Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

Morning all! Got a telephone appointment between 3:30-6:30 this afternoon with ironically the same doctor who referred me to EPU last time.
How is everyone this morning? Xxx

@JuniperAndTonic how are you?? Any more spotting? I’ve got a call this afternoon so we’ll go from there. I tested yesterday and the line has got stronger which is a good sign. Not going to test anymore now unless the bleeding gets heavier or towards the end of the week xx

@aesgriff I’m good thanks! The spotting has pretty much stopped 🙌🏻 Been having a lot of nausea the last few days though, and some food aversions - don’t even want my morning coffee and I can’t stand the thought of eating anything milky/creamy/cheesey which is usually love so it’s a bit weird 😅 I’m still nervous, busy taking it one day at a time and I’ve booked a private scan for 2 weeks time for reassurance! Good luck for the GP phone appointment 🤞🏻

Not long until ovulation for you then @calimc83! I'd dtd every other day until Weds/Thurs and then every night for 3 nights from there. I also had the same with ewcm, literally loads straight after the mc! So strange.

I'm so sorry @arianasky. Look after yourself, we're all here for you when you're ready ❤️

Sorry you're going through a chemical too @bunnykins123. Hope you're okay.

@aesgriff so happy you got a darker line yesterday! Good luck with any more testing you do and let us know how you get on with the gp.

For those who have tried Vitex before (sorry, I can't remember who said they had!) did you find it delayed ovulation at all? It feels like my body is trying and has been over the part few days x

Tested at 4am because I could sleep... On a FRER and got a BFN. I convinced myself there might be the faintest of faints but I think it's wistful thinking, it's pretty stark if I'm honest with myself. Here's a pic with Mr cat in the background (not having been weed on).

So two questions are - has anyone had a BFN on a FRER at 12 DPO and gone on to get a BFP. Second, should I just assume I am out? Be brutally honest with me, I've done this cycle all wrong and been stupidly obsessed and now I'm devastated. Wtf were all the symptoms, I never get queasy!

Glad you've got your call in @aesgriff and line is getting darker! Good news

Morning ladies! Today I’m cd12 after the CP, we’re using clear blue ovulation sticks, wasn’t going to bother this month but here I am again! So fx ovulation happens soon, still getting negatives! So question ladies after your CP when have you ovulated if you’ve been tracking? Xx

@aesgriff @JuniperAndTonic I'm waiting for a doctor call back today due to my spotting. I am also soooo nauseous... I don't know how I'm going to get through the day at work. Didn't feel like this last time so hoping it's a good sign 🤷‍♀️

@Bridgey8 hope goes well with your Dr too! 🤞🏻 The nausea is horrible but also hoping it’s a good sign!

Hi everyone, congrats on all the fab baby news!

I just got my period so out this month. Silly to upset as first cycle but feels rubbish doesn't it.

Onwards!

I’m 6dpo and I’ve started bleeding very lightly. I suddenly felt very wet, so went to the loo and it was on the loo roll when I wiped. It’s quite confusing. On one hand, it’s a week too early for AF, and I have had genuine implantation bleeding with previous pregnancies. On the other hand, I’ve got that feeling in my tummy when you know AF is coming, although no actual cramps yet. My lower back is really aching, but tbh that’s not typically an AF sign for me. I checked my cervix after I had the bleed and it’s still high and soft, and there’s wasn’t much blood up there at all so it’s not like in full flow. So I really don’t know what to think!

@PamelaDoov sounds like implantation to me!

