Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

@speake I've only ever used FRER or easy@home which seem to give similar results. Good luck though 🤞

@Skl2021 @bunnykins123 thanks guys, I definitely don't see line either, don't worry! I think I'll just wait for AF (due Wed) as am most likely out (famous last words, watch me POAS tomorrow).

There has to be an easier way than obsessing so hard, I have to track ovulation as I have PCOS but how to stop the rollercoaster of emotions in TWW?!

@MO22 Glad the cat was spared 😆..hope u are ok? I keep thinking something is catching my eye on the test...so u never know! Fingers crossed 🤞🏻 xx

So I've just got back from my first session of acupuncture...was really interesting! Who knows if it'll help but felt good to talk to someone about my fertility and she gave me some really good advice re improving egg quality and especially in relation to mens fertility ( no phones in pockets or laptops on laps!..) so will see if that helps. Feel like I'm doing something productive as well xx

Hello all I hope everyone is ok? I haven't read back I just wanted to pop on and update and I'll read through everything in a day or two. So I started bleeding heavy early hours I'm waiting for the GP and a nurse from the epu to ring me back to discuss next steps. I had to ring EPU to cancel my scan and I broke down the lady was lovely on the phone but asking if I kept the foetus really hurt me and made it hit me that I am miscarrying again. I would've been 5+4 today so not a chemical 😞 sorry if this is triggering but just wanted to update. I'm so worried aswell as I've now had a MMC at 13 weeks in October which was a partial molar pregnancy, a CP in December and a CP In January and a miscarriage this month, I can't imagine ever having my rainbow and I just feel so broken for me and guilty for putting DP through this 😞 definitely the worse Valentine's Day ever! 🙄 anyway sorry for the rant I'll try and catch up later or in the next few days and thank you for your support all ❤️

@arianasky I’m so sorry I have no words for you, I can’t even imagine how you must be feeling. We are here to listen though if you need to talk 💕

@bunnykins123 and @speake I keep hearing this, thanks for the advice - I might give it a go! I’m a nurse so nothing is TMI and not much makes me squeamish 😅

@calimc83 thank you, your message made me smile 😘 I'm just sad, and also frustrated with myself for putting the pressure on cycle 1 post MMC, I feel like I've made myself feel worse by obsessing if you know what I mean. I actually just was looking at acupuncture! Your sesh sounds great!

This whole process is just shit isn't it. And reading your news @arianasky, I'm so sorry, my heart goes out to you. Do everything you can today to be kind to yourself, thinking of you so much xx

So sorry to read your update @arianasky about what an awful time you are having.
Really hope you can get some answers x

@arianasky I’m so sorry, there are no words for the heartbreak you’re going through xx

@arianasky I am so sorry this is happening. Sending you lots of love. Fingers crossed for answers xxx

@MO22 it's the obsessing that makes it so hard, I so agree. Those these darn little sticks that tell us when we are ovulating and if we are pregnant - it's getting expensive!! I wish I could advise how to not obsess - I absolutely DO obsess so I'm not one to give out any advice. Don't give up hope though, that stick could change tomorrow 🤞

@calimc83 ooo interested! I have mine at 10am on Weds - bit nervous about it as I've never done anything like that before. How did it go??

@arianasky I'm so so sorry to read your update. Please know you are not alone.
Take this time to grieve - we are all here for you. I've just had 3 consecutive miscarriages too so happy to discuss with you what I know when you're ready. But for now, please know you're not alone - big hugs xx

@arianasky so so sorry my love. Look after yourself. Hopefully your GP will be able to offer some advice and a way forwards for you xx

Scan booked for tomorrow 🤢🤢🤢

@MO22 ahh u know I did ( and am still doing ) exactly the same. It's the obsessing, it just takes over doesn't it..I've actually booked in for some hypnotherapy to try and help me 're programme' my head 🙈..I can't go on like this. It's not healthy. But remember you're not out yet, it's early days and your cycle might be a bit off post MC. Plus hormones are v much up and down ( I know mine still are ) xx

@MO22 I found like I'm embracing all the diff therapies 😆 and I am! But guessing it can't hurt...she sent me a load of info if anyone wants I can try upload it? Xx

@calimc83 I have heard great things about acupuncture! 🤞 Hope it works for you 🤞 are you feeling a bit better now 💕 xx

@arianasky my heart is breaking for you. Look after yourself were all here for you 💕 xx

@Bridgey8 glad you don't have to wait long. Try not to worry I know it's hard. I'm sure everything will be ok! Staying positive for you 💕🤞keep strong xxx

@bunnykins123 it was good! Never had it before but a friend used it before IVF and it helped..my theory is it can't hurt 🤷‍♀️..and I like to feel like I'm taking back a bit of control as well if that helps as she gave me a load of info to take away, little steps that I can do with regards to overall health as well. Let me know how yours goes xx

I will be thinking of you @Bridgey8 💕

@Skl2021 ha ha at the mo - I'm feeling good!! It's gotta be those darn hormones 😆🙈...hope u are ok? X

@calimc83 I have read alot of stories about people falling pregnant after it! Obviously can't say if it was because of that but it sounds promising! You shouldn't have long to wait now nearly ovulation time?? Haha they must be doing something right stay positive 🙌🙌 yes I'm not doing too bad 💞 xx

@arianasky I am so, so sorry. I wish we could take the pain away as we all know how heavy it will be weighing in your heart. Sending you love xx

@Skl2021 ahh glad u are ok 😘 yes hopefully Thursday ish..trying not to use OPKs though! But they do need using up so 😬🤷‍♀️...yeah figure it can't hurt?! X

@calimc83 ahhh that's all on you 🙈 I'm not saying use them or don't 🙊 what's making you want to use one?! Xx

@PamelaDoov my spotting started 8dpo so there’s hope. Is it heavy?

@MO22 I so wish I could say I see a line but I don’t ☹️ God this is so hard I’m so sorry I was really routing for you I can totally feel all your feels right now. How many cycles is this post MC? ♥️♥️

@Bridgey8 ooh interesting they gave you progesterone straight away! I’ve got an examination at my GP later on this afternoon now which I didn’t have last time but hey we’ll see. Wishing you strength for tomorrows scan.

@Skl2021 I’m having cold type symptoms that you had. Stuffy nose and itchy throat? Did you have this too?? 😩

@bunnykins123 how are you doing today??

@calimc83 oooh I looked into acupuncture. You’ll have to give us a no holds barred review 🤩🤩

Xxxxx

@Skl2021 well my ovulation spot has made an appearance....and they're just kind of addictive aren't they?! 😆😆 x