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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC Aug 2024

645 replies

AlleycatMarie · 17/07/2024 20:16

Hi ladies!
CD 1 for me today, so I’m moving over from the July thread and starting this one (don’t think there is already one).
Anyone else now ttc for a BFP in August??

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km9371 · 17/08/2024 18:03

Hi all! I hope you are all doing well.

I'm feeling so anxious, my lines are still so faint (7 days of positives now but I had expected an obviously clear one by now).

Any advice? Do I just need to wait?

Photo of today's test.

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ttcjourney20001 · 17/08/2024 18:06

km9371 · 17/08/2024 18:03

Hi all! I hope you are all doing well.

I'm feeling so anxious, my lines are still so faint (7 days of positives now but I had expected an obviously clear one by now).

Any advice? Do I just need to wait?

Photo of today's test.

In my experience, those tests take forever to darken. Don't let it bother you too much, try not to stress - will only make your mind do somersaults. Try and relax by doing things you like. I know it's easier said than done but took days for my lines to darken xx

km9371 · 17/08/2024 19:10

@ttcjourney20001 thank you 💚💚

LucyCL · 17/08/2024 19:17

Zo85 · 16/08/2024 14:18

I an also feel like I’m out going by my temps. I’m only 8dpo but just feel totally normal and my gut is saying it’s gonna take us longer. Getting a little fed up already by little things like not doing big cardio workouts, avoiding the sauna and hot tub which I used to love to relax, trying to eat really well, no drinking etc. I do understand it’s taken many so much longer and I really feel for them of course. Also feel so lucky to have one child already and it really is luck isn’t it?

Also, since this is a safe space, thought I’d get it off my chest that I had my first ‘ugly’ feeling yesterday. Friends are having a baby (accidentally - sex once in a cycle ages before ovulation!) despite both having a pretty appalling diet and generally abusing their health. So, so happy for them of course but it did make me think “What’s the point in the lifestyle changes, having so much sex etc?” I’m just in a bad mood I think which is also telling me it’s just a usual luteal phase for me! I’ll snap out of it and onward and upwards!

Our times will come! Hopefully this year for all of us.

I totally get you! I found myself feeling more negative after 6 dpo, maybe it was because of the high post ovulation hormone levels however I knew that my hope for a BFP from the O day slowly diminished each day until AF arrived. I even cried at the end of each cycle when she showed up. It is normal to feel bad and completely fine to let it out. After a good cry, I was ready for a fresh start again. I feel positive for everyone here.

LucyCL · 17/08/2024 19:19

km9371 · 17/08/2024 18:03

Hi all! I hope you are all doing well.

I'm feeling so anxious, my lines are still so faint (7 days of positives now but I had expected an obviously clear one by now).

Any advice? Do I just need to wait?

Photo of today's test.

Try not to over test it because HCG doubles every 48 - 72 hours. I believe your line will get darker but it takes time. Just like what ttcjourney20001 suggested, relax and enjoy being pregnant.

Teggy95 · 17/08/2024 19:31

Hi all,

I tested positive cd25 and negatives since. I’ve had mild cramps for the last few days. Feels like AF is coming but nothing! Now CD29. Cycles vary from 26-35 days.

is this likely to be a chemical?

rebecca199 · 17/08/2024 20:18

Amber17 · 17/08/2024 15:21

Made it to 8DPO and came down with something. Thought it was just IBS flaring up but had a fever last night. Torn between taking ibuprofen to feel better and not taking it in case there’s a tiny ball of cells trying to survive…

I spoke to my doctor yesterday about ibuprofen when TTC as I have torn muscles in my back and she said it's fine unless you're in second trimester which I was surprised at as I've always avoided it! I'm still avoiding it though as it makes me paranoid 😂

I would take paracetamol to be on safe side! Hope you feel better soon xx

km9371 · 17/08/2024 20:26

Teggy95 · 17/08/2024 19:31

Hi all,

I tested positive cd25 and negatives since. I’ve had mild cramps for the last few days. Feels like AF is coming but nothing! Now CD29. Cycles vary from 26-35 days.

is this likely to be a chemical?

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I'm sorry 😢 it's such a difficult journey x

Have you been using the same brand of tests / same time wee / not drinking too much fluids?

km9371 · 17/08/2024 20:27

@LucyCL thank you 💚

Teggy95 · 17/08/2024 20:28

km9371 · 17/08/2024 20:26

I'm sorry 😢 it's such a difficult journey x

Have you been using the same brand of tests / same time wee / not drinking too much fluids?

Hi KM,

thanks for your reply. It really really is. I caught with my DS so quickly so I’m really stressing! I’m like a woman possessed! Different brands. Try and do morning and night time wees! X

MrsKurz · 17/08/2024 21:47

CD27 today, still testing negative - I think I’m around 11/12dpo so pretty much out I think. I had cramping like AF was coming yesterday, then that stopped, and today I maybe had the tiniest bit of faint spotting, but that also disappeared/l. But this is also my first cycle after having my IUD out so my body is probably figuring stuff out too. I’m hoping AF shows up soon now so I can get on with the next cycle. I’m going to temp and use ovulation tests next time

Cakeisafoodgroup · 17/08/2024 22:12

Nicola1988 · 17/08/2024 18:01

Huge congrats. This gives me some hope. Im about to go in to my 9th cycle trying to conceive. Wishing you all the best with your pregnancy xx

Thank you, this is the reason that I posted - because every time I saw a BFP it gave me some hope!
I hope it happens for you, and everyone else on this thread, really soon 💐

LucyCL · 17/08/2024 22:40

Teggy95 · 17/08/2024 20:28

Hi KM,

thanks for your reply. It really really is. I caught with my DS so quickly so I’m really stressing! I’m like a woman possessed! Different brands. Try and do morning and night time wees! X

I also had been testing HCG twice a day because I was worried that CP might happen again.😓 So I totally understand how you feel.

