lissie & mrlissie have made a BIG decision....

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we are no longer ttc.

I am going to the docs tomorrow to ask about birth control. I have had enough. I get pg then mc, then worry about an ep. Its no life for any of us. So I am going to uni, we are moving away from Shropshire (hopefully) and we are going to enjoy being a family of 3 and not have the spectre of a hypothetical baby hanging over us. Good luck ttc-ers (especially from the hut and ttc after mc threads) x

Wow Lissie - what a hard and brave decision to make.

I hope you and your family have lots and lots of happy times together, once you've come to terms with your decision.

Massive hugs to you both ((((())))) such a brave decision xx

Gosh, that is a big (and brave) decision. I think you and Mr Lissie are both really smart to make sure you enjoy what you already have.

wow

so no more LWH?

well, i think that sounds really sensible and i wish you teh best of luck x

Lots of love and best wishes to you and your family lissie. I know it has been so, so hard for you.

It's a very brave decision and I hope you can enjoy your new start. We will all still be here if you need to talk things through

thanks, it was v difficult, but during this CP I have been bleeding v heavily and i was convinced it was an ep. i feel like shit every month and like such a failure, and im not! im a good mum to ds and i will be a good therapist and my life has been on hold for nearly 2 1/2y, i nearly died last year and left ds without a mother, yet still persisted. he's our miracle, its about time we (i) made the most of him!

Oh lissie, what a big decision.
I hope it makes you both happier, and that life as a family of 3 turns out to be better than you could have imagined!

What will you study at uni?

Aww Lissie {{HUGS}}
I know how much of a hard decision it must have been for you xx

reflexology, i want to treat women with fertility issues/pg/labour and post-natally.

oh goodness, lissie.

Lots and lots of love to you, and quiet admiration for a huge brave decision. xxx

wow lissie, that is a Really Grown-Up decision. give yourself a pat on the back.

{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}

Wow lissie.

I hope that you feel positive about this new chapter in your life - i hated the way you felt crap about yourself, none of this was ever your fault and you will be fab at uni & your career; and you are already fab at being a mum and can focus on the DS you already know you are lucky to have.

I wish you all luck, love and happiness

Oh double wow - that's gotta be a tough career choice! Good luck with it.

Best wishes lissie!

A couple of good friends are very happy families of 3.

thanks, i know we are doing the right thing. we cant continue like this, i owe it to ds to be realistic now.

Good luck; wishing you many happy times as a family.

Good lissie - very brave. Time for you now, I think (as well as your ds and dh)

Good on you sweetie, very very brave and I admire you both

Good luck lissie.

thanks pistachio, thats v reassuring. ive been focusing on what ds'll miss out on rather what he'll gain by being an OC

wow, lissie...that is a hard descision to make, but I hope that life with uni and ds (and dh) gets better/easier/happier from here on.

It must have been such a hard decision. I wish you and your family all the best and enjoy uni and your ds
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