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Hoping for a BFP October/November

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Purple29 · 11/10/2022 20:12

Hi all just creating a new thread since the other one is almost full!!! Really really hoping this is our month, but not hopeful, DH is away with work for most of my FW and only comes home the day before I think I will ov. I've also injured my back!!!

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Bananatoast123 · 16/10/2022 21:29

Hi 🙂 I hope I can join! TTC #1… on cycle 7! 12dpo and expecting AF to come!! Losing hope as not had a glimpse of a BFP 🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m 27 and had day 3 tests and general health tests and all healthy so putting it down to chance so far. But am getting to the point of wanting to investigate further but my OH and I have agreed to get to cycle 12

Bluelightbaby · 16/10/2022 22:58

Hey everyone :) another month passes. Not hopeful for an oct BFP. Had a colposcopy this week due to a positive smear (second year in a row) which sucked. Been referred to fertility clinic (nhs) appt in January. Praying for a BFP before that though !

good luck everyone x

Daisy155 · 16/10/2022 23:28

Welcome @Bananatoast123 fingers crossed for you no AF and @Bluelightbaby I hope you also get your BFP before January x

Ncl31 · 17/10/2022 06:20

14dpo Frer BFN this morning. Looks like I’m out this month.
Willing AF to arrive now so I can draw a line and try again next month.
We have our first nhs fertility appointment in November hoping they can wave a magic wand for us.

TryTheNight · 17/10/2022 06:24

Congrats to those who got a BFP! I'm still recovering from the wedding I was at over the weekend - first time I've been drunk in 2 years due to TTC. Decided to completely let loose and regroup for next month. I think I ovulated yesterday, so DTD today since I was far too exhausted to try before today (I napped all day before and after we DTD. Best wedding ever!).

Fingers crossed I get lucky, but I'm thinking I'm just going to have an off month and go again next month. Over 2 years TTC, so I really REALLY deserved a good drinking weekend.

Mummyme87 · 17/10/2022 06:51

CD1 here. AF has started, least it didn’t keep me waiting all day!
on to cycle 14

Bananatoast123 · 17/10/2022 08:12

@Mummyme87 sorry AF came! I’m at cycle 8 so I bet it’s even worse at cycle 14! Hope you’re ok xx

Bluelightbaby · 17/10/2022 08:52

I’m out. AF has arrived an entire 7 days early !!!!! This has never ever happened to me before :( assume the colposcopy has upset everything :(

thelma57 · 17/10/2022 09:02

Sorry to hear that @Bluelightbaby look after yourself today and stay positive ❤️

@TryTheNight good for you! I feel like I’ve gone the opposite way and am defo drinking more due to the stress of it all which makes me sad!

I’m CD13 now, no peak yet but did forget to test last night. Struggling with sex drive massively but need to make the effort!

Good luck @Ncl31 hopefully you still have time this month but if not I’ll be here in November!

Congrats to all BFPs so far ✨

821k · 17/10/2022 09:50

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 16/10/2022 19:43

@821k Hope you get your rainbow baby xx

Thank you @BellaTheDarkOverlord I hope so too 🤞x

kizzy97 · 17/10/2022 14:48

@821k everything crossed for you xx

Daisy155 · 17/10/2022 16:56

sorry to everyone who has received a BFN @Bluelightbaby @Mummyme87 and good luck @Ncl31 for November and @TryTheNight
❤️

AF is done today and I have made a decision to try out everything at this point so I am going to the gym every other day and a form of simple exercise. I have bought some B12, apple cider vinegar all organic vegetables to juice and eat for this TTC as well, and I started just a week before AF started and I can see one of my fibroids are not hurting anymore, the bloating is gone, I have more energy.

I am also trying to detoxify my body as much as I can and getting my hormones in order by trying a semi alkaline diet, I have cut out processed sugar all together especially chocolate. I did this before and that’s how I conceived Oscar and had a healthy full term pregnancy so fingers crossed this works again!

My DH is also eating healthy and going to the gym so hopefully this works and I have bloods in 6 weeks so let’s see how it goes! I am very hopeful as I want to conceive again naturally before fertility appointment in December! Xx

ScaredSally · 17/10/2022 17:49

@Daisy155 ohh hoping that works for you! I'm attempting a healthier lifestlye to try and boost my fertility, just more veg and gentle exercise but trying not to got over board as I know that can make it worse
heres hoping it works for us both!

Daisy155 · 17/10/2022 18:26

Thank you so much @ScaredSally yes definitely we have have to try to boost our fertility and for me as well it’s my immune system!

Also once I receive the bloods, especially my thyroid needs to be in control I will adjust it again but throwing the kitchen sink this month! Wishing you as well the very best and I am hoping for us both to get that BFP especially after everything!

We got this Xx

Baby3herewego · 17/10/2022 18:26

14dpo now and still looking good. I have one more FRER and one more Clearblue digital that I will do on Wednesday and fingers crossed it will then say 2-3 weeks.

Hoping for a BFP October/November
Sparklythings1 · 17/10/2022 19:08

Gutting for those just at the start of AF again, I think it wouldn’t be so bad if you could fast forward that first week and just get back into the testing and trying again, it’s just the being back to square one thing not being able to do anything that really bugged me last month 🤦🏼‍♀️

@Baby3herewego lines look good! 🥰 are you feeling any different?

Sparklythings1 · 17/10/2022 19:11

The big giveaway for me when I was pregnant with my first was the crampy/heavy feeling that almost felt like it was in my cervix. A weird way to describe it but it was like there was pressure on it. 5dpo today, the day it first started last time, and I’m convinced I can feel it again. AF could turn up early so it could just be that but I’m just going to be walking about all week acting pregnant then see what Saturday brings 😂

Butterfliesandroses · 17/10/2022 19:26

Hi! I hope it is okay to join, I am on CD12. AF due 1st November. 1st cycle TTC second baby following a miscarriage in August 2021, which knocked me for six! Fingers and toes crossed for everyone here xx

Sunny1986 · 17/10/2022 19:35

10dpo today and took a cheeky early test - negative. I got my first faint positive at this stage with my son so was secretly hoping for the same! Also had a bit of bleeding today... feels too late to be implantation. AF on her way early? Hmm

Baby3herewego · 17/10/2022 19:44

@Sparklythings1 not feeling pregnant yet but then again, I didn’t with my first child either. Xx

821k · 17/10/2022 20:28

kizzy97 · 17/10/2022 14:48

@821k everything crossed for you xx

Thank you @kizzy97 we did the deed again tonight we have done it twice now since I misscarried so 🤞we get our rainbow 🌈 baby soon xx

shibeshibe · 17/10/2022 21:36

5dpo here and already driving myself crazy with symptom spotting, even though I know its too early...promised myself to hold off any tests until at least the weekend 😅

Sparklythings1 · 17/10/2022 22:59

@Baby3herewego it’s very weird how you can keep it a little secret, people can look at you and have no idea what you’re doing in there 😂 used to blow my mind!

Sparklythings1 · 17/10/2022 23:00

@shibeshibe same as me, I’m letting myself do one on Saturday 🙄😂

Sparklythings1 · 17/10/2022 23:01

@Sunny1986 I didn’t get one til 12dpo last time so you’re definitely still in with a decent chance.. maybe tomorrow morning you’ll be lucky 🤞🏼