Hoping for a BFP October/November

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Hi all just creating a new thread since the other one is almost full!!! Really really hoping this is our month, but not hopeful, DH is away with work for most of my FW and only comes home the day before I think I will ov. I've also injured my back!!!

@Daisy155 Thank you! I'm hoping it is BFP coming but really trying not to get too excited! cramping still going on and is exactly like AF cramps and i keep peeing a lot more now and always shocked when there's no sign of AF! got a wedding to go to Sunday so want to try and not test now until Saturday or Sunday morning but I know I'll cave and still be gutted if its negative!

Took my bra off not long ago to try a new one on and my breasts felt like numb but also heavy, tenderness back and its in my back as well now kind of like a flu ache? never usually suffer with breast tenderness for AF so really lost at this point! 😂

Hope your TWW flies by for you and that you get the result you want! 😃

@staceymarieox thank you so much I am also wishing you a BFP.

I hope you get the strength to wait and test later, its truly easier said than done 😅but you got this and enjoy yourself on Sunday! xx

@Vikki7 i think that sounds like it could be implantation if it’s just a tiny amount of blood causing it?

@BCxx I thought that too but the amount is much more than spotting. It's like I'm starting AF but I have a regular 28-30 day cycles and I'm only on cd 22. Much too early for AF. It hasn't been just the once, it's been there since about 12pm today. Tested with a HPT again tonight just in case and definitely a BFN, stark white. Not sure what's going on. Sometimes I'll get spotting a few days before AF but never have the amount I'm having now.

@Vikki7 i think it is most commonly light spotting with dark brown blood but can be heavier at times for some people I think. You will be able to tell by the morning whether it’s AF or not, hopefully not!

Hi, is this a positive please?

Should second line be closer to the first one? Seems far across. Im very excited but don't want to get ahead of myself lol. Thanks x

@Surreymumma looks positive to me 🥰 congrats

Thank you 🥰

@Daisy155 thank you xx

@Vikki7 I had the same last cycle. Had spotting from Tuesday evening and wasn't due AF until the following Monday. Unfortunately my AF started early 😞 I hope it is implantation spotting for you xx

Looks positive @Surreymumma congratulations

AF due today, not appeared yet. Boobs still a bit tender.
seeing GP shortly, nothing to do with fertility however. Bloody tonsillitis

Hi, been a little quiet, been struggling like crazy this month and my anxiety is at it's peak on whether this will ever happen for me again or not...I've decided on going back to OPK testing this month, CD11 today so shouldn't have peaked yet. Hope everyone else is doing okay and fingers crossed this is our month. Absolutely hating the lack of control over this xx

I believe I might of had another miscarriage.

last month I had a strange cycle where I had my ‘period’ an entire seven days early and it was only 3-4 days and very light.

for following weeks felt very fatigued and nauseated and pre-synacable at times - so bad that a few days ago I visit the GP and had a full blood work up done

then a few days go I started bleeding (assumed period) but extremely heavy with huge clots and cramping.

my partner gave me IV fluids last night as I felt so weak and hypotensive

have an appt with GP next week to review bloods and will mention this bleeding

@Surreymumma awww congratulations 🥳 💕

@Bluelightbaby aww hope not 😞 that’s so hard going. Do you think the first one was implantation or something? Our bodies can be so confusing. I’ve been having extremely heavy periods since coming off the pill, like (gross😑) I would go to insert a tampon and a huge pool of blood would come out. It went all over the bathroom floor the last time, it was horrific. I had to constantly change it to the point I just used pads on the days I was in the house but had to go and change my trousers multiple times (luckily at home alone) because they were soaked through with blood. I don’t know if that’s all tied in with the short LP thing or maybe even I’ve been conceiving and it’s been clearing it away every month before it’s got a chance to implant, I have no idea 😔

6 or 7dpo today, depending when I’m counting it from since I missed my peak. I’m off work on Wednesday so I’m thinking of trying (and probably failing) to hold off until then to test when I won’t need to go to work straight after in case I am.

My biggest giveaway last time was my boobs felt full when I was in the shower, I think that was only 2 or 3 days before I got me BFP so there’s time yet.

AF has arrived on 6 and 8 dpo the last few months although I ovulated early this time, I could be lucky if I’m still in the game by Wednesday 🤞🏼

Has anyone ever gotten an evap line on a FRER within the 3 minutes of testing?

@Bananatoast123 yes I get indents on most FRERs within 3mins unfortunately. They can be so convincing aswell.

AF came for me today, on to cycle 15.

@Mummyme87 I got a v v v faint line this morning on a FRER, but I’m only 9/10dpo. It looks pinky but it’s too faint to fully tell. I have got a few different symptoms but worried it was an evap. My cheapie was BFN too but I don’t think they are v sensitive from looking it up. I think I’ll have to wait until tomorrow 😫

@Bananatoast123 photo of the test?

@Baby3herewego i’m aware you can barely see anything as it’s that faint ! I thought it was a BFN at first in the 3 mins but as I was chucking it I caught the light and was like hang on! Put it under the light and you can see it, my OH could see it too! I think it’s going to be a case of if there’s progression tomorrow will determine if it’s evap or not! Didn’t want to take another today and run out!

I can see it @Bananatoast123 definitely recheck tomorrow. Fingers crossed it’s the start of a BFP

@Bananatoast123 I see something. Let us know what you get tomorrow

@Mummyme87 @Baby3herewego ahhh it’s so reassuring when others can see it thank you! If I was like 12/13dpo I’d be like evap for deffo but as I’m 10dpo max I’m like maybe I need more time! Ive read so many people saying how FRER gave them evaps tho. 🙁 I’ve never had this though and always taken FRER!

Super tired and been burpy all day and I never burp! Fingers crossed these are good signs!

@Mummyme87 so sorry AF came, hope you’re doing ok 💕

@BCxx your heavy periods sound awful, have you tried using a moon cup? I started using one last year and I wouldn’t go back to tampons now!