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So sorry @SnookyPook what a rollercoaster to go through, but at least you are not feeling too bad. The positives are that you have gotten pregnant so there’s no reason it won’t happen again and the right egg/sperm combo will happen. Be easy on yourself.

@SnookyPook Oh no! I'm sorry 😔💜 Like you and the others said, your rainbow baby will pop up at the right time. You just need to wait for that perfect sperm/egg combo! Take it easy on yourself this month 🌈✨x

Yes, thank you ladies. If anything, after the MMC, I'm relieved that it's happened early on if it wasn't viable. I do strongly believe that the right one will come along when the time is right so I have to hold onto that.

How's everyone else doing? Xx

Oh @SnookyPook I'm so sorry.

I've been away for a little while and just dipped back in...

Unfortunately I had my 3rd loss last Monday. (TFMR at 25weeks, chemical and now 6weeks). Thank you for sharing your experience, I love your outlook so much. Today I am feeling much lighter and more optimistic. We have bloods booked in via the EPU for some investigations in a few weeks and I've just started taking Ovum supplements after reading It starts with the egg (£££ but cheaper than buying them all separately!) but didn't know if you knew about this?

I'd also like to share a public thank you to the amazing @LeopardLover who held my hand through my latest loss, it meant a lot to me ♥️

Sending love to everyone, dipping back out for a while again I think xxx

So very sorry @Vic231 thats a lot to go through. Hope you are doing as ok as can be.

@Vic231 just replied to you on another thread. So sorry to hear of your latest loss 😔 I'm glad that the amazing @LeopardLover was there to support you through. Sending a massive hug. I may also dip back out for a while but will see how I go. X

@SnookyPook I'm so sorry to hear that! Hopefully you'll get your sticky bean soon🥺❤️x

@Vic231 I'm so sorry to hear this! Look after yourself and make sure you have some me time ❤️ I really hope you're okay, I panic all the time about this and I'm 6w today, hoping you get your bean soon!❤️

Hey, how's everyone doing?
Anyone got tips for nausea? I think it's going to kill me off at this point 🥲
Its horrible 😕 but it will be worth it ❤️

@CAGH03 I just ate my way through the first trimester with my first. The only way I didn't feel sick was to stuff my face. Not sure that's the recommended approach though!

I'm a day late according to my app but definitely not pregnant (have tested) and been so crampy/AF arriving any minute for the last couple of days. So just waiting really.

Trying to be pragmatic rather than moping. Already planned a blitz of Holland & Barrett for vitamins etc for both of us next month.

Hope all going well apart from the nausea. Xx

It's good you're keeping your mind busy! As I always said to my partner, at least we always had the next month to try again. When I fell last month, we had used preseed lube the day before ovulation, could've just been coincidence tho lol. Very nauseous and can't seem to eat much without feeling worse 🥲 managed to have a TINY bit of lasagna so hopefully that will keep me going! Got a family bbq tomorrow which I'm worrying about- the smell of food is so bad 😭 and I am so so exhausted. Last day at my job today as I can't keep travelling an hour and a half to get to or from work, especially with how tired and nauseous I am at the moment. Sad to be leaving but hopefully I'll get one closer to home🤞🏼
Sending you baby dust for next month!🤍x

@CAGH03 Ice lollies and if you can stomach them, plain crackers helped in my first pregnancy! I had to eat non-stop in this pregnancy to survive, even though I would often bring it back up. I went through a chocolate and sweets phase which isn't great but pure survival 😅 lots of fruit too!

Sorry you've left your job after they were so nice! Have you applied for any new ones yet? Probably best to get in before you start showing! X

@Bubblesandtroubles Sorry you think AF is on the way but you're taking the best approach ❤️💪🏻 get those vitamins down you! You just need to right sperm and combo 🙏🏻

Hey all. Sorry for the nausea @CAGH03 have you seen the gp? Hope all is going well for you and @LeopardLover in pregnancies! I like the advice of there’s always next month. I am around the end of the 2ww ish, my AF is either due Weds or Friday but I’m feeling alright. I forgot to do OPKs this month. Had lots of AF type cramps recently but woke up in a happy mood. I’ve been doing meditation recently, not to help conception, but to help me cope with trying and it’s really helping and given me good ways to deal with anxious thoughts.

Period was due yesterday but still not come. Got a bit of lower back pain tho. Am supposed to test tomorrow if not here by then. Not getting my hopes up. Just annoyed as last few months has come early by a few days and now this time has decided to come late

@Annapolis35 Thank you! Just waiting on NIPT results but it's already been 7 calendar days and 5 working days so I'm on edge and over waiting 😅 Sounds like the combination of no OPKs and meditation is a good one! Is work better? ❤️

@DuchessofSuffolk Promising signs!! 💜 Crossing my fingers for you x

@Vic231 I know we talk privately but I just want to say you are such a strong and determined mama! 💪🏻 I admire you SO much. I can't wait for you to hold a baby in your arms ❤️ Really hoping your tests start in the coming weeks so you can get some next steps in place! X

@LeopardLover hopefully we’ll have to see. Hope the bastard doesn’t come at 3am like it did last time. I’ll be fuming. Will buy a test tomorrow after work if it hasn’t arrived by then

Let us know how you get on @DuchessofSuffolk. Yes! Just chilling out a bit has definitely helped my mental health. Also my parents got two kittens recently and that’s done wonders for my mental health, they’re so joyful and naughty and I’ve fallen in love. hope the results are ok and it must make you anxious!

Yeah work is way better now thank you - I just started ignoring bad behavior and it seems to have disappeared (at least it’s not so obvious anymore!) and I stopped caring so much. I had a couple of interviews but didn’t get the jobs but that’s ok - the right thing will come along down the line.

@Vic231 hope you’re ok and sending love.
@CAGH03 hope the nausea is easing a bit and all going well.

Well AF didn’t show up last night so I will pick up a test after work if she doesn’t arrive throughout the day.

Looks like we're on similar cycles, AF due yesterday as well and no show. I took a Boots early detection this morning and BFN. It's probably not my month, I feel zero symptoms. I hope you've got better luck than me ❤️

I'm now several days late but repeated BFNs. I think the Agnus Castus may have worked a little too well! Feeling impatient during this limbo of not being able to move onto next cycle just yet 😕
Good luck to everyone else still waiting! Xx

I have lower back pain and tummy pain so I feel like she’s coming. If I test tonight will I get an accurate result or is 2 days late still too early?

Although my app says I’m only 1 day late 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ was due Sunday

Finally made an appearance for me! Funny thing about being late is that you're over the disappointment and just grateful it's arrived so can move onto the next cycle!
@DuchessofSuffolk if you can wait til morning then I'd probably do that. But if you're after due date I think it's okay to do any time of day. I'd maybe just try and not drink for a few hours beforehand. Good luck!! Xx