🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 5 💕✨🤞🌈

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 🌈🌈🌈

@aesgriff I hope you are ok this morning 💜

@Lizm1990 I'm sorry to hear about your loss 💜 welcome to the thread x

@Lizm1990 sorry you find yourself here!

@HoneyLemon29 I’d definitely be testing too, the waiting is just so hard. Could it be implantation bleeding do you think?

@aesgriff hope you managed to get some sleep last night xxx

@Cruz86 hope you’re feeling better today xxx

@speake I'm not sure, I did have spotting at 4DPO after DTD so I'm honestly hoping my cervix is just highly sensitive. But then we haven't DTD in 2 nights now. I've had 3 successful pregnancies and didn't get implantation bleeding. I only seem to get that with losses 😩 I've decided I'm not waiting for the delivery I'm going to grab and FRER in half hour 😬 x

@HoneyLemon29 I don’t blame you, hopefully it’ll put your mind at rest & then you’ll just have extra to use when your post arrives 😊 Fingers crossed it’s positive & all is ok, it is so hard not to compare everything to either a successful pregnancy or a lost pregnancy. Let us know how you get on with your FRER xxx

Morning all xxx

@Sassy144 thank you for your lovely words xx

@speake slept better then expected! Am soo tired I could easily go back to bed then go to work. Are you expecting your HGC results back today? Xx

@HoneyLemon29 I know it’s super hard to not compare pregnancies but please remember every pregnancy is different. You could be having a little implantation bleed. Good luck on your hunt for FRER xx

@Lizm1990 welcome to the thread! So sorry for your MMC. I had one too, and the surgery, it was and is still one of the worst times of my life. Sending hugs xx

@Ganesh2022 thank you ♥️ Still got horrible back ache but just want to get through the day so I can return to my pit of self wallowing 🤫 imposter syndrome mode… activated! Xx

@aesgriff how are you today 💞 xx

@Lizm1990 welcome and sorry for your loss 💐 it is a horrible place to be in but plenty of support here for you or if you have any questions xx

@HoneyLemon29 sorry your still spotting 😩 really hope it isn't the same outcome as the ectopic but I can understand why u would be so worried when it's exactly the same. Keeping everything crossed for you 🤞💞 xx

@aesgriff glad you got a better sleep than expected, hopefully work is a welcome distraction for you today 🤍

I think it’ll be tomorrow or Thursday, I tracked the delivery this morning and it was only delivered today despite posting Sat morning xxx

Negative test. But it's to be expected this early. If the tests stay negative and AF kicks in properly the only positive that'll come out of this is the bleeding isn't caused by pregnancy at all. Medicheck progesterone test is coming today so hopefully that'll be able to give me more info. I think a doctors call will be in order to discuss bleeding in the luteal phase. Try to see if there's any defects x

@HoneyLemon29 I can unsdertand the panic with the spotting hopefully it's implantation 🙏🏻

@aesgriff I'm glad you managed to sleep, how are you feeling today? I've got everything crossed for you for tomorrow 🌈

I finally got a flashing smiley this morning 🙌🏻 my plan is DTD tonight, Thursday and Saturday and Sunday hoping I peak Thursday/Friday and O Saturday/Sunday, and hoping I don't have flashing smileys for days on end haha! Does that sound ok do you think? DP doesn't know I'm tracking O this month as the last two months I told him it was O day he struggled to finish due to stress knowing how much we want a baby 😞 he asked me not to tell him when I'm ovulating so he doesn't stress so I'll have to try and persuade him to DTD tonight without mentioning O is on the way and without making that obvious 😂

Hi ladies hope you are all ok? I've not read through the thread these last few days. AF is here in full force 😕. I'm ok but need to have a rethink as to the plan going forward. I'm going to step away from MN I'm afraid. It's not helping my obsessing! A huge thank you for all your support and advice over the last few months. Wishing you all happy and health pregnancy's and BFPs. Hopefully I will randomly pop up again in a few months and can see that you are all doing good 😊 xxxx

@calimc83 sorry to hear this I will miss you 😩 but I understand you need to do what's best for you. Don't give up I'm keeping everything crossed for you and hopefully u will pop back in 💞 look after yourself 🤗 xx

@HoneyLemon29 sorry it's negative but you are still early. Yes I would contact your drs and see if there's anything going on with the spotting so early. Hope you get some answers 💞 xx

@arianasky so happy you have finally got a flashing 🙌 hope it's soon for you 🤞 yes definitely better not telling them as they feel so pressured. Will he not guess tho if your wanting to DTD so often 🙈🙊 xx

@calimc83 sorry to see you go, o have everything crossed for your rainbow in the future hopefully you pop back in like you said 💕🌈

@Skl2021 he might suspect something tbh but hopefully he won't 😂 I don't think he understands ovulation timing tbh so hopefully he doesn't twig haha

@arianasky yay flashing! I’m still neg :( but ewcm today and a high soft cervix so I’m gonna keep testing several times a day with OPK sticks and save the digital for FMU

@calimc83 will miss you also, cali ♥️♥️ Sending you so many positive vibes and take care of yourself xx

@arianasky I’m doing ok thank you - am keeping busy with work and trying to enjoying being pregnant until proven otherwise 😍 yay I think your plan for DTD is spot on. Keeping all my fingers crossed!!! Xx

@Skl2021 just had a call from EPU returning my voicemail from yesterday. I explained what was going on and they’ve moved my scan from tomorrow to Friday so there’s a weeks difference and also so the consultant can complete the scan. She’s said that if it’s a viable pregnancy then I’ll be consultant led (anyone have any ideas what that means?!) and a ‘plan’ will be worked out on the day. So none the wiser. I don’t mind waiting until Friday as I agree about having the week apart to check if anything’s happened.
How are you feeling?? Any news on the double scans?? Xx

@HoneyLemon29 I’m sorry about the BFN but you are soooo early. What are you thinking? Xx

@PamelaDoov sounds good, we may be ovulating on the same day, hopefully not too much longer for us now 💕

@aesgriff I'm glad you're ok, definitely! today you are pregnant and that's what matters ❤️ consultant led normally means a high risk pregnancy I think? I could be wrong though

@arianasky haha no my oh doesn't understand it either so hopefully u get away with it 🤣🤞🙌 bet your so glad it's finally here 🙌 xx

@aesgriff how u feel about waiting longer? Can't believe they rang back today after not getting back to you yesterday 🤦 how is the spotting today? I think it means your high risk so u go under consultant care instead of just midwife and it means u will get extra appointments. I'm normally under consultant care as my BMI is higher so I'm classed as high risk. So I just have extra appointments with them to make sure everything is ok or they can suggest stuff if something isn't right. Xx

Just had a massive gush of blood. Think it's all over guys :( xx

@calimc83 I'm sorry to see you go but understand the need to look after yourself in that way. Thank you for the support you've given me during my time on the thread. May this AF be your LMP should you decide to keep trying. My hope is that every single person who's been on here or sadly will be on here will have their healthy rainbow soon.

Oh F*, @Bridgey8 so sorry to read this. You able to get checked out? Hoping you are just someone who happened to bleed during pregnancy. I know many people who did and had good outcomes. Holding fingers tight.

@arianasky yesss! The flashing smiley! Never thought I'd be so happy to see its stupid smiling face as I was last month.

@Bridgey8 hope your ok 💕 definitely get checked over epu or a+e don't wait. I'm keeping everything crossed that all will be ok 🤞💕 x