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TAKING CLOMID FOR THE FIRST TIME AND REALLY EXCITED AND SCARED!!!!

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sambrads · 03/01/2008 08:21

HELLO EVERYONE !!!!
I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO CONCIEVE FOR NEARLY A YEAR AND WITH NO LUCK AND AN UNDERACTIVE THYROID THE DOCTOR HAS PRESCRIBED ME WITH CLOMID!!!
I TOOK MY PERIOD ON 23RD DEC AND TOOK IT DAY 1 _ 5 I AM DUE TO GET MY BLOODS TAKEN ON 11TH THEN 23RD IS BIG TEST DAY!!!
I HAVE READ SO MANY SUCCESS STORIES BUT I CANT HELP FEELING NEGITIVE AS I DONT WANT TO GET LET DOWN !!!

HAS ANYONE GOT ANY SUPPORT OR ADVICE OR FEELING THE SAME??
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE

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nandos · 04/05/2008 17:55

thanks you all for the support and encouragement-especially supersteph
its true the sonographer didnt say that its dead or anything but i dont think i got my lmp wrong as i tested in late march. its hard when i heard the news at first and cried for a few days now but life has to go on isnt it...
i just hope if its bad news i would have natural bleeding cos' the d&c sounds scary to me
dont worry abt me cos' its fate n im letting everything goes as it is..
anywayz hows everyone else doing?.. hope you guys are as strong as me n dont lose hope..keep trying

DianeH33 · 04/05/2008 19:14

My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for about 20 months with no success. I am 33 and he is 39. We have had all the tests and nothing has been found yet to affect fertility. However, my cycles are increasingly irregular and I do have spotting both before and after my period. We have now been prescribed Clomid for 3 cycles, and I take my first pill tomorrow (Day 2-6 of cycle). I would be interested in any stories of any other women around my age, who had unexplained infertility, who had success (or not) with Clomid. Thanks!

Pinkali37 · 05/05/2008 10:27

Nandos - GO GIRL ! You have lifted my spirit today. When I had my mc in Oct it hit me so hard but then I got to the stage like you when I thought, this can not ruin my life and things must go on. It's not that you forget it but the only way you can think about it, if things aren't meant to be is that this baby wasn't healthy and next time you will be blessed with a healthy baby. I really hope you continue to have strength, i really admire you. x

Diane - HELLO and welcome. I am not exactly the same as you well not at all realyl other than I have a success story on Clomid. I am 29 (nearly 30), and have severe endometriosis (like it's everywhere), my husband is 20 years older than me and had a vasectomy 14 years ago and then a reversal 18 months ago. We discovered he had 33% good sperm. I was on my 3rd round of clomid at 50mg when I discovered I was pregnant. I just wanted to try and give you faith, ours really is a miracle after being told I would NEVER conceive naturally. I am now 12wks + 4 today. I wish you all the luck in the world.

p.s. I'm still on this thread as these girls were so supportive of me I want to try and help them, as I know how they feel and can empathise with everyword they write. xxxx

DianeH33 · 05/05/2008 11:38

Thanks for your message Pinkali37, I've got my fingers crossed!

DungunGirl · 06/05/2008 08:39

HI everyone hope you all had a lovely weekend and made the most of the sunshine!

I was silly enough to get quite badly burnt around my neck/upper chest. I obviously didn't put enough sun lotion on there as I wasn't burnt anywhere else!!!! WEIRD!

Went to Brands Hatch race circuit in Kent on Sunday to watch the A1 GP Final race. My DH is into racing big time...so I just go along as well for fun! It was pretty good...didn;t actually feel like I was being forced to be there like the last time. I guess DS is older as well which makes it all easier.

nandos
you are an inspiration girl! I think it is the best way to deal with it though. My DH is a religious person ( me not so ) and when I had my MC last month he was like you. He was disappointed but just put it down to fate and that it was better we lose a baby that just wasn't meant to be rather than facing more problems/bigger problems later on in a pregnancy.

Saying that though...I am still suspicious of your dates....When I did at last get pregnant in Feb/March it was due to a weird cycle. I know this because I chart BBT and it showed that I ovulated VERY late in the cycle...on day 29! So my EDD was 2 weeks out of sync.I only knew this because of my charting - the consultant was VERY happy to have my temp chart as she saw it immediately as well. So we avoided any panics when checking HCG levels as I wasn't as far along as one would think!

I am still keeping hope for you that this could be the case nandos!

pinkali
How are you getting on? You must be starting to feel a little bigger around the tummy now surely. I remember with my first DS that I was starting to bloat by about 10 weeks! I remember this so clearly mainly due to the fact both my office trouser zips split!!! AT WORK!!! very embarrassing!!

