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Hoping for BFP in May

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Catred4 · 08/04/2022 07:16

CD1 here, starting a new thread for those who are hoping to get a BFP in May for a January/February baby 🥰

This is my cycle 3 trying for #2. I've got an 18mo old son.

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MissBlue93 · 11/05/2022 07:43

3rdtimelucky2022 · 11/05/2022 07:38

@MissBlue93 we are cycle twins! I have finally got my positive ovulation test this morning. I’m cycle day 20 so super late but had a missed miscarriage and surgery in March so still messed up from that.

fingers crossed for us both! Feel like we will be the last ones in this group testing as 2WW won’t be til end of the month now!

Ooh yay!! I tested again before bed last night and it was still very dark, not done one this morning yet but my temp only slightly increased. Yesterday was 36.15 today 36.23 but I did it twice as first time came up 36.08 but I took it out just before it beeped so think I messed it up, they've been out of whack with me having covid! But it's still a really low temp compared to my normal during the cycle. So I'd hope today is ovulation today or at a push yesterday was. I'll see if they start spiking up I guess! And I'll do a test before I go to work around 9am and see if it's started to fizzle out.

Apps are now pushing my AF back a few days due to ovulating this late but knowing me I'll be testing from 10DPO 🙈

April01stbaby · 11/05/2022 07:50

9dpo and I caved and did a test. I've never done one before AF due but I felt some pinching and some cramping a couple of days ago. I know it's super early but BFN and now I wish I never did one. Sad

Organictangerine · 11/05/2022 07:52

April01stbaby · 11/05/2022 07:50

9dpo and I caved and did a test. I've never done one before AF due but I felt some pinching and some cramping a couple of days ago. I know it's super early but BFN and now I wish I never did one. Sad

I feel the same, even if it was positive it would be faint and I would be worrying all the way to period due date. I really should just wait to be a day late & get a nice line (hopefully) 😔

April1stbaby · 11/05/2022 07:57

@Organictangerine it's heartbreaking isn't it. I know we are all in the same boat but it's so hard going through it every month.

Organictangerine · 11/05/2022 08:00

April1stbaby · 11/05/2022 07:57

@Organictangerine it's heartbreaking isn't it. I know we are all in the same boat but it's so hard going through it every month.

I have to be honest this was cycle 1 for me so I don’t feel I have the right to complain really - especially as we dtd only once anywhere near ovulation. We were lucky enough to conceive DD on cycle 1, so I think I got complacent. Ah well - time to step up our efforts next cycle! And a February baby would be better for a few reasons so I’m telling myself that… I hope you’re okay April, how long have you been trying can I ask?

MissBlue93 · 11/05/2022 08:25

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MissBlue93 · 11/05/2022 08:27

I think this is my proper peak now, I posted wrong one a min ago! It's darker than yesterdays! CD18, just unsure if I'll ovulate today or tomorrow now 🤔

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LemonZestDribbles · 11/05/2022 09:53

@MissBlue93 could be later today or tomorrow! Definitely looks peak now

Another faint for me today. Shouldn't have tested as now I'm worrying 😬

MissBlue93 · 11/05/2022 09:56

LemonZestDribbles · 11/05/2022 09:53

@MissBlue93 could be later today or tomorrow! Definitely looks peak now

Another faint for me today. Shouldn't have tested as now I'm worrying 😬

My apps are now all assuming ovulation will be tomorrow so I guess I'll go with that!

Ooh exciting though!

jammyrose · 11/05/2022 15:18

Currently on CD13 and DTD today after a CB static smiley. Will continue trying during peak and we’ll just have to see if it sticks! AF is due 27th May. Would be nice to end the month on a positive, literally and figuratively!

Organictangerine · 11/05/2022 15:46

I’m imagining things aren’t I 😞 does anyone ever do that thing where they stare for so long the line vanishes then it comes back next time you look?

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ElleBelleLou · 11/05/2022 15:56

Could do with a bit of a handhold today!! I know I'm definitely out for May, BFN and AF symptoms today.