I've been referred for a scan by the GP - feel so sick. Am shaking about going back in that room :(

Hope everyone is having an ok day xx

@speake sorry I don't use clearblue but I don't think they would be as sensitive as frer? Hope you get your bfp soon 🤞✨ xx

@JuniperAndTonic how are you doing now? Has the spotting stopped? Xx

@aesgriff hope the phone call goes well 🤞xx

@Cruz86 hope your doing ok! ✨ Xx

@MO22 I can't see anything sorry 😩 they say your not out until af shows but I know it's hard clinging onto hope. When is af due? Xx

@Prayingformyrainbow93 good luck this cycle! ✨ X

@Bridgey8 sorry to hear your still spotting hope you get somewhere with your doctor 🤞🤞 keep us updated xx

@flowergarden16 sorry af got you take care of yourself 💕 x

@PamelaDoov surely it's not af this early? 🤞 It is implantation. Guess it's a wait and see. Keep positive 🤞✨ xx

I'm feeling a bit panicky I have no symptoms. Usually do by now. @Cindy974 how are you? Xx

@Bridgey8 when is your scan? Xx

@Skl2021 it is way too early for AF, but this is my first cycle after MC so I suppose it’s not unlikely that it would be a bit messed up. Or I’m worried that my body tried to ovulate, hence the positive tests, but didn’t, so it’s given up early this cycle! Will see how it is throughout the day.

@Skl2021 just waiting for EPU to call. I would think tomorrow but not sure!

@PamelaDoov yes might be still unsettled. Time will tell hang in there don't give up all hope just yet ✨💕 xx

@Bridgey8 hope it's sooner rather than later then your not waiting and worrying 🤞 keep strong I'm sure everything will be fine. Xx

@Bridgey8 when is your scan? I can understand that, I felt the same last week going into EPAU again. We’re all here for you 💕 I have everything crossed it gives you some reassurance!

@Skl2021 I’m good! Spotting has stopped. I’m on progesterone pessaries now so that’s fun but happy I’m giving this pregnancy every chance but I’m still so nervous. Husband has been really excited ever since the scan - I keep telling him it could all still go wrong! How are you feeling?

@PamelaDoov keeping my fingers crossed it’s implantation, definitely seems too early for AF! 🤞🏻

@Bridgey8 whoops saw your reply after I posted. Hope it’s not too long to wait!

@JuniperAndTonic that's good that u have been put on them! How long do you have to take them? IV heard there very messy tho 🙊 yes it's hard not to get excited but we all know to well it can be taken away 😩 I'm feeling weird I still have no symptoms and I just keep thinking am I making it all up is it even real 🤦 I'm scared there's nothing there xx

@Skl2021 until 16 weeks 🤦🏼‍♀️ Yep, I’m getting through the pantyliners put it that way! Plus have to wake up half an hour earlier so I can put it in and lay in bed for 30 minutes after - not happy about that 😂 I know what you mean, but honestly having symptoms doesn’t help - mine keep coming and going, I was really sick a few days ago but then the next day I was fine so I was questioning why the nausea had stopped. Just another thing to worry about 😩

@JuniperAndTonic oh quite a while then I'm sure u will get used to it it will just become routine! Will try anything that helps 🤞 it's just because all previous pregnancies IV had symptoms by now so it's worrying me a bit. But yes we do worry over every little thing 🙈 xx

@JuniperAndTonic have you tried..umm..up the back passage? I used them for my last chemical (was too late for me though 😢) and I had no mess and was a teeny bit uncomfortable for like 1 minute while it 'settles in' (gross, I know). You can walk around and do normal things straight away. If not, fully recommend - 5*

@JuniperAndTonic not a nice topic but have you asked if you can use them via the rectum rather than vaginally? I originally was told vaginally but no matter how long I lay down I felt it didn’t stay put. So anyway I asked the consultant and she said either way is just as effective & going rectally you don’t need to lie down for a period and there is no mess. I know it’s a grim subject but just wanted to suggest that for you as I know I was having alot of trouble with the amount of “lying down” required & how much then came out anyway!

Thank you for the advice on the clear blue, I’ve got some FRER ordered.

Hope you’re all having a good Monday xx

@flowergarden16 I'm sorry AF has arrived, it hurts when you have so much hope. Wishing you great success for next month though 🤞

@MO22 glad to hear the cat was spared! 4am - that's good going peeing on a stick at that time in the morning. Umm honestly, I'm not sure I see anything this time. That being said, could you have ovulated later? I tend to get a hint of something around 10dpo so if you are unsure of your dates you could still be in with a shot. It's true the saying - you're not out until AF arrives (hoping it holds off for you!)