Hoping for a BFP October/November

[Purple29]

Hi all just creating a new thread since the other one is almost full!!! Really really hoping this is our month, but not hopeful, DH is away with work for most of my FW and only comes home the day before I think I will ov. I've also injured my back!!!

😞 so so sorry @821k for your loss xx

Thank you @Daisy155 we will try again when my body has had time to recover maybe next year I will get my rainbow 🌈 baby xx

So sorry for your loss @821k wishing you your rainbow baby very soon xx

Good luck to everyone who is waiting for their BFP, keeping my fingers crossed for you all

Wishing strength and hope to everyone who is trying again for a BFP in Nov. Got my own BFN last week and it’s so hard each month but we go again xx

I got myself up and out for my early train this morning before I could even think about testing again.
my next test will be Monday which is the day on the first response website it tells me to test.
fingers crossed to see more BFP this weekend.
@821k so sorry to read about your loss. Fingers crossed you get your rainbow baby very soon xx

11dpo and restarted after those likely indents on frer and definitely BFN 😞 feeling out, AF due Monday. Really really sad and she’s a few tears. Will be going in to cycle 14 and I think it will be my last cycle to try for a while as my sister is getting married abroad next October so can’t really be anymore than 34weeks going out there

Hello! Joining the thread, first time TTC and this is our first month. Today is my last day of ovulation according to Flo so will try to DTD again (poor DP doesn’t know what’s hit him 😂) then for the TWW. Wishing everyone lots of luck 🍀

Jumping on here but really don't know how I feel about a potential BFP, lost my little boy at the end of July at 32weeks... we aren't trying but had unprotected sex around the time I think I ovulated (my bodies still abit messed up so can't be sure) I want so much to bring a baby home but am utterly terrified I'm still so heartbroken, my little boy was perfect

How's everyone getting on this morning? Any other testers? I'm 8 dpo today and fighting the urge! My 11 month old also has caught chicken pox 🤦‍♀️ all weekend plans out the window! Boooo. So now I'm stuck in the house avoiding my bathroom cupboard which has several FRERs waiting for me!

So sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how hard it must be. Happiness that you might be pregnancy again but overwhelming sadness too. Lots of love x

@ScaredSally so sorry to hear about your little boy. It’s the most heartbreaking thing to go through, All my love to you and your partner. What a huge mix of emotions for you.

so just relooked and worked out the latest cycle I could get pregnant to enable me to go to my sisters wedding in Rhodes next October would be early February time. I thought it would be earlier for some reason. Not sure how early after having a baby I would want to travel either however 🫤

@ScaredSally I'm really sorry for your loss, sending big hugs ❤ xx

@ScaredSally so so sorry for your loss 😞 I am with you as well, sorry you find yourself at this point as well. I completely understand you. I also lost our little boy Leo at 37 weeks on the 21st of July 2022. I am also starting as well, this is my second cycle and AF arrived which is fine. I know the feeling you are having I feel scared too sometimes but everyday the need for a baby gets stronger and stronger, makes me yearn to hold a baby back home instead of going home with a memory box.

I wish you a safe, strong, steady and healthy journey and also a BFP very soon ❤️ Xx

@ScaredSally by the way I hope you don’t mind when you say your body is still messed up, could you please let me know what is happening with you as well?

My hormones are all over the place as well I have had 2 blood tests since and also had a massive delay in my second AF. And ovulated so late I missed it.

So sorry for those who have had losses. My heart breaks for you ❤

My cycles just seem really messed up, I didn't have a period for 70 days after my still birth and then I think I ovulated late at day 21... but I got told it's not uncommon to not ovulate for a while even with positive OPKs and all the symptoms
so sorry for your loss too, totally understand the longing to have a baby, it just hurts to be back here when I should have him in my arms

12dpo now and took another FRER. It’s so much darker which makes me so happy as it only ever got lighter with my CP’s. Also got a pregnant on a clearblue digital. Yes I cried on the digital one and smooshed the 12.

how are all my waiting ladies and when are you planning on testing?

@ScaredSally @Daisy155 this is so sad, you are both so strong for keeping going and trying again after something so awful ☹️ I always thought after 30ish weeks you were basically in the ‘safe’ territory but it just shows you 😢

@821k so sorry for your loss 😞 that’s devastating

Congratulations @Baby3herewego, lovely line progression!

Im not even 48hrs post transfer yet and already having to quash the urge to POAS! 🤦‍♀️

@Baby3herewego wow congratulations! You’ve probably already said but what cycle was this for you?

I’m on cycle 2, will be 10dpo next Saturday so going to test then. I’ve got a day out next Saturday afternoon though 😬🥂 So I really don’t know what I’m going to do if it’s positive, don’t want to give it away the first day I’m pregnant 😂

@Baby3herewego also out of interest, when you had CP how long was it before you noticed? I don’t want to test too soon but the temptation will be too much for me 🙄

@Sparklythings1 this was the 4th cycle. The first two I got pregnant both times but they bother ended as CP’s. Then I had a normal period month and now here we are.

With my CP’s I got one positive on 9dpo and one on 7 or 8. So when I started bleeding with them both and my tests went negative I knew. The first I lost a large ( egg sized ) lump but I was too scared to take it out of the toilet and look at it. The second was much more like a normal period, just very clotty. I didn’t have cramps with either of them.

@Sunbird24 thank you!!! How long after transfer can you test? Is it any different?

@Baby3herewego wow congratulations! 10dpo is a great time to get a positive! I'm 5dpo now so still a long way to go!

@Baby3herewego the clinic have given me a test date 15 days after transfer, but AF is due 4 days before that, and the earliest I’ve tested is 5 days as I was suddenly able to smell myself and went right off tea & coffee (was obviously positive!😂)

@Sunbird24 oooo keep me posted with what you decide to do. I mean, they won’t know if you buy tests and do it sooner will they xxx