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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Lucky october?🤞🏼

698 replies

Emiily887 · 25/09/2024 19:09

Hi ladies, I’ve just started a new thread for us to continue the support🩷

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moosey89 · 08/10/2024 12:27

Had ovulation spotting yesterday, positive ovulation test today. I only get it occasionally, it's so random! So today/tomorrow left and then into another 2ww.

curliegirlie · 08/10/2024 12:49

I imagine I'm out now. BFN with a Boots early at around 10dpoish (AF due around Friday). After 33 or 34 cycles I think it's probably time for me to hang up my cape and face reality that #3 ain't happening. Good luck all....

MyGardenDaisies · 08/10/2024 13:27

@curliegirlie I’m sorry :/
what does your gynaecologist say?

LuxyLocket · 08/10/2024 13:29

@moosey89 We’re around the exact same time! Had peak fertility for LH surge on opk yesterday and lots of stabby ovulation pain today with ewcm so it’s got it right I think! I’m cd14 today. First time using opk.
we dtd day 12 and today day 14 so think we’re covered. Last cycle was 4 times and we were both tired out by the end of it especially around working hours. I like how with the opk you can focus on the right days and takes the pressure off having to dtd lots and lots.
how are you feeling?

@curliegirlie im sorry to hear about your bfn , 💕 it’s so hard. I would say it’s good you’re protecting yourself and being realistic but you’re definitely not out yet. There is still time, some women don’t see a line til a bit later

Emiily887 · 08/10/2024 16:09

Still negative opk for me, slightly darker so hoping it’s on the rise.
BBT dropped this morning but it’s the first time ever tracking it this cycle so still a little new to it! We shall see, I think I will ovulate Thursday or Friday xx

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MrsS11 · 08/10/2024 16:45

@curliegirlie I'm so sorry, that's a long tough ride.
Cd14 and I think maybe I ovulated yesterday but I think I need to stop buying tests (I've run out, probably a good thing) for a while, they're making me soooo stressed over numbers. Are the more expensive ones less stressy? I'm using easy@home and I think my lh peak is very quick.

HA22 · 08/10/2024 16:57

Positive ovulation test today CD15, does that mean from tomorrow i'm 1DPO?

@MrsS11 Do I remember properly but were you on a similar thread due date July/August 2022?

moosey89 · 08/10/2024 17:28

@LuxyLocket ah cool always good to have a cycle buddy! I'm ok, been TTC for so long now I can't even imagine bringing a baby home lol so it's just part of my routine if that makes sense 🤣 how about you?

AnonymousSGJB · 08/10/2024 17:50

LuxyLocket · 08/10/2024 11:40

@AnonymousSGJB I had lots of ‘signs’ last cycle ttc similar to the signs I had last time in the tww when I had conceived and I wasn’t pregnant so the mind and body do definitely play cruel tricks on us.
I also had the veiny boobs both times!!! I know it’s soo easy to say and I probably won’t stick to this but going to try and relax a bit more and not obsessively symptom spot this time. Wishing you all the baby dust for this cycle! Where abouts in your cycle are you?

I'm at 5dpo but I ovulated early this cycle. After last months disappointment, I wasn't exactly reaching for the OPK in a hurry this time. The first day I tested the serge had already begun. I didn't test again until a day & a half later (as I was very busy) and my LH was back to baseline. Still managed to squeeze in 1 attempt but my breast have been sore since the end of my period which has never happened before so I've no idea what's going on 😅 How long have you been trying for? I swear when your mind wants you to get pregnant, your body resists it. My bfs sister (my age) got pregnant accidentally whilst taking contraception 🤦🏽‍♀️

MrsS11 · 08/10/2024 21:28

@HA22 yes you have an amazing memory! I can never remember who said what on threads or WhatsApps. I had my wee boy (DC3) in August, I have kind of dropped out of the WhatsApp and fb group as i had a very late miscarriage in July and its all been a bit traumatic tbh. Are you trying for #2?

HA22 · 08/10/2024 21:33

@MrsS11 i thought i was going crazy! omg i'm so sorry to hear that! you had dc3 in 2022 or 2023? and was your mc this july? wishing you all the best this month x

MrsS11 · 08/10/2024 22:04

HA22 · 08/10/2024 21:33

@MrsS11 i thought i was going crazy! omg i'm so sorry to hear that! you had dc3 in 2022 or 2023? and was your mc this july? wishing you all the best this month x

Yes so I have a 9,7 and 2yo and had a MC this year. Sending baby dust!

han311 · 08/10/2024 22:09

Hi ladies how are we all doing? I believe I am 5dpo today and after what felt mostly like a typical luteal day, tonight I've had an abundance of what looks and feels like EWCM after going for a wee! This happened a couple of days ago but I thought it was lingering from O, so to find this was v confusing! I know it's too early for 'symptoms' but it did take me by surprise! 🤣 Hope you are all doing well! Xx

Justbloodylovecrisps · 08/10/2024 22:41

Hey everyone! Can I join please?

