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January TTC Support Group 💚

985 replies

MyGardenDaisies · 10/12/2024 14:03

Hello!

Since I created the December one, making one for January!

A supportive place to chat for those that are:

  • starting to TTC in January
  • will be testing ovulation/pregnancy in January

all welcome! 🤗

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SarahB88 · 16/01/2025 08:17

Think I’m out! I’ve got some spotting and frer was a stark white negative. So annoying after all those positive signs!!

MummyV2021 · 16/01/2025 08:32

SarahB88 · 16/01/2025 08:17

Think I’m out! I’ve got some spotting and frer was a stark white negative. So annoying after all those positive signs!!

Sorry to hear that lovely! Our bodies don't half play tricks on us during this journey! Sending hugs 😘

Mumzydarling12 · 16/01/2025 08:46

@Tally89 i had a CP aswell this month and on day 6 now and it’s a lot heavier than my usual AF normally AF is only 3/4 days. It’s really crap, feel for you. Hopefully our bodies will bounce back quickly enough.
Ahhh@SarahB88 so sorry you think your out this month 😞 it’s so weird what our bodies do and trick us! There have been months when I was convinced I was pregnant and then nothing! It’s the same with testing…wishing so badly for a line then convincing myself there is one! Driving me insane! Devastated when i actually got a clear positive this month the AF showed the next day. Moving on to cycle 9 now TTC, still holding out hope and have moved over to the Feb TTC support group aswell. Wishing you all BFP, hopefully we will all get our bundles of joy soon ☺️x

DogMum99 · 16/01/2025 08:46

BerrieSweet · 13/01/2025 14:48

@DogMum99 Oh maybe!! I hope It's even stronger tomorrow😍

99% sure I'm out as I'm spotting and still BFN yesterday morning. 🫠 My AF is so off, 3 days late and only spotting, no cramps. I always have heavy flow very quickly and pretty bad cramps so something feels weird but maybe I'm just over-analyzing it 🥰

Oh bless yous! Sorry I've been working nights so haven't had a chance to reply but have you had any further progress? AF arrived? I hope you've had some progress either way- at least you know for this month then! Bless yous ❤️ x

DogMum99 · 16/01/2025 08:51

Apologies for the fingers covered in talcum powder but… I was right with my 6dpo test! 9dpo and the line is so much more visible this morning, and that’s not even fmu as I’ve been at work all night. I honestly can’t believe it 🥰🥹 x

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Miffy1994 · 16/01/2025 09:12

13dpo here, had some spotting late last night and got this test this morning… am I delusional or can anyone else see a line?!

January TTC Support Group 💚
BerrieSweet · 16/01/2025 09:19

Miffy1994 · 16/01/2025 09:12

13dpo here, had some spotting late last night and got this test this morning… am I delusional or can anyone else see a line?!

I can see a faint line 😍

BerrieSweet · 16/01/2025 09:19

DogMum99 · 16/01/2025 08:51

Apologies for the fingers covered in talcum powder but… I was right with my 6dpo test! 9dpo and the line is so much more visible this morning, and that’s not even fmu as I’ve been at work all night. I honestly can’t believe it 🥰🥹 x

Congratulations!!😍

SB0 · 16/01/2025 10:16

CustardCream31 · 15/01/2025 06:19

Pretty sure I'm out this month... now around 13dpo, period due within the next couple of days. Still negative on 10miu tests each morning the last few days 😔
So disheartening. Good luck everyone ✨

Same here, 13 DPO and still negative on the super early strips… hoping for some miracle but pretty sure I’m also out. Desperately hoping we get our positives soon! I have a 3.5 year old and have had 3 miscarriages since, TTC for 2 years now. Trying to stay positive and sending some your way too!

SB0 · 16/01/2025 10:20

Tally89 · 15/01/2025 10:50

Hey guys can I ask, for those who have had a CP, how long you bled for? I normally only bleed for 3 days with my period. I've now been bleeding for a week and it seemed to calm a bit but then this morning it's started up again. Testing negative now too.

I have had a few CP and definitely find that my period is heavier & longer afterward - I think it’s normal. Doesn’t make it any easier though, I understand what you’re going through…

CustardCream31 · 16/01/2025 10:28

Morning @SB0
Sorry you've got the same dilemma....
I've come on today... so on to a new cycle and fingers crossed for Feb! Wishing you lots of luck back.

littlefox90 · 16/01/2025 10:31

Miffy1994 · 16/01/2025 09:12

13dpo here, had some spotting late last night and got this test this morning… am I delusional or can anyone else see a line?!

I can see a faint one too 🤞

JemC85 · 16/01/2025 10:34

Hey, My first post 🙃 ttc since sept and this is the first cycle I've actually felt like its worked. I'm driving myself crazy because I'm only 7dpo, pretty sure its too early for symptoms lol.