LucyCL · 17/08/2024 22:42

MrsKurz · 17/08/2024 21:47

CD27 today, still testing negative - I think I’m around 11/12dpo so pretty much out I think. I had cramping like AF was coming yesterday, then that stopped, and today I maybe had the tiniest bit of faint spotting, but that also disappeared/l. But this is also my first cycle after having my IUD out so my body is probably figuring stuff out too. I’m hoping AF shows up soon now so I can get on with the next cycle. I’m going to temp and use ovulation tests next time

I am sorry this might not be your month however the combination of CBT/BBT and LH strips is perfect to confirm ovulation. I wish you good luck for your next exciting cycle!

CRMB95 · 18/08/2024 07:42

km9371 · 17/08/2024 18:03

Hi all! I hope you are all doing well.

I'm feeling so anxious, my lines are still so faint (7 days of positives now but I had expected an obviously clear one by now).

Any advice? Do I just need to wait?

Photo of today's test.

Hey, I'm in a similar situation I posted on here a few days ago that I was out this month with what I suspected was chemical after having a similar experience last chemical and my lines were so faint on day AF was due and I had spotting for 3 days before. However my spotting stopped day of missed period an this morning my line looks darker 4 days missed period, its really hard feeling like you're in limbo with so much hope!
Have you had any cramping, spotting at all? I guess it's just waiting game for us, attached photo of today's test

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km9371 · 18/08/2024 08:35

@CRMB95 I am so pleased your lines are darker today! I know what you mean about being in limbo though 🤦🏼‍♀️ maybe we are both just much earlier than we expect! With my last pregnancy I was unaware I was pregnant as the implantation bleeding was comparable to a period!

I've had no bleeding, but lower back ache all week! Not too severe but uncomfortable, which I'm not sure is a normal thing or a good thing 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

Happysoul111 · 18/08/2024 10:09

Hi all, hope everyone is doing okay this month and thinking of everyone on this journey too! I am so confused this month (why is this whole TTC journey so difficult) so I had quite a lot of dark brown blood for 5 days prior to my period which is unusual, I then started my period a day later and the first day of my period it seemed usual quite heavy red blood but yesterday (the second day) seems strange, it's quite light, very light pink every now and then but then also has been brown yesterday too. Now todays its practically gone and super light. I'm really not sure whether I should take a test or just trust this absolutely can't be implantation bleeding and it is just a strange period. Has anyone experienced anything similar?

RRAEE · 18/08/2024 11:09

Im out again back to CD 1

rebecca199 · 18/08/2024 11:17

Sore boobs and a bfn at 8dpo

Last time I had sore boobs I was pregnant with my daughter 👀 trying not to symptom spot too much and get my hopes up 🫣

MrsKurz · 18/08/2024 15:15

CD1 for me AF showed up, so I’m onto the next month!

ttcjourney20001 · 18/08/2024 17:51

RRAEE · 18/08/2024 11:09

Im out again back to CD 1

Hi everyone, three days to go until AF arrives. Took a test, no notable symptoms apart from nausea and sore nipples, thought I'd give a little test, which was my last one in the house - which I'm glad about as I'm a serial tester but I've been good this month. Took one about 2 days ago and nothing. This was the outcome today. Indent or the look of something?

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rebecca199 · 18/08/2024 18:32

Just took a clear blue blue die early one and I have a faint line but I refuse to believe it because of last months AWFUL indent from these tests
If this turns out to be nothing again I've never using these tests again! 😂
You know you aren't imaging it when even your partner can see it 😂

km9371 · 18/08/2024 21:11

@ttcjourney20001 I think I see something but I'm not 100% as I'm not sure where the line shows on this brand so I may be looking in the incorrect place. Hopeful for you!!

Nicola1988 · 19/08/2024 10:46

Looks like im out for this month. Strong period pains, had a headache and now light spotting which happens every cycle on day 25 (today) until day 1 begins a day or so later. U would think id get used to this now that im on month 8 but today i feel distraught by it. Im about to turn 36 in a couple of months.

Sharing a little bit of background 😊 im so fortunate and blessed to have an 8 year old daughter to my ex husband. We had to have ivf to concieve due to my ex having a very low sperm count. We we successful first time and have embryos frozen. It is breaking my heart to know that i will have to destroy these embryos ( no chance of me and my ex getting back together and obs they are fertilitised by him). Been with my amazing partner for 2 and a half years and never been more in love. He is also amazing with my daughter. I would love nothing more to have a child with him. He dotes on my daughter and says if we couldnt he is blessed to have her. He is a few years younger (he will be 30 in oct and ill be 36 in oct).

km9371 · 19/08/2024 12:40

@Nicola1988 I am sorry it is such a difficult process isn't it! Sending you so much love 💚

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