Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

@aesgriff I feel like there getting slower 🤣🙈 feels like I will never get to 12 weeks!! X

@bunnykins123 I'm not against it just trying not to have one as things can still go wrong. I had one last time around 8 weeks seen heartbeat. I just don't want to get to 12 week scan and find out then so I'm a bit mixed atm whether to have one. Hope your feeling ok definitely stay away from Google!! 🙌 Xx

@bunnykins123 stay off Google.. come and ask your mumsnet friends instead I promise we’re basically just as qualified as Dr Google 🥸🤪 xx

@Skl2021 honestly soooo slow. I’m sure the TWW when quicker than this past week and a half and that’s saying something!! Xx

@Skl2021 time is at a stand still!!

@aesgriff haha it only gets slower 🙈🤣 hang in there 🙌🤦 xx

@Bridgey8 feel like I'm going backwards 🤣 your further than me arnt you? Xx

@Skl2021 I'm 8 weeks Tuesday I think. Had a massive panic this week as my symptoms decreased but they seem to be a bit worse again now. Got my 12 week scan appointment and it seems a lifetime away xx

Amazing @Ganesh2022!

@Cindy974 so glad you saw a heartbeat! 🥰

@mummyofrb sorry to hear what you've just been through. I waited one cycle because I just wasn't ready to start trying and go through it all again in December, but I would've started straight away if I felt differently.

I'm having such an odd day today. Don't want to do anything, fell asleep at 6pm and so cranky too 😂 eurgh, I hate this TWW. I thought I'd be more relaxed this time round x

What were you overanalysing @bunnykins123? X

@Bridgey8 our scans should be similar timing as I'm 8+2 going from Lmp. Yes my symptoms change daily too sometimes so strong and next day nothing. Have u had booking appointment? X

@Cruz86 this is your cycle!! 🤞🤞 Your showing lots of promising symptoms! Keeping everything crossed for you! X

@Cindy974 what great news!! Echoing what others have said about weeks being an estimate....and we never really know when we ovulated, so just a few days is a huge difference. If your O date was off by 3 days and their estimate off by 3 in the other direction—that adds up fast despite all being ok...🙏🏻
@mummyofrb I’m so sorry you’ve had this experience ❤️ I was told to wait one cycle but when I queried it they were clear it’s for dating and should be neither a negative nor positive over not waiting. But, my loss was very (physically) straightforward so I’m guessing it could be individual...you could ask them
Their reasons maybe and if they were for dating, or emotional reasons, that maybe feels different than a physical reason they’re aware of?
@bunnykins123 thank you 🙏🏻 it’s so, so hard to stay off google isn’t it 😭 I’m getting caught in it myself tonight...

I really hope so @Skl2021 😩 I'm literally taking every single thing as a symptom arghhhh xx

@Ganesh2022 it's just so addictive. I go in for reassurance and come out a nervous wreck!

@Cruz86 just diagnosing all my miscarriages 😂 obvs the only people who can actually do that are the specialists but they won't see me till next month (1 full cycle). So until then, it's dr google. Tres bad. Haha the TWW is anything but relaxing!!!

@aesgriff thanks 💕 it's nice just to be able to talk about it as not many ppl IRL actually know about the losses. It's lonely!

@Skl2021 im okay, just having a moment feeling a bit sorry for myself. I felt the same with DD - my 1st MMC was quite late so I just rode out the anxiety until the 12 week scan. From everything you've said, it all sounds really positive.

Af is here 😖 hoping it's not going to be too bad, it's my first since my MC

Oh @Sassy144 I’m so sorry to hear that!

@Ganesh2022 amazing news!! Hope you are doing okay. Take it one day at a time!

Thanks for the reassurance everyone, theres my little blob, hope it sticks and grows 🤞🏼❤️

Oh don't @bunnykins123. Forever self-diagnosing 😂 I would say stay away from Dr Google but, let's be honest, we all know that never happens!! I do hope you get some answers soon though.

Sorry to hear that @Sassy144. I hope this first one is okay for you x

@Ganesh2022 thankyou for the reply, yeah she said to heal physically and emotionally and for dating reasons - they didn't seem concerned it will happen again which gives me hope. Just feel like my life upside down I took my daughter out for first time since it's all happened and feel like everyone in world is pregnant but me😭 x

@Cruz86 I'm staying positive for you. 🤞 X

@bunnykins123 thanks I'm trying to stay positive it's so hard at times xx

@Sassy144 Sorry to hear that look after yourself hope it's not to bad 💕 x

@Cindy974 lovely blob 💕✨ 😍 xx

Well I had a terrible night. Last night before bed I had brown discharge when I wiped. Hasn't happened again but I'm a nervous wreck. Couldnt sleep and now I'm expecting the worse. I know it's not alot but it's so triggering and just takes you back to miscarriage 😥 xx

@Cindy974 fab news and lovely pic xx
@Skl2021 oh gosh hope u are ok? Try not to worry too much..I know easier said than done xxx

@calimc83 I'm getting all sorts of pains. Feel like something is wrong 😩 I feel different this morning. X

@Skl2021 try not to worry 😢 I know its easier said than done, sending you my love x

@Skl2021 can u contact your EPU? They will get you in for a scan. Thinking of you darling, keep us updated xxxx

@Skl2021 obviously easier said than done but try not to panic 💕 it's so common to bleed in pregnancy and they say brown blood is old blood, if you can ring your EPU and they will scan see you what's going on ❤️

@Skl2021 awh love, I hope you're okay - sending hugs 💕. As many have said, spotting can be totally normal in pregnancy so try not to worry. Can you try calling the EPU to discuss your concerns with them? Take a deep breath, we are all here for you 💕

@Skl2021 ugh, so very stressful. We are here for support.

Need a hand-hold myself, spotting brown/pink blood.cramping, period due weds ish, so not sure if this is implantation bleeding or a chemical. I know no one can say. For those of you who spotted this early...@aesgriff I think...? did you just wait it out?