Really wish i could snap out of it because I'm going to be extra disappointed if its negative. So joined this chat in the hope you guys can get me through the next few days lol. no one knows we are ttc so ive no one to talk to x

littlefox90 · 16/01/2025 10:34

Hi does anyone monitor BBT? The Premom app keeps suggesting it however I also work both nights and days so the mornings I would be coming off my night shift I would have to skip? Wondering if it would still work if I did that or just not to bother. This is my 4th cycle measuring LH. Not out yet this month but just thinking ahead.
I've got another 8 days in the TWW 🙄

JemC85 · 16/01/2025 10:39

littlefox90 · 16/01/2025 10:34

Hi does anyone monitor BBT? The Premom app keeps suggesting it however I also work both nights and days so the mornings I would be coming off my night shift I would have to skip? Wondering if it would still work if I did that or just not to bother. This is my 4th cycle measuring LH. Not out yet this month but just thinking ahead.
I've got another 8 days in the TWW 🙄

i have tracked it this month but in all honesty, ive no clue what the results mean anyway 😂

Wisher88 · 16/01/2025 10:40

SarahB88 · 15/01/2025 09:15

Ah just checked I’m 10DPO not 9! Clear blue website tells me I can’t use their digital test til tomorrow based on my ovulation date I know I’ve tested early but a bit disappointed that nothings showing up at 10DPO

I had nothing at 10dpo but positive the day or two after. Now I've got this whopper a week later.
Please don't worry if no early BFP !

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SB0 · 16/01/2025 10:49

CustardCream31 · 16/01/2025 10:28

Morning @SB0
Sorry you've got the same dilemma....
I've come on today... so on to a new cycle and fingers crossed for Feb! Wishing you lots of luck back.

Sorry to hear - but we will keep going I guess! See you in the Feb thread!

littlefox90 · 16/01/2025 11:20

JemC85 · 16/01/2025 10:34

Hey, My first post 🙃 ttc since sept and this is the first cycle I've actually felt like its worked. I'm driving myself crazy because I'm only 7dpo, pretty sure its too early for symptoms lol.

Really wish i could snap out of it because I'm going to be extra disappointed if its negative. So joined this chat in the hope you guys can get me through the next few days lol. no one knows we are ttc so ive no one to talk to x

Hi Jem welcome 😊 I'm only a day be kind you at 6dpo. The TWW is horrid. I'm really trying to hold out until 14 dpo this month as I kept testing too early and then convincing myself that the BFN was because I'm testing too early so not believing it anyway 😂 really does drive us crazy!

SarahB88 · 16/01/2025 11:27

Wisher88 · 16/01/2025 10:40

I had nothing at 10dpo but positive the day or two after. Now I've got this whopper a week later.
Please don't worry if no early BFP !

Thank you but I tested today at 11DPO and it was BFN then I started spotting so think I’m out

JemC85 · 16/01/2025 11:30

littlefox90 · 16/01/2025 11:20

Hi Jem welcome 😊 I'm only a day be kind you at 6dpo. The TWW is horrid. I'm really trying to hold out until 14 dpo this month as I kept testing too early and then convincing myself that the BFN was because I'm testing too early so not believing it anyway 😂 really does drive us crazy!

how are you feeling?do you feel any symptoms. its so early so im not sure if im just imaging symptoms coz i want them to be there lol x

Marie1990x · 16/01/2025 12:30

Hi ladies.

Been super quiet on here since the beginning of the month.
Congratulations to those who have got their BFP’s this month 😍.

Does anyone have any remedies to make AF arrive?? I’m 3 days late. BFN’s on tests so definitely not pregnant (it was a long shot anyway as we hardly dtd). No sign of AF and I have my next fertility tests coming up and really don’t want to have to delay them if AF decides to show her ugly face then 😩

Lavenderrose92 · 16/01/2025 12:50

JemC85 · 16/01/2025 10:34

Hey, My first post 🙃 ttc since sept and this is the first cycle I've actually felt like its worked. I'm driving myself crazy because I'm only 7dpo, pretty sure its too early for symptoms lol.

Really wish i could snap out of it because I'm going to be extra disappointed if its negative. So joined this chat in the hope you guys can get me through the next few days lol. no one knows we are ttc so ive no one to talk to x

what systems do you have?
im also 7dpo 🤞🏻

Alex2022 · 16/01/2025 15:54

12DPO today, I tested on 9DPO but it was negative, don't want to test again to avoid any disappointment. I have really tender breasts the last week (more so than usual) & have had different feeling in my abdomen but who knows, maybe it's all in my head, these TTW are a killer!!

MrsH26 · 16/01/2025 17:03

So the last 3 nights I’ve fallen asleep on the sofa at 9, which is very unusual for me.
Dinner last night (tuna and cheese) made me feel real sicky.
so I caved in and tested! 10DPO last night and 11DPO this morning. I’ve got a digital for Sunday or Monday when AF is due

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littlefox90 · 16/01/2025 17:25

JemC85 · 16/01/2025 11:30

how are you feeling?do you feel any symptoms. its so early so im not sure if im just imaging symptoms coz i want them to be there lol x

Last month I did, and was absolutely convinced that I was but wasn't so this month I've tried to ignore them. Was very tired last night, felt a bit sick too and had some cramping but just trying to keep calm and tell myself it could be anything xx