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🌈Ttc after miscarriage thread 5 💕✨🤞🌈

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Skl2021 · 21/02/2022 19:19

New thread ladies 🌈🌈🌈

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Cruz86 · 28/02/2022 18:53

Oh no @aesgriff!! I am so so sorry. Do you have a walk in centre near you? Have you been inserting the pessaries up your bum or could it be that? Thinking of you ❤️❤️

Prayingformyrainbow93 · 28/02/2022 18:55

@aesgriff I hope all is ok! Will be thinking of you xx

speake · 28/02/2022 19:15

@aesgriff I’m so sorry 💔 I hope 111 take you seriously and you manage to get seen by someone tonight. The biggest virtual hugs and hold holds to you, I’m praying it’s not what you think xxx

MangoLipstick · 28/02/2022 19:15

@aesgriff I’m sorry you are going through this, I hope you are being seen asap now. Hoping it is all ok🧡

@arianasky thank you 💞 How is everything with you?

@bunnykins123 thank you, fingers crossed for you too!💞
I am going to try and have iron willpower and hold out testing till 12dpo. I don’t know how long my cycle will be, they’ve been pretty irregular since periods came back after have dd.

arianasky · 28/02/2022 19:22

@bunnykins123 What are we like 😂

@MangoLipstick I'm good thanks how are you? Just waiting around patiently for O now 😂

Bridgey8 · 28/02/2022 19:29

@aesgriff sending you love and all the good vibes. As many have said - lots of people bleed throughout pregnancy (my sister did on so many occasions) so don't lose hope just yet. Really hope you can get seen ASAP xxx

Tofu35 · 28/02/2022 19:54

@aesgriff I'm so sorry you're going through this worry, to echo what everyone is saying, I hope you can get some help or guidance soon. I'm hoping it's "just" a bleed, but if it is something to be concerned about, I hope you get swift support and advice xx

aesgriff · 28/02/2022 20:32

Thank you all, from the bottom of my heart ❤️ truly you’ve all been such a great support to me.

Bleedings still the same on and off. Urgent treatment centre have booked me in for a scan at EPU on Wednesday so what will be, will be. Thank you again xxxx

Skl2021 · 28/02/2022 20:40

@aesgriff I have been checking this thread constantly waiting for you to comment. I'm so sorry your having to wait until Wednesday. I'm praying it's good news for you 💞🤞 were all behind you keep strong and Look after yourself 💞 xxx

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speake · 28/02/2022 20:42

@aesgriff I can imagine tonight & tomorrow is going to be a very slow difficult day for you & your partner. Praying the spotting subsides and that all is ok on Wednesday 🙏🏼🤍 if you need anything atall let us know xxx

peachiekeen · 28/02/2022 20:46

@aesgriff I'm so sorry you've had all this worry and that you can't get seen until Wednesday. I really hope the time goes quickly for you. Sending all the love and hugs ❤️

Cruz86 · 28/02/2022 21:04

Oh @aesgriff I'm sorry you have to wait til Wednesday. How are you feeling? Thinking of you and sending lots of love ❤️

@Skl2021 was your bleeding like that? Xx

Skl2021 · 28/02/2022 21:29

@Cruz86 I had some like that and then some mixed with cm. It changed everytime I went to the toilet. Brown pink red. X

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Cruz86 · 28/02/2022 21:31

Fingers crossed the outcome is the same for @aesgriff as well then 🤞🏻

How are you doing @Skl2021? Xx

Skl2021 · 28/02/2022 21:34

@Cruz86 I'm doing ok trying to keep stress down and look after myself. I am panicking a bit as I get closer to the point I miscarried last time but trying to stay positive 🤞 I get alot of aches and pains which freak me out aswell 🤦 and obviously constant knicker checking xx

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aesgriff · 28/02/2022 21:34

@Skl2021 ooooh 🥰🥰🥰 thank you for caring ♥️♥️ I feel better knowing I have the scan as if it gets worse then it can be confirmed then. The doctor was really shocked that EPU hadn’t called back and he rang them at 7:50pm and booked it there and then! Couldn’t believe it xx

