Two possible fathers

[midnightsugar]

I need help trying to figure out which person is the dad

My lmp was 16/7/23
My cycle is normally 33 days
I had sex with person A on
30/7/23
31/7/23
1/8/23
5/823

Person B
14/8/23

I was due my period on the 16-17/8/23
But it never came and took a pregnancy test on the 24/8/23 and it came up 3+ on a clear blue
Is there a possibility it's person B

I wouldn't have thought so, too late in your cycle.

Is your cycle always bang on 33 days? Do you know when you ovulate?

It's always 32/33 days

Don't know when I ovulate only by guessing that I would have ovulated 14ish days before my period ?

It's very very very likely to be A

Sorry I can’t help working out dates, and I know you haven’t asked for advice but we are having a major family drama at the moment over something like this only 11 years after the baby was born. If there is any doubts at all, have a paternity test. It could come back to bite you unexpectedly a lot of years later if there is even a slight question over dates/possible fathers.

Person A.

Even if you have a long cycle it has to be Person A.

I'm nearly 100% certain it's person A as person B didn't finish and I know there's obviously still a chance but just seeing what people think as person B was also 3 days before my period was meant to start and testing positive 11 days after that even though I had all the symptoms a few days after missing my period

Who do you want it to be?

Do they know about each other?

I would prefer person A but if I thought B was a genuine possibility then I would let them both know

I’d put money on it being person A.
3+ weeks on a digital pregnancy test means approx 3 weeks since conception which fits dates with A not B.

Good luck and I hope you have support around you/that person A will support you.

But as you had unprotected sex with both men, they need to know, as they (and you) need STI tests.

Probably A

Likely to be A but it could be either OP. Did you plan for the baby ?

A is the father.

probably person A, but not definitely, so you will need a DNA test after the baby is born

Is the baby here or due very soon?
I'd get a dna just to be 100% then there is no doubt and you will be sure without any guilt.

What have A & B been told so far?

It’s person A.

person B was way too late in the cycle. It takes 7ish days to even implant, so if you had sex 14 and you were due period on 16-17, you would have been way after ovulation there.

If you happened to ovulate late and person B caught the egg, the pregnancy test would have said 1 week, not 3, as it would have been only 10 days after sex. You’d have had to get a very very sensitive test to even catch that positive, since 2 weeks wouldn’t have even passed.

So you're about 36 weeks - 38 weeks now.
What EDD were you given?

unfortunately it is nothing like that cut and dried. You need a DNA test.

EDD is 23-27th of April

So it has to be A.

why? EDD is counted from fist day of last period, nothing to do with when you actually conceived.

Basically, it is probably A, but you won't know without a DNA test. Thats all anyone can say.

It's calculated after the 12 week scan.
And that fits with conception about 14 days before the date of the missed period - which means it's A who is the father.