Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

@JuniperAndTonic echoing others. Take it easy, wishing u all the luck in the world for Friday xx

@JuniperAndTonic rest as much as you can, I have everything crossed for you for Friday 🙏🏻 how are you feeling today? 💕

Sending love @JuniperAndTonic - got everything crossed for Friday. How are you feeling this morn?

Hope the wait for Friday doesn't feel too long @JuniperAndTonic, sending positive thoughts xx

It's positive that you saw a sac with just an abdominal scan at this stage @JuniperAndTonic. Thinking of you, take it easy over the next couple of days xx

@JuniperAndTonic what a nervous wait; fingers crossed it's all good. Has bleeding stopped?

@Vhopeful Thank you! I know that if period comes I'm going to crash pretty hard, and chances are it WILL come, even if things work out just fine in 2 months or in 10 months...hate not knowing.

@MO22 Agree, the pressure on them must be really hard. I've promised myself that if we're in it for a long haul, I really, really can't let things get like they did before m/c. We really fell out over it

just been reading through the thread it moves fast doesnt it:) its so refreshing to hear so many ladies echoing so many feelings i am. I agree about the pressure on the other half, I know mine just desperately wants to make me happy so just goes along with it when hes told poor thing haha. Resisting the urge to test again till the weekend when i will be 12dpo, I feel in my gut though its not going to be my month.

@JuniperAndTonic fingers crossed for friday, the worry is like nothing else and two days can feel like two years xxx

I'm worrying/overthinking I swear my lines have stayed the same for the last 3 days 😞 could someone take a look for me please? Also if anyone has any pictures of their 12-14dpo pics on FRER if you could post them please? I'm overthinking and worrying due to the past 😞

@arianasky don't compare 13/14 compare every two days! So 12/14 HCG takes a few days to double! Have u tried one not using fmu? I know some people get better results with SMU? Or later on in the day! IL try find a pic of mine xx

@arianasky here's one of mine. I thought 13/14/15 were pretty similar xx

@Skl2021 technically it was SMU as I went for a wee at 5:30 and I did that test at 8:30 so SMU technically and a 3 hour hold. It's all so stressful, I can see the difference on yours but not mine 😂 I don't know if it's line eyes or what 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

@arianasky maybe were just not great at seeing our own progression 🤣 I think yours is darker. And like u say something as little as smu/fmu can make a difference! And it was only a three hour hold! Try and stay positive! It's definitely not getting lighter! I also find the frer dry darker so later on you might be able to see a difference! I know your not meant to look after the time limit but most of my pics the lines have dried so you can see more of a difference! Xx

@Skl2021 I agree with that they do get darker and like you said I know we're not supposed to look after time limit but I definitely do 🙈 my boobs are really hurting and I'm dizzy so I'm feeling symptoms, I think tomorrow I'll just have to hold my wee in and do a longer hold 😂

@arianasky I still find myself looking at them 🙈 🤣 that's good that u have strong symptoms I still have nothing! Haha hold that pee in 🙊 im getting urges to test again 🤦 I have no tests left tho 🙈 xx

@Skl2021 😂 I have 6 left and will refuse to buy anymore then 😂 isn't it sad how we stress ourselves because of previous loss 😞

@Skl2021 don't test! I'm trying hard not to... but I know it will stress me out more than anything if I do comparing lines.... and even if my lines do look lighter the doctors/midwife won't do anything so then it's just more anxiety 😦

@arianasky yes at some point you have to say enough is enough 🙈 just getting anxious again! It's a horrible feeling 😩 x

@Bridgey8 nope I'm not buying anymore. My anxiety is creeping up again. I referred myself today and I feel sick to my stomach now. Feel like it's become real upto now IV just been ignoring it 😩 xx

Im doing the same and Im stressing myself out now… took a clear blue weeks indicator again and it’s still reading 2-3 like it was 10 days ago, I’m convinced I’m going to miscarry again 😭

@JuniperAndTonic praying for good news on your next scan lovely x

I thought it would be 3+ by now 😭

@Cindy974 have u taken a normal test? I have seen alot of the clearblue test stay at 2-3 for quite a while. Try not to worry I know it's easier said than done 😩 think there's alot of us having a wobble today 😭 xx

@Skl2021 no but I’m on my way to town to get some cheap ones… I know I shouldn’t but I can’t help it, I wasnt like this with my other two pregnancies but because my second pg ended in a loss its turned me loopy 🥴 its so hard isnt it x

@Cindy974 I was just about to say try and stop testing it's just going to cause more stress and anxiety 😩 but I understand were your coming from as we have had previous losses. I would also want to test. Have your symptoms stopped or anything unusual? I'm keeping everything crossed for you 🤞✨ xx

@Skl2021 I know I feel so silly 😢 I thought they had yesterday but woke up this morning gagging and feeling sick and still have sore boobs so I’m holding on to that x

@Cindy974 exactly hold onto that! 💞 Keep strong let us know when you have done your test! Thinking of you 💞✨ xx

@Skl2021 I will thank you lovely 💕 how are you feeling?