Hoping for a June BFP 💖🌷💖

[Skylark1990]

Hi everyone, thought if start a new thread for those of us heading into another cycle and hoping for a BFP in June 🤞 I was on the May thread briefly but decided to pause TTC after two early miscarriages this year. Was actually lovely to have a break 😅 but excited to try again this month. CD 1 for me today!

I have a beautiful 20 month old daughter already.

Hopefully we can all keep each other company on this rollercoaster! X

@TeddyBeans i started to spot on 9/10 dpo so I’ve been doing some reading and going to try vit c vitamins as meant to be good for luteal phase (and lots of other health benefits) from what I’ve read. I’ve ordered some from Amazon and will start tomorrow. I never spot for that many days (usually just 1 day or not at all) but I did ovulate later in my cycle so just in case I thought it might be worth a go and even if it doesn’t help all the other health benefits sound good to me anyway

@BellaTheDarkOverlord lucky piss stick 😂

Ah congrats @MooBugz - is this the first BFP of the thread? Fingers crossed it's a sticky one for you.

I'm on 4dpo and the impatience and nerves are starting to kick in....I wish I could just switch off. Feel like it's unlikely this month as I've only just recovered from covid and had a chemical last month.

Another one with a short luteal phase here - usually about 10 days. I think I read somewhere vit b12 is meant to help.

The amount of women I know who lost babies around the time of having covid is insane!

st the hospital we all think it needs to be researched! Even heavily pregnant healthy pregnancies are ending with no valid reason somethings not right! Iv refused my booster I see too much 🙈

Iv not caught up properly, just came to say cramping alot again , slight temp and been sick . Part of me thought oooo yay but then I actually think it’s a bug 😂 doing frer in the morning I didn’t test today . I know shocking isn’t it but my delivery came late 🙄🙄

Congratulations @MamaSJ15 omg!!!!! Please update 🥹🥰 @CTommo can you get your hcg checked via the doctor? This happened to me a few times 😞
good luck to you both everything crossed

1DPO today but this is the first cycle I think I’m not in for a chance. I ovulated on CD10 which is just too early for conception (going by some research I’ve done) and we only DTD on ovulation day so could have totally missed it. Feeling very deflated x

@Hopefulprincess yes I’m booked in with the doctor tomorrow for a blood test. I went to A&E with side pain yesterday and the dr spent all of 30 seconds doing a quick urine test and then sent me away telling me it’s negative so now I’m unsure what to think!

OPK still really low this morning...not sure what's going on. Potentially missed my peak overnight? Peak not happened yet? Who knows.

We've DTD every day for the last 3 so hopefully there's a good amount of swimmers up there ready...

MN isn't letting me post my chart this morning

Morning all, how are we feeling today? I'm 8dpo today and definitely have tender nipples now when I feed my DD. This is what happened the last two pregnancies that ended in early losses.... Really hoping it's a sign I'm pregnant again and that this time it sticks! Also felt a bit nauseous this morning 🤞🤞🤞

BFN this am but I do have a bug 😞🤢

I dunno if it is a bug but I feel so sick , can’t be pregnancy so 🤷‍♀️ Boobs are raging , nipples sensitive but I know this is progesterone not pregnancy. Why oh why it’s awful feeling so pregnant when your not 😮‍💨

I’m the same with the sensitive nipples today but could be the build up to AF so we will see! This is going to feel like a long week waiting to test on Sunday. Congrats to all the BFPs already

My first cycle of us trying although I'm 40 so bit worried how this will all go! It's all so much more complicated than I thought all these years trying to not get pregnant.

Going on the clue app for my cycle i should have been fertile this week so I guess we will see in a couple of weeks.

AF due next two days so waiting it out. Once it's over might start taking better vitamins to help with fatigue. Something to do. Had lots of cramps last few days but I'm certain it's AF as always BFN. It's only cycle 2 really so we'll keep going.

@Skylark1990 goodluck! Hope it's good news for you.

@TeddyBeans keep testing. You might not have a peak as yet. Goodluck!

Sounds promising @skylark1990

I get the same when nursing DS around ovulation time but thankfully it only lasts a couple of days. Not my favourite feeling!

Thought I'd update...
I had really bad cramping overnight and into yesterday along with spotting, I spoke to a doc yesterday who just told me to test again and get to them with the result if it's positive, otherwise go to a&e if the pain got worse. Thankfully it didn't and tests still positive (number of weeks on CB digital also increased). So waiting for a call from the doc again today, hopefully she'll refer me to early pregnancy unit for a scan 🤞

@MamaSJ15 goodluck!!

Looks like AF has just come. Getting red bleeding when wiping so CD1 now!

Well AF is officially on her way. I'm more upset than normal this month and I just feel like breaking down. I had convinced myself this was the month as I fell pregnant on month 5 with DS. I'm just so fed up now and my poor DH and DS have had to deal with me being a grumpy bitch all day.

@ExPatHereForAChat so sorry x it's so heartbreaking isn't it. I was convinced as I had so many symptoms.

I wish I could just know I can get pregnant. It's the worry maybe I can't.

@bellathedarkoverlord That is exactly it. Even if someone told me my BFP would be this time next year I'd be okay with that. I hate the false hope and sheer disappointment followed by the fear of never getting pregnant again. Bloody mindfuck!

I also think it's cruel that finding out you're not pregnant coincides with PMS. Ugggh.

🤞 @MamaSJ15

Sorry AF has come ladies, it's heartbreaking

Surprisingly OPK this afternoon was quite a bit darker than yesterday's. Looking like CD15 or 16 will be ovulation day which is worrying for a 24 day cycle

Good luck @MamaSJ15 , that sounds positive that the tests are still positive! Sending luck your way, keep us updated!
So sorry AF has come for you @ExPatHereForAChat @BellaTheDarkOverlord . I totally understand that fear of 'what if' very well, it's really hard to remain upbeat about it all the time. Statistics are on our side at least that at the right time we will get pregnant and baby will stick ... it's just the ups and downs and hope then disappointment which is so hard isn't it.

@TeddyBeans the dip you had a couple days ago could be an ovulation dip maybe? Or do you think ovulation hasn't happened yet as LH test hasn't been dark enough? Hopefully your luteal phase isn't too short as can understand that being a worry. I ovulate on day 15/16 usually but usually have a 28/29 cycle. I did have 26 day cycles for a few months after my covid jab! Very odd x