AF due on 10th Oct. Anyone want to join?

[peonies1988]

Hey everyone,

This is my third cycle ttc after a MC at 10 weeks in March. I’m really hoping this is the month because my baby would’ve been due soon and the prospect of facing the due date without being pregnant again feels really hard.

I’m due next Monday 10th and wondered if anyone else due around the same time wanted some company while we keep fingers crossed for a BFP? xxxx

Just to add - I stupidly tested today at 9dpo and it was a bfn. Last pregnancy I got my bfp at 10dpo so it’s made me feel less optimistic.

Hello I'm due on at the weekend and stupidly tested too and BFN!! I got a positive at 9dpo with my first so feeling deflated! X

Hey @Jacko10 I’m so sorry :( are you certain on ovulation dates? I’m sure anyone reading this would be telling us we’re way too early but I always get an early bfp on a frer. X

Hey @peonies1988 . I got a static smiley on ovulation test so I'm going off day 1 of that. I definitely felt pregnant last time too and then as I say positive at 9dpo. Why is ttc such a roller coaster?!

Hi all - I’m expecting to come on 6th-8th. I took a cheap internet test today and it was negative. Is this bad news for me do you think? I know I’m early but if HGC is present I’d expect it to still
show up… does anyone else use cheap tests? Was going broke buying ones from
boots!

Me again - today would be 11DPO and BFN - still hope or no chance?

Hello all! Due on 12th Oct, MMC at 8 weeks in April, ttc since but wasn’t tracking until this cycle as was just hoping to go with it but nothing has happened so got my smiley face on CD11. Trying to resist the urge to test early so going to try and wait to see if AF arrives! Fingers crossed for everyone’s BFP’s! 😃

hi @Jacko10 !!! I am due the 9th Oct one week to go! This is my 7th cycle aged 34

Hi everyone - what days have people ever had a positive test? I had a negative one today from a cheap test - 11dpo. I had a pain on my lower back on the right side - (thought it was kidney pain!) day 6ish. Today I have pain more on both sides and it feels like my period 😢

Hi all ☺️I'm due the 6th, tested today at 10dpo and BFN.
Can't help but go back and check the tests as in my last pregnancy I tested, binned it and went back 2 days later and it was positive, turned out to be pregnant.
That now makes me a chronic go and back and checker lol.
Anyone got any symptoms?

Hi @middleofthelittle i am similar to you - expecting AF on 6th or 7th and tested on 11dpo and got a negative. Kinda feel it should have been a positive by now even though it’s early. Surely if I have the hormone it should show, right? Have had lower right back pain, some tiredness (but that could just be life) and felt anxious and emotional past 2 days (but again just life!) have been TTC a few months now (baby no 2). How about you?

good luck OP!! 9dpo is still super early to get a positive, I wouldn’t read into that. I’m due the 13th. Feels like ages 🙃

Can I join?! I'm not holding much hope tbh but I'm due the 13th.
My story is I'm 43, MC in July last year then got pregnant again in October, sadly that ended at 20 weeks with a TFMR and been trying every month since.
Fingers crossed every month but just feel sad about my age. Good luck to everyone!!! X

Hi all. Also have AF due on Monday 10th, I have short cycles so this will put me at 10 DPO. I'm going to try and hold out on testing until next Sunday.

Hope everyone is doing ok, sorry to hear those of you experienced MC. Hope we all get sticky beans this cycle.

Hi @CameraCoffeeCrochet i just wanted to say that I’m so sorry for your loss, that must’ve been so tough. Sending you lots of love and baby dust 💫 xxx

btw just in answer to when had first BFPs previously - never sooner than day 10 but that was only on a first response, it was v faint so doubt I’d have got a bfp on an internet cheapie xxx

@CameraCoffeeCrochet im so so sorry for your loss 💐. I have everything crossed for you.

We are due af the same day xx

Hi @CameraCoffeeCrochet i am very sorry to hear of your loss, and thank you for sharing.

it sounds like a lot of loss has been experienced here.

out of interest, who waits to test and who waits for AF? The last few months I’ve been so sad when AF has arrived and always just convinced myself it’s spotting, but then when I’ve taken tests, ive convinced myself if tested too early / broken test - not sure what’s easier

AF due 7/8th!

I tested 12 DPO with baby 1 and it was a bfn but on expected AF day - bfp! So I'm trying not to test early...

But only on cycle 1 trying for baby 2 so I can't be too dishearted if we aren't successful on this try.

Would love to join currently 6 to 8 dpo think I would be late by the 13th will definitely take a test on Wednesday
"Symptoms" RHR higher then normal, the top of my thighs ache & tired (but I'm always tired)

So so sorry to hear about the losses and BFNs hope that starts to change soon!

@Mammamia23
Hi! Great to have a cycle buddy! I've tested again this morning with a first response and negative so think I'm out. Makes no sense as my temps are still high. Do you use charts? TTC no1 after a previous miscarriage a few years ago. I'm 30 DH is 35.

I still have sore breasts. Have you taken anymore tests? Hopefully it's good news 🤞🏼

Hi @middleofthelittle sorry to hear that - getting a negative test hurts! I’ve decided to wait until the weekend - I know what I’m like - I’ll get a negative test and just assume it’s too early and drive myself mad analysing the stick too much 😂

what do you mean by charts? I use the clearblue ovulation sticks to track fertile windows. I haven’t taken my temp, but I’ve been very tired this week - I have a toddler though which may explain it! Slightly sore boobs - I feel every standard ache and pain women feel is also a pregnancy symptom so 🤷‍♀️

try not to be good disheartened. It will happen. X

Hope everyone is ok today, I'm trying not to symptom spot, I've got a bit of a cold and last time I did as well.
Also both of my positives were quite faint to begin with last time, I had read that if you have a higher BMi that sometimes it takes longer to get a positive so I'm really trying not to test early!
I'm really confused with my app too, it says test in 3 days but af not due until the 13th so it seems really early to test.
I just want a BFP!!! I feel like I'm going to be so disappointed if it doesn't happen this time because it will have been a year😥

Thanks @Mammamia23 think I'm going to hold off until the weekend too. It's DH birthday today so spent the whole month thinking it would be a great birthday present.
I use fertility friend to chart my bbt.
Hope all goes well this weekend for you!

@CameraCoffeeCrochet

That's annoying, what app do you use? Mine only triggers a test day after missed period.
I also had a faint test last time so now squint at tests hoping for the same!

It's the Ovia app, I find it handy for logging things but it's gone a bit weird recently.

I know all about those squinty lines, I swear if you look hard enough you'll always see something!!