@speake thank you my lovely ♥️♥️ Just going to take my mind off of it as much as I can. I’m expecting a loss so at least a scan can confirm. I’m still sticking around though.. this thread keeps me sane 🤪 xx

@Cruz86 I actually feel really calm. Like I was expecting it? It’s still spotting, nothing on a pad yet. Just have to wait and see. Thank you for caring tho xx How’s your spotting going? Xx

Skl2021 · 28/02/2022 21:51

@aesgriff it is shocking they didn't ring back 🤦 I hope it is good news for you but I understand how u feel I went into my scan prepared for the worst. Hope the spotting stops and u get a decent sleep 💞 xx

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Cruz86 · 28/02/2022 22:02

It's just never ending worry isn't it @Skl2021. But you haven't had any spotting since? Xx

How terrible of epu @aesgriff. I hope you get a better experience when you go in on Wednesday. Have you done anything strenuous today or had sex last night? I really hope it stops soon for you, but I'm glad there's an air of calm. Thinking of you xx Mine has stopped this afternoon/evening but I guarantee I'll be getting some more tomorrow! X

Skl2021 · 28/02/2022 22:06

@Cruz86 I'm hoping it gets easier but I don't think it will 🤦 nope no more spotting since but last time it stopped and started for weeks which is always in the back of my head. X

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aesgriff · 28/02/2022 22:31

@Skl2021 I’m sure they’ll be pleased to see me again in their waiting room on Wednesday 🤪 sleep well and chat tomoz xx

@Cruz86 nope! No sex, nothing strenuous or out of the ordinary. The only thing I have changed is the progesterone so just over 24 hours after starting them I started bleeding 🤷🏻‍♀️ chat tomoz and keep he updated on your spotting situation xx

Sassy144 · 28/02/2022 22:32

@aesgriff I'm so sorry it's got worse ❤️ it's so frustrating they can't see you until Wednesday, we're all here for you whatever happens.

Cruz86 · 28/02/2022 22:38

Yeah I don't think you'll rest easy until you're past that point @Skl2021 😞 Definitely best to try and keep stress to a minimum and keep yourself busy ❤️

Hmm there's got to be a correlation @aesgriff, surely?! Hope you manage to get a good sleep tonight, speak tomorrow xx

Lizm1990 · 28/02/2022 22:50

Hi everyone can I join 😊 I had a missed miscarriage start of Feb my baby bean was 9+1, should have been 11 weeks at the time. I had surgery, and back at work now. It was heartbreaking and barely anybody knew as I was two weeks away from announcing, I’m just glad we told our parents before, my moms been great which I know im lucky. Im starting to feel ok now but there’s loads of little reminders, today I went food shopping and parked unconsciously near where I parked when I was pregnant. Also doesn’t help (whilst I’m happy for her) but a work colleague is due literally the same that I would have been 😔 anyway im trying to be positive, im just desperate to be pregnant again. I said I would not go mad with testing but here I am not knowing when my AF is going to arrive, or when I will or have ovulated. Literally got no clue 🤦‍♀️ So I’m testing LH am and pm to get some kind of track. I tested negative on a clear blue and my LH seems to be going down on the Premom app. Anyway I’ve been reading these threads for a while and it’s been giving me some comfort and support knowing im not alone and there’s loads of lovely ladies in the same horrible situation 😊😊

HoneyLemon29 · 01/03/2022 07:43

Morning everyone. Hope everyone is well today. 7DPO possibly 8 and the spotting that started yesterday is still going 🥴 don't need a pad it's only when I wipe. Just reminds me of the spotting I had at 10DPO with the ectopic 😵‍💫 I have 3 tests coming today and I will be using one today 😰 probably not the right time but I feel I need too 😑

Ganesh2022 · 01/03/2022 07:43

Welcome @Lizm1990, I’m sorry for all you’ve been through and hope you don’t have to wait long for your rainbow. I went mad testing for ovulation, don’t even want to say how many packs I went through testing many times a day. It’s hard not knowing what’s going on with your body.
@aesgriff been thinking of you, praying spotting has stopped. So sorry you have to wait til tomorrow to get answers

Hope everyone doing as ok as possible today