Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

@Cindy974 I'm struggling today feel really down. I referred myself today to the midwife so waiting to hear back but now I feel sick and anxious. Like it's all become soo real and I'm not ready? IV been ignoring it for this long and not believing it 😩 trying to snap out of it but it's hard! Xx

@Skl2021 bless you, its so hard isn’t it. I haven’t referred myself yet because last time I had to cancel it. But good for you for taking that step and hopefully your first appointment will put your mind at rest? Have u decided on an early scan? Think
If i get to 8 weeks without bleeding I’m going to book one. Sending you lots of positive vibes 💕

@Cindy974 I've seen loads of people take ages to get a 3+ so try not to worry too much 💕

@Cindy974 I wasn't going to do it yet but if I go from LMP I would be 7 weeks so I know booking appointment wil be very soon so needed to get ready. I don't think I'm having a scan upto now but I change daily on that 😩 unless like you say I bleed or anything xx

@arianasky thank you 💕 well I was scouring the internet and saw some people said that but for some people it ended in MC, just dont know what to think 😢 you think your worries will stop once u get the BFP but I just gets worse, hope youre doing okay, your line progression looks really good x

@Skl2021 yeah you did the right thing definitely need to be seen, I’m gonna pluck up the courage and do it soon, are u 26dpo now like me? My flo puts me at 5+4 because i did it from my ovulation date

I honestly can't imagine the worry and anxiety you feel when you fall pregnant again after a mc. As much as I really want to be pregnant, this side of things does scare me. Cancelling booking appointments etc brings back bad memories. I hope you're both okay @Skl2021 and @Cindy974. Just remember this is a new pregnancy and what has happened before won't necessarily happen again ❤️❤️

@Cindy974 yes 26 dpo but my app puts me at 5+5? Wonder why it's different 🙈 but IL be a week behind my dates that's the midwife's go off. I should be 7 weeks now according to them! Dreading all the appointments already 😩 xx

@Cruz86 it's honestly terrifying. IV never had anxiety like this. I thought getting pregnant would be that hard past! I am trying to stay positive like you say new pregnancy! Today is just testing me! 🤞 Xx

@Cruz86 thank you 💕 it’s hard to relax but I really need to try relax and stay positive, its just so hard but I will get there x

@Skl2021 maybe Ive inputted it wrong, not sure! So will I we are going to have to explain ourselves constantly 🤣

@Cindy974 yes I think pregnancy after loss is so hard! The first time I was oblivious in a way 😞

@Skl2021 here are my tests again 🙈

Top one is a 20miu and bottom one is a 25miu, think I was hoping for dye stealers 🤣🙈

Sorry heres the pic

@Cindy974 I think there lovely and strong! Try and step away now as it will only make you worry! My last cheapie tests I took never got a dye stealer it always looked like yours so maybe they don't do it? X

@Skl2021 yeah I’m thinking that, need to pull myself together! X

@Cindy974 they can't get any darker than that :)

Hi ladies! Followed you over to the new thread! Glad to see a lot of you getting your BFPs congratulations! I’ve had my “not pregnant” today after my CP, feels weird to celebrate this but can try to move on again. Has anybody got their BFP after chemical pregnancy or knows any positive stories? I’m scared and anxious about ttc again! Xx

Hi @Prayingformyrainbow93 I know lots of positive stories about people who had babies after chemical pregnancies. I would say of the friends I know well, it's only maybe one or two who haven't experienced something like this before or between successful pregnancies. I also think "back in the day" lots of people wouldn't have known they were pregnant when such an early loss happened, so many have had these without knowing and gone on to carry to term

Ah that’s positive @Ganesh2022 Thankyou! Not sure whether to “try” again this month or wait until I’ve had a my cycle regulated with an actual AF as I had a MC at 7 weeks in December, didn’t wait and then had this CP so it’s hard to decide! Especially like all of you ladies, all I can think of is being pregnant and having a happy and healthy 9 months! I do love looking at this thread though, you’re all very supportive to one another x

@Prayingformyrainbow93 Ugh, it's a hard choice isn't it....we've decided to go ahead and try straight away as the loss was uncomplicated (physically) and I'm 38. For me, that's less stressful than waiting for a period but I can totally see how it could be the other way, or I might feel I wanted a break if the clock wasn't ticking so loudly lol. Also my husband doesn't mind one way or the other so it kinda fell to me to decide, for better/worse.

It is! The MW did say the main thing was the BFN which I have now so I’ll see what my OH thinks! I thought I wouldn’t want to try this month but as it gets closer to thinking about ovulation I want to give it another go! I don’t really want to wait another month like you say! Where are you in your cycle now @Ganesh2022 x

This thread does really move fast. I recently found out that a friend of mine is pregnant. We started trying together and they got pregnant the around the time I miscarried, it's progressing beautifully and I am honestly very happy for them. But, when I heard the news, I felt such a heaviness in my chest and felt like throwing up. I put a brave face and congratulated them. But, all those emotions came back to me. I felt horrible for feeling this way since it's good news and I am actually happy for them.. But sometimes reality hits you hard ☹️

@Prayingformyrainbow93 I had a CP last month and I'm 4+2 weeks pregnant now, it did make me ovulate a few days later than normal though

Ah Thankyou @arianasky I will start using my clear blue opks I have a couple left from last month! I did do one this morning but was negative! Everything went back to normal quick enough after the MC in December I ovulated 2 days later than the previous cycle so hopefully that will happen again fx 😘 congratulations and Good luck with your pregnancy, how are you feeling? X

I know how you feel @Vhopeful my best friend is also pregnant, we would have been around 3 weeks difference and it is hard. Remember to protect your heart, that doesn’t mean you can’t remain happy for your friend but look after yourself ♥️ X

@Prayingformyrainbow93 Thanks! Yes I am trying to remain as positive as possible. Sorry for your losses ☹️. Can I ask which cycle day are you in?
I am CD 14 after my miscarriage at 5 weeks. My initial bleeding stopped around CD9 but started spotting again yesterday and today. Idk what to make of it. My OPK has been negative for 2 days. Hoping to ovulate soon 🤞

@Prayingformyrainbow93 yes I normally ovulate on CD13 it was CD19 this cycle, I'm good thank you just nervous 😬

Yes of course @Vhopeful so I’m currently CD7 after the CP. After my MC in December I ovulated on CD16 which was 2 days later than the month before! When I say ovulated I use the cleaner blue opks so that was when I had a static smiley. I do know and have seen a lot of people have a bit of an irregular cycle after MC and can sometimes take a little while to regulate properly. Are you trying again this cycle? X