Hello everyone, please could I join this thread?
It's August 1st, and we are starting the first month of trying for a baby. My husband and I are both 36, and children have just been a distant 'maybe one day' thing, however recently we are beginning to realise that we don't have forever and even though we don't feel remotely 'ready', that maybe we'd better bite the bullet and start trying.
I came off the pill in 2022 after developing a DVT, and although it took a good year, my cycles are really regular. We have just been using condoms since then. I track my periods every month using the flo app, and according to that my ovulation date will be 5th August.
For now our plan is just to have unprotected sex without actively trying really hard/getting obsessed.
Theres a part of me thathopes it doesn't happen straight away as Id like to lose a bit of weight first. I'd already be a high risk pregnancy with my DVT history, so would rather not add to that with an obese BMI!
Looking forward to chatting with you all :)