Oh yes....got my AF on Friday...so 29 days after bleeding & my MC started. So I will be back on the horse ( sp to speak ) this month.

Good luck everyone!

Pinkali37 · 06/05/2008 09:04

Hi Dungungirl,

I am doing very well thank you. I am 12 + 5 today and feeling suspiciously good. Food aversions have totally gone, and tiredness has really eased. I am bloated but it isn't a baby bump yet. A lot fo the books say at this stage a bump can be due to sluggish bowels and bloating so GREAT that must be what I have!! Will expect to see something in the next week or so.. I just want a bump!!!!

You sound like you had a good weekend. Shouldn't speak too soon but let's hope we get a proper summer this year! I also slightly burnt my neck. Derr...

xx

nandos · 06/05/2008 11:36

Hi everyone..hope u had a good weekend.

pinkali- its true if this is not meant to be then next time hopefully i'll have a healthy baby u made me a bit happy today thinking bt a bouncing healthy baby on my way in the future

Dungungirl- i try not to keep my hopes up by thinking that my lmp could be wrong (maybe due to clomid God knows)
but i suspect something was wrong cos' i dont have any symptoms at all.
in any way, congrats on your AF cos' now you can start ttc again and i hope for u the best

Pinkali37 · 06/05/2008 12:08

Morning Nandos -

Thank you for saying I made you happier today. It shall happen and when it does it will be the most special baby in the world. I know that is how I feel about mine. I am feeling good. Food aversions etc have gone and starting to feel like my old self and at this stage it is quite easy to forget i'm pregnant!

Moonlit · 07/05/2008 12:56

Hi Ladies,

I was wondering if I can pester you all for some advice?

I have PCOS, however after rigorous dieting I managed to concieve my DD at the first attempt. Since then, I have gained weight again and have been prescribed Metformin which has shifted some weight.

We are moving abroad for a while so I went to see my GP today, she refused to prescribe me Clomid, because I have a regular 30 day cycle. We have been TTC our second baby since October 2006. I have been very patient with my GP, but now I am going to have a metal fit!!!!

I had another blood test today to see if I am ovulating and was told my hubby must take a sperm sample to the hospital.

Surely you can have a period and not ovulate or ovulate irregularly?

Please help. I would appreciate your advice.

Thank you!

Pinkali37 · 07/05/2008 13:15

Hello

All i think i know is that if your cycle is regular that is pretty good sign that you are ovulating.... mine used to be anything up 80 days!!!

DungunGirl · 08/05/2008 08:54

Hi Moonlit

Welcome to the clomid thread!

I am like you...I have regular 32-35 day cycles . Even though this is usually a good sign, the nurses and my consultant both told me that you can in fact have monthly bleeds without actually ovulating.

I was told this, and read it somewhere as well:

"In women where ovulation fails to occur because of an anovulatory disorder, bleeding can occur nevertheless. This is known as anovulatory bleeding and is not a normal menstrual period.

There is a huge difference between cycles in which the woman ovulates but does not get her period, and one in which she gets her period but does not ovulate. In the former case, the woman is almost certainly pregnant. In the latter case, she has had an anovulatory cycle.

If you do not chart your ovulation and have an anovulatory disorder, then you may assume that you are menstruating normally when anovulatory bleeding occurs during your cycle. This anovulatory bleeding occurs when estrogen production continues to develop in the uterine lining without reaching the threshold necessary to trigger ovulation. In such a case, either of the following two things may happen, both leading to what appears to be a menstrual period but is really not one.

  1. Either the estrogen will build up slowly to a point below the threshold and then drop, resulting in estrogen withdrawal bleeding.
  2. Or the endometrium builds up slowly over an extended period of time, eventually to the point where the resulting uterine lining is so thickened it can no longer sustain itself. This is known as estrogen breakthrough bleeding. This is a more common occurrence.

In either case, if you weren't charting your ovulation, you might think you were simply menstruating, though you would maybe notice a difference in the type of bleeding. Some women may notice a difference in the flow of bleeding. It may become heavier or lighter than your usual flow."

This was the case for me. When I went to see my GP I had noticed that even though my periods were regular, they had changed. They were quite a lot lighter than before. After being refeered to the fertility unit, they confirmed it - PCOS and irregular ovulation.

However Moonlit - they until today have not prescribed me clomid due to weight!! GGGRRRRR!!!

So sorry to be gloomy about it, but unless your BMI is under 35 or 30 in some NHS trusts, they won't give it to you.

