Hoping for a June BFP 💖🌷💖

[Skylark1990]

Hi everyone, thought if start a new thread for those of us heading into another cycle and hoping for a BFP in June 🤞 I was on the May thread briefly but decided to pause TTC after two early miscarriages this year. Was actually lovely to have a break 😅 but excited to try again this month. CD 1 for me today!

I have a beautiful 20 month old daughter already.

Hopefully we can all keep each other company on this rollercoaster! X

@MooBugz ❤️❤️❤️ thank you, I agree - this is a lovely thread and really helpful to share experiences. 🌈 I'm going into the office (I usually work from home) so hoping that is a good distraction. Also forgive me if you've said already, but do you already have a child? I didn't realise you had also had a loss - I'm so sorry, it's so hard isn't it. 🌹

How is everyone else going? So sorry to everyone who has had BFNs or Af show up. 💔 Who else is testing in next couple of days?

Had a really good dream I got a strong BFP. I woke up not knowing if it was real to find AF has hit me full force, the witch 😂Definitely cycle day 1 now after spotting for 6 days.

Thank you @allgoodthings84 ! 🌼❤️🤞🤞!

I'm sorry to hear that @BellaTheDarkOverlord hope you're feeling ok. At least it is a new cycle bringing new hope. TTC really is a massive test of patience and human resilience sometimes isn't it. Treat yourself today x

@BellaTheDarkOverlord totally xx

I've had my positive OPK this morning. The darkest I've ever had - I think because I went for a wee at midnight and so my urine this morning was super undiluted. DTD last night and the night before, but I'm now away overnight so won't see DH until Friday night. Last month I had a chemical and DTD the night before the positive OPK so hopefully that's enough! Let the TWW begin (although my luteal phase is only short so it's more like the ten day wait for me)

Thank you @allgoodthings84 sending you lots of positivity this next cycle and to everyone else awaiting their bfp ❤️

@Skylark1990 Work is a great distraction and why I've not tested again yet lol. That and my chaotic life I do have a 6yr old with special needs as well as a 5 & almost 2yr old but they are great support for each other bless them they got me through the mc. I feel guilty even saying I have other children as the mc made me feel empathy for those trying for their first and going through these awful times but my life isn't rosy I promise you!

Yeah my MC was at 11 weeks sadly and I think I took it worse so because of all the heartache with my firstborn it seemed ever more unfair but I know these things don't always have a reason.

@BellaTheDarkOverlord let's put that down to a premonition for the next round 🤞🏼

@BellaTheDarkOverlord same thing as what happened to me. Horrible isn’t it. Our body messing with us when we most want it

Been cramping and spotting since around 10dpo but then hit with AF. At least I definitely know my normal now. CD1 then. It better be a premonition for what's to come. Working nights tonight so at least I can go sleep a bit now 😁

I woke up feeling positive. Yes my AF has started but it means CD1 and end of my "am I aren't I" which was driving me crazy. The countdown to ovulation begins.

@BellaTheDarkOverlord I’m looking forward to the trying part 😂 because of my partner being away then my weird spotting then period it’s been 3 weeks nearly 😂

@Bellathedarkoverlord I feel the same day 1 (or maybe 2!) of AF. The time in between a BFN and AF starting is the worst for me.

@allgoodthings84 me too. I think I'm on nights those days of ovulation are due so I'll have to work out when we can have some time together haha. Dh says just some home at like 3am and wake him up but he's so tired when I do I can't do that to him.

@ExPatHereForAChat it is for me too. It's the not knowing if it's really AF or not and trying to convince myself the BFNs are wrong. I'm not going to buy any tests this month and I'm not going to test early. I definitely don't have my fingers crossed behind my back 😂

@MooBugz that's lovely you have 3 children already and so sorry about your MC 💔😞 of course it's natural to still want another baby even when we have children, but very sweet of you to feel empathy for those who don't!

I've got a 21 month old DD who was conceived on the first try so I was really not expecting to have two miscarriages since trying for our second (I mean no one expects it do they but it definitely has been a shock and a tough few months!).

@LeftTheWashingOut that all sounds positive! I think you're in with a good shot, I think statistically 2 days before ovulation is when we are most fertile!

@BellaTheDarkOverlord glad you are feeling more positive! When it is right it will happen. I am so with you on telling myself I won't test early etc then always testing early 😬 it's impossible not to.

Really @Skylark1990 ? I thought you needed to be closer to ovulation than that. But I'll take it, as I imagine once I get home tomorrow we'll be too tired from the week so I think our attempts this month are done!

Just a little update I am now 2 days late I am not normally late usually a 28 day cycle. I'm currently supposed to be on çd3 , I stopped testing 3 days before period was due because I was getting disheartened with it a̶n̶d̶ b̶e̶c̶a̶u̶s̶e̶ i̶ r̶a̶n̶ o̶u̶t̶ o̶f̶ t̶e̶s̶t̶s̶. I have a little bit of hope again.
Don't really have any symptoms apart from sore heads and thick cm like egg white but iv read that that's not a sign in itself. Also very tired but that's not unusual for me lol.
Will test in the morning at some point no doubt AF will appear overnight🤞

Sounds promising @Tartanhaggis!!

I'm pretty sure I'm out this month. Feeling a little blue about it, but it's alright, it'll happen when it happens

So after getting a faint line on Monday I retested this morning and here we are!

It's actually happening then 🙈

Good luck to everyone I hope you all get your bfps soon, sending you guys all the positive vibes and baby feels ever! I would really recommend SMEP too as it was my first cycle trying it since the Mac after the first two months of nothing.

Good luck and thank you for your support and company ❤️

Would help if I attached the pic right

Congrats @MooBugz!!! That's so great for you!

Congratulations @MooBugz so happy for you! What a wonderful dark line!! 💗❤️🌈💖🌹😘 Sending you all the sticky bean vibes. Now you can relax a little. It's happening! X

I've just tested again at 11dpo and there is a solid line on the FRER plus a line on a baby plan test so looks like it's progressing well! Really glad I waited a couple days to test again, it's so nice to see clear progression.
I just hope it carries on! Feeling hopeful and happy as with the chemicals don't think I had such a solid line at all. I'll attach a pic. 🥰☺️🤞

Best best of luck to all those still waiting to test and to everyone who is out this month, best of luck for next cycle. It will happen 💖

Good luck @Tartanhaggis !

Looking so good @Skylark1990!!