hi all and thanks for all your thoughts and past experiences - it's a relief to know that i wont necessarily have to pass the sac (for some reason, the thought of it scares me!).
i am hoping that the worst is over after a weekend of heavy bleeding, cramping and clots things have finally started to slow a little. though i didnt see any sac pass, i hope that it just came out with the rest of the material so that i wont have to go for an erpc to clear things up as have already bled so much. will be having a scan on thurs to check if everything has come out.
(so after some mega paracetamol and a giant glass of wine) am in a slightly more positive frame of mind and for now am mentally trying to treat the whole thing as a late period (not sure if that's being in denial or what...)
kate thanks for your offer to come over - thankfully builders have now finished their job and managed to have hot water and working toilets for the weekend (what a luxury!). i do already have one dd (2.5 years) who really helped to pull me out of my first mc depression. hope all goes well tomorrow and that you dont have to wait any longer after that.
cece i just realised what cm means, and actually for the first time ever, i noticed when i ov'd the last time that my cm was pinky-brown too. i was a bit disturbed. we got pregnant that cycle, and well, the rest is now known. not sure if there is any correlation - i will ask my dr on thurs.
glad to hear that you had a good birthday sfxmum.
and congratulations to lissielou on bfp there is hope out there...