Think I ovulated yesterday or maybe today after my peak 2 days ago. About to enter the dreaded TWW send help..

Would love to have some ladies to chat to because I find it so long and a bit lonely! X

MyGardenDaisies · 08/10/2024 23:03

I have gone ahead and bought my husband multivitamins and also vitamin B complex for myself, and if I’m not pregnant next week, I’ll buy Agnus Castus as well and take daily 1g of vitamin C, as I’ve just scared myself that I have a short luteal phase (10 or 11 days). Anyone else has a short one? How is it even counted properly? Does it start 2 days after peak on ovulation tests, so 1 day after ovulation? 😩

HA22 · 08/10/2024 23:26

@Justbloodylovecrisps ooh exciting! the 2ww is my fave because i love symptom spotting strangely! my peak was today so i assume ill ovulate and bd tomorrow and then thursday will be 1dpo i think? all the best xx

HA22 · 08/10/2024 23:27

@MrsS11 aw how lovely! is this your first cycle trying following your mc? x and yes, trying for number two and hoping for a DD x

AnonymousSGJB · 09/10/2024 06:42

curliegirlie · 08/10/2024 12:49

I imagine I'm out now. BFN with a Boots early at around 10dpoish (AF due around Friday). After 33 or 34 cycles I think it's probably time for me to hang up my cape and face reality that #3 ain't happening. Good luck all....

Have you tried using a fertility cup? Apologies if you've been there and done that but I've heard really good things about them. Apparently one of the biggest challenges of conceiving is the number of healthy sperm that actually survive the journey to the fallopian tube, even the ones that do (if any) have a 50% of going the right way 😂 I'm still quite earlier on in my journey but I got a cheap one off eBay so I have high hopes 🤞🏽 You must be very strong to power through so many cycles TTC, it's very mentally and emotionally draining. Good luck though, sounds like you deserve some success after trying so long.

owlcat24 · 09/10/2024 07:40

@HA22 @MrsS11 I was also on the July/Aug 22 thread and the fb group and WhatsApp 👀👀👀

Justbloodylovecrisps · 09/10/2024 07:42

@HA22 I need to be more like you, I absolutely dread the TWW!

Oh you're not far behind me! Sending possy vibes this month 🤞🏻 x

AnonymousSGJB · 09/10/2024 07:54

Justbloodylovecrisps · 09/10/2024 07:42

@HA22 I need to be more like you, I absolutely dread the TWW!

Oh you're not far behind me! Sending possy vibes this month 🤞🏻 x

Me too! I dread the TWW so much, I have to take breaks from TTC for my own sanity 🤦🏽‍♀️😅 I think the TWW for me has a negative impact on TTC from the stress of it. Catch-22 😅

Justbloodylovecrisps · 09/10/2024 08:57

@AnonymousSGJB it's so hard for us women isn't it! Wish we didn't have to wait so long to find out. I guess in the grand scheme of things it's not even long, but I am so impatient 🤣

I totally get having a break, I'm thinking of having a month off over Xmas so I can just enjoy myself x

LuxyLocket · 09/10/2024 09:23

Morning ladies and welcome all the new joiners! Sending baby dust to all those entering the tww!
I’m 1DPO so here we go! Trying not to think about it as much this cycle though.
I had a smear test this morning which I hope won’t affect our chances of conceiving or anything. I think it’s far too early still as if we have conceived sperm would only have just met egg so surely a scrape on the cervix won’t cause any issues there. I know you’re not meant to have it when pregnant but surely this early is alright. It’s all very microscopic at this stage! just wanted to fit it in incase we do get pregnant!

HA22 · 09/10/2024 10:21

owlcat24 · 09/10/2024 07:40

@HA22 @MrsS11 I was also on the July/Aug 22 thread and the fb group and WhatsApp 👀👀👀

omg no way! what are the chances! i don't recognise your username but there were so many of us x is the whatsapp group any good? i've asked to be added to it but it didn't work at the time so i didn't bother

MrsS11 · 09/10/2024 19:14

owlcat24 · 09/10/2024 07:40

@HA22 @MrsS11 I was also on the July/Aug 22 thread and the fb group and WhatsApp 👀👀👀

Oooh that's funny! Hopefully we bring some luck with us! This isy 3rd cycle post MC, I feel time is ticking very loudly as my oldest is 10 this month