 5 days of it, with the last day being dark and slowly diminishing...what is my body playing at?

Pucca, have you been on any meds for anything? Or started/stopped any hormonal contraception?

I think if you are worried you need to get insistant with your arse of a GP, or see the nurse or something. You can't carry on like this for much longer, it must be driving you mad.

Hey NJ, no nothing. Its completely disappeared, have never had this before even when i did come off the pill to get pg with my 2 dc.

I had 2 days of bleeding and now nothing.

OK I am going to say this now, and it might not be the case, but I think you need to know what it could be to make you go to the doc's and get it sorted.

You felt pregnant when this all started. You got BFP's that we all saw. You then got neg's and no bleeding. Than only a little bit of bleeding. It sounds to me like you have possibly had a MC, but if that is the case, and you only had two days of bleeding, then it is possible that you still have some retained products inside, that can be very dangerous, you really do NEED to get this sorted out Pucca.

Sorry if that sounds OTT, but it is the truth.

I wish there was something I could do that would give you all the answers...

Ok. I will get my mum to sit with the kids while i go and have a chat with my doctor.

The other thing that comes into it all i think, is i bought some cheap ov tests as a test bundle, and when i did ov tests on the 4th i got pos, i really don't know what the hell is going on.

Have done nothing but pee on sticks for the past month.

You got a pos OV stick on the 4th of May??

You really do need to see the doc/nurse. Get it all sorted out once and for all.

Hope you can get an appointment today.

I feel a tit though, what am i going to say " well i didn't get a period for 3 weeks, then i got one, but now its disappeared!"

No, explain everything, you felt pregnant, you got positive tests, then negative tests, then the short bleed. I am no doctor, and if I can work out that something is going on here, then I am sure he can as well.

People don't get BFP's unless they are pregnant or on certain meds, it just doesn't happen. So at some point you were pregnant, now whether that is a MC in the traditional sense or a chemical pregnancy, is neither here nor there as it ammount's to the same thing, the point is now you're not pregnant anymore, but you haven't bled enough (by the sounds of it) to expell everything.

If he thinks you are a tit, change doctors, seriosuly.

I know what you are saying, but if this is the case, how could i have OV'd on the 4th? also i am now starting to think i wasn't pg in the first place, as the tests only ever had a slight faint line, or was there a line at all?

some people say they can always see a second line, especially on these cheaper ones.

I really don't think i was pg now, think it was just my body playing silly beggers, and i put 2 + 2 together and came up with 7