I had a miscarriage in March, found out a colleague was pregnant the exact same time. She's announced her pregnancy to the whole office today and everyone's so cheery and celebrating - I am of course happy for her but I feel so sad and emotional because I should be announcing mine this week too.

TTC just feels like such a hard journey especially today 

Hopefulprincess · 11/05/2022 17:01

@Organictangerine do you have a pic without shadow on the windows?

Hopefulprincess · 11/05/2022 17:02

@MissBlue93 yessssss defo peak 💪🏻

Hopefulprincess · 11/05/2022 17:04

I got an exxxxxxtremely faint + like impossible to picture 🙄 so Iv turned to grey not counting it it’s like sooo hard to see it’s ridiculous

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Hopefulprincess · 11/05/2022 17:05

This mornings wee can only see if tweak it these could be indents . Hate these tests 🤣

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Hopefulprincess · 11/05/2022 17:08

@ElleBelleLou it’s so hard when it’s something you want so badly! After many losses and losing my daughter after she was cremated I couldn’t see how I could ever have a child but it’s true what they say miracles do happen and one day your very awaited bundle will happen it’s just sometimes heartache and stress to get there xxxx

Cherrymarket · 11/05/2022 17:10

@ElleBelleLou that sounds incredibly tough, please be kind to yourself today. Ttc is such an emotional time X

@Organictangerine i definitely see a line of some sort!

Curlywurly3 · 11/05/2022 17:30

I got a flashing smiley on a CB digital today on CD7, I usually Ov on CD11/12 but I’ve had ewcm today and I’m sure Ov pains on the left side. I really hope I’m not Ov this early. Also, does anyone know which is the test line and which is the control line on the CB Ov stick?

@ElleBelleLou your body is probably just taking a couple of months to adjust after the MC hopefully you won’t have to wait too much longer x

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Cherrymarket · 11/05/2022 18:03

Curlywurly3 · 11/05/2022 17:30

I got a flashing smiley on a CB digital today on CD7, I usually Ov on CD11/12 but I’ve had ewcm today and I’m sure Ov pains on the left side. I really hope I’m not Ov this early. Also, does anyone know which is the test line and which is the control line on the CB Ov stick?

@ElleBelleLou your body is probably just taking a couple of months to adjust after the MC hopefully you won’t have to wait too much longer x

The control line is usually the furthest away from the bit you pee on. You can get flashing for quite a while before a static I think so don’t worry.

Smcai · 11/05/2022 18:13

Hi all, feeling a little sad today after testing at 12DPO and getting a BFN. AF due at the weekend so there's still hope I guess but I have a feeling this won't be my month.

Good luck to everyone still waiting for their BFP's. ☺️

Cegbee · 11/05/2022 18:35

I'm also not going to be lucky in May, I still haven't had a period after my miscarriage in March, I was expecting it at the end of April/early May but still hasn't come. Good luck every else and/or see you in the June group!

LemonZestDribbles · 11/05/2022 20:01

@Organictangerine I can definitely see something 🤞🤞

@ElleBelleLou that must be so so so hard. Don't be tough on yourself either - you can be happy for them and still really sad too. It won't be long before you get that bfp too ❤

@Hopefulprincess I can see a line but hard cause it's grey. Are you trying again in the morning?

@Smcai here's hoping it doesn't come 🤞

Two faint lines on frer and two shadows on one step - I've not been able to shake this feeling I'm pregnant. Mainly from the indigestion, hard nipples and bubbly feeling. Got this this evening 😬🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

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Hopefulprincess · 11/05/2022 20:19

@LemonZestDribbles I see that clearly!!!! Ahhhhh can we say congratulations yet 🙈🙊 are you 9dpo?

Hopefulprincess · 11/05/2022 20:21

In the morning?? Iv been holding wee 🤣 Iv started now il be a 3 times a day tester 🙄 every month I say I won’t . Every month but SOMEONE buys lots of tests pfffttt il do first unreliable frer in the morning though