TTC after loss part 5

[Ella31]

Just continuing our old thread. I've added anyone who has asked to stay on here. As always, anyone who is trying after a loss is welcome to join and those who have been lucky since are welcome to encourage those who are still waiting for their rainbow (if you want to stay of course )

Also for the next thread, I'm going to let someone else take over creating the new one if people don't mind. I've a lot on at the moment with tests and I'm back to work in the next few weeks after my bereavement leave with my boys. So if anyone would like to take the mantle, feel free.

Im 2dpo today and have another ultrasound on Wednesday to see if follicle has burst followed by pdg blood test.

@Onthedouble123
@DonnaWhat
@moosey89
@Bellebg
@Lovedatforme
@Ncl31
@PearlCat
@LucyCL
@CadoAvo
@ThelastRolo20
@Figtree11

Although I don't post much on this thread, I still read it every day just to see how everyone is doing. 🙂I feel positive for all of us here!

Congratulations

@MisssMarion @Bellebg yayyy big congratulations!
Always good to hear good news. Especially gives me hope @Bellebg with your cycles a bit all over the place like mine have.

Let’s hope the good news continues for us all!

Thank you, I agree distraction for me is key. I find the weekend easiest as me & DP make sure we have plans. And he just grounds me really & makes me feel better. It’s when I have quite moments at work I get in my own head

Definitely. I'm staying of google completely. My dh always says it's the worst and best stories on the Internet, never the in-between.

Congratulations @Bellebg !

And you too @MisssMarion - I did have a feeling you were counting yourself out too soon! 💕
@Ella31 your DH is so right! Easy to forget that when you're deep down a rabbit hole though isn't it. Xx

@MisssMarion @Bellebg Ahhhh congrats on the BFP's!

@MisssMarion @Bellebg congratulations 🥰

Hi Ladies

Hope it's OK to join in! I am TTC again after a loss at 9 weeks in July. Although we've had a really tough few weeks, we feel emotionally ready to get straight back into it all again.

I had my peak LH at CD19 (counting from date of D&C). I would be about 6dpo now with no symptoms. I have been comparing to May when I got my BFP and I seem to have had some cramping around 6-9 dpo.

Congrats @Bellebg and @MisssMarion. That is super and gives me some hope! Did you have any noticeable symptoms in the lead up?

I'm not exactly sure when to expect AF after the D&C but based on ovulation, I guess another week. I will leave it until then to test🤞 anyone else on that sort of timeline?

✨️✨️ good luck to all!

Thank you all so so much @DonnaWhat @LucyCL @Figtree11 @Onthedouble123 @Lovedatforme @ThelastRolo20 @LozElle

I don’t think it’s sunk in yet. I definitely didn’t imagine this when having the worst weeks of my life with the mmc earlier this year. Thanks for all the support on this thread and others.

@Figtree11 absolutely! I didn’t think my cycles were back to normal at all and my ovulation day was so different compared to before so there’s definitely a chance every month even if not ‘normal’. Keeping everything crossed for you.

@LozElle I had way fewer noticeable symptoms this time around versus my mmc pregnancy. The only symptom I had this time before bfp was my nipples looking different! Last time I had way more. Definitely feeling some today though.

Feel so nervous but so lucky. Sending all the positive vibes to everyone here, looking forward to following your journeys 🤍

@Bellebg I missed your exciting news too sorry! Congratulations!! 🩷 Nice to see some positive news on their thread.

Congrats @Bellebg I missed your initial post

3dpo and pink creamy discharge 🙄 apparently a sign of an unfertilized egg.

I have never heard of pink creamy discharge being a sign of un fertilised egg. How did you know?

I had my CP exactly 3 months ago. The 2WW of the previous two cycles I always had the urge to cry but it was never strong enough. As I am getting towards the end of the 2WW of the third cycle, I have this urge again but still not strong enough. I feel like it has always been deep inside my heart and I know exactly when it is going to happen. The day when I get the next BFP, I will release the urge of crying. Do any of us feel similar here?

@LucyCL good ole Dr google. My worst enemy

Hahaha, this is also my worst enemy. Since my 1st MC, I constantly googled anything which I didn't understand about ttc and it was really useful but not healthy. Nowadays I still google but only to read about other people's ttc experience. I never compare myself to other people.😂

I’ve not heard of this before - I know it’s so hard but keep the hope ❤️

Dr Google is so unlikely to be correct. Otherwise we'd all be experiencing it! ❤️

Definitely not @DonnaWhat I had that with my twins.

I hate the tww. It's the worst part of the whole month. I get it, you are holding back because to be honest it's harder giving in to these emotions every month. But you'll have that happy cry when the time comes.

I cry a lot tbh. But it's mostly grief. Not sure what I'll feel when I get a bfp again.

@LucyCL I don't even know why I do it to myself. I've looked on Google images to find similar to what I had and read their threads but can never find what I'm looking for. So frustrating 😫 I need to keep away from google 😆😆

@ThelastRolo20 @Ella31 I always have you ladies putting me back on planet earth. Always grateful for you 2 ladies.

I've had spotting in my previous cycles but a bit further on than 3dpo so it was a surprise to see it. Roll on 10 days.

@Onthedouble123 I haven't see anything from you for a bit. How are you?

Google literally has the best and worst stories. Think of this way. This thread wouldn't exist without losing our babies, which is worst case scenario. You wouldn't post a thread saying hey everyone I'm pregnant and everything is going great. So naturally when you search scenarios on Google, the worst appears.

Anyone experience any sort of tingling in their nipple during their cycle? Since yesterday I have been getting a tingling sensation just on one nipple. I’ve never suffered health anxiety before but I am finding myself worrying about things recently, and not sure if it’s normal or if anyone has experienced it. Wasn’t sure if it’s hormonal or something else