At least you are on Metformin you lucky thing! That is supposed to be good as a start!

Good luck!

Pinkali37 · 08/05/2008 15:20

Dungangirl - You are good girl !!

Hey have you not started on the Clomid that you got? Are you going to? x

sambrads · 08/05/2008 17:44

hello ladies thought i would pop in to say hello

i am 20 weeks now half way there cant believe how quick time is going

how is everyone doing there is so many new people on this thread from i was here its good to see the docs are being ore generous with handing out clomid

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Pinkali37 · 08/05/2008 17:46

Sambrads, well hello there. 20 weeks, wow that has gone quickly. I am 13 weeks today and am at the don't feel pregnant stage as haven't got a bump and starting to feel good. When did you get a bump? Can't remember if this is your first or not?

DungunGirl · 09/05/2008 08:27

pink

Yes...I have been a good girl....well saying that I have just had my first AF since the miscarriage. So, I am waiting for my body to have a breather first.

Has been good though, 29 days from MC to first AF, maybe the MC has kicked things back into balance!

Anyway, have my next appointment with the consultant on June 2nd, so I have decided to tell her that if she won't do anything for me then I will take things into my own hands as I won't wait another 3 months or more!

sambrads

HELLO!!! 20 weeks...wow - HALF WAY THERE!!!!!
Loads of things have happened since you have been away...unfortunately myself and a few other women I know on mumsnet have suffered MC's. Plus, Fruity, Moonlit and I still are fighting the NHS to get clomid!!!! So not much change there!!

sambrads · 09/05/2008 08:39

dungungirl so sorry to hear of the mc
i have never had to deal with it but im sure your stilling finding it tough

how is fruitloop doing???have not seen her in ages which thread is she on ???

pinki to be honest i still dont have much of a bump .
seen some people i know in tescos yesterday and they could not even tell i had to them them i was pregnant then they asked me did i just find out
they nearly passed out when i said i was 5 months hahahaha

this is my second child my ds is 19months and a real hand full at the moment .

i think maybe his time it could be a girl as i have been so different this time but i suppose only time will tell!!

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FruitynNutty · 09/05/2008 09:09

Hey SAM!!! It's me fruity!

I tried to find you on anti natal

Well, FF has decided I've finally ov'd! At last . I'm 3dpo at the moment. I should have been 8dpo but FF changed my ov day as my temp shot up this morning. I'm just hoping to get my hands on some Clomid in August at my follow up subfertility appointment. Had a load of tests and scans.

I'm so pleased your pregnancy is going well I cant believe your half way there already!
I'm currently on Emmsys waiting room if you ever want a chat and a catch up

Pinkali37 · 09/05/2008 09:10

Sambrads, SO at 13 weeks is it not unusual to not see anything??? Other than bloating which disappears when I lay down? My sister keeps saying can i feel the top of my womb and the answer at the moment is no and it is worrying me.

Pinkali37 · 09/05/2008 09:15

HEllo Fuity, I forgot you changed your name. GOOD LUCK THIS MONTH !!!!

sambrads · 09/05/2008 09:26

love the name chance fruity

dont worry yourself pinki all will be ok think you have a dose of pregnancy paranoids hahaha but its ok i have it to

have you been for your scan yet???

im going on 28th for my 22 week scan so cant wait to make sure everything is ok

had a bit of bad news yesterday my cousin lost her baby she was 21 weeks.they could not find a herat beat

she had to give birth was in labour for 4 hours. they are burying the baby today i am so devastated for her and its turned me into a bga of nerves

thats why i cant wait for my scan .

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Pinkali37 · 09/05/2008 09:31

Oh Sambrads that's so sad, i'm so sorry for her and her family. When you hear things like that, it really does make you worry. Nothing is certain until you have the baby in your arms. I really do have paranoia.

Moonlit · 09/05/2008 11:12

Hi DungunGirl - thank you for the welcome!

lauralou1 · 09/05/2008 21:40

hi dungungirl
i am due to start clomid in 4 weeks

my doctor told me i couldnt have them but after trying to lose weight and no success he has told me i can start them but there are risks my bmi is over 35 .

the risks are very low but i am willing to take them .

if there is anything you can tell me i ould be really grateful thanks

Moonlit · 09/05/2008 22:35

Hi lauralou1 I have read, if you take Metformin with Clomid it reduces the 'risks', if your BMI is high.

I hope your GP will be monitoring you with regular cans etc?

Moonlit · 09/05/2008 22:35

cans = scans sorry!!!

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