Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

Oh you'll definitely be kept busy @Skl2021 😂 I'm okay thank you! I've got a feeling I'll have ovulated by Monday but I'm not sure, and we've only dtd 3 times in the past 6 days xx

@Cruz86 I know 🙈 they do my head in with the constant fights! Ahh not long now then hopefully! Your not using anything are you to tell? Oh don't worry about that as long as it's every few days then u should be fine! The month I fell pregnant I DTD loads all the way through then by the time fertile week actually arrived I gave up DTD as I'd had enough! Think I stopped before I actually ovulated! Xx

Evening all I don't know what to do? I'm getting sore breasts and slight nausea still and it's killing me. I feel so so low, so useless I don't know what to do anymore I know GP may help but I'm so broken I don't want the help I just want to roll up and cry 😞 I'm sorry for being a downer.

@Skl2021 Haha I didn't test today...I told myself there is literally no way anyone would get a positive today in any scenario, ever, at like 3 days after O. Reason finally found me! Temporary I'm sure. How you feeling about everything?

@Cindy974 ah awesome re the scan!

@arianasky So shitty to go through massive highs and lows in such a short span of time. Don't apologise for being a "downer"; this thread by its nature is gonna have pain and anxiety and uncertainty in it...that's why I joined...to have a place to put all that stuff and have others for support. You don't have to decide anything now, in terms of what you do next.

@Ganesh2022 thank you 💕 I'm so annoyed I do everything right don't drink in the TWW, drink decaf, take all the vitamins and still I'm not worthy 😞 I'm broken and have no one else to turn too sorry ladies 💕

@Ganesh2022 haha all rational thoughts go out the window in the tww! I have tested at all times aswell even though there's no chance 🤣🙌 I'm doing ok taking it day by day still In denial I'm sure it will become real soon 🙈 xx

@arianasky don't beat yourself up like that!! Your are not useless. Allow yourself time and cry and curl up if you need to let it all out! Were all here to pick you back to again!! Maybe ask to be referred if gp won't help. You will get there do not give up 💕 and don't do it in silence u can Rant all you like on here!! Xx

@arianasky I’m sorry you are going through so much pain :( it fucking sucks. It’s absolutely not down to anything you did or didn’t do x

@arianasky It breaks my heart to see you feeling like this, this isn’t and will never be your fault. You have just been dealt a cruel hand and its unjust and unfair and life is shitty and cruel and theres no rhyme or reason to why these things happen to good people. You have done absolutely nothing wrong, take the time to grieve and be angry, once you have processed things then definitely get some help from GP or demand specialist help, I truly believe you will get your rainbow and I’m just so so sorry this has happened 💕

@arianasky this is not your fault. Sending you big hugs! I agree with other posters that you should call your GP on Monday and let them know. You have all the support here on this forum from all the gals who are going through or have gone through something similar 💕

@arianasky my heart breaks for you. It truly is the worst feeling in the world and I’m so sorry you’re going through this again. No words can make it better but just know we are here and no matter if you want to rant, break down or offload we are here xxx

@Ganesh2022 going to head home tomorrow… I may break the restraint when alone without my Hawkeye of a friend. Feeling scared though. Nothings ever promised and I quite like living in this positive bubble under the impression all is well. When will you test? Xx

@Cruz86 😆 how many times did u manage to DTD this cycle? Where abouts are u with everything?
@Skl2021no real plan as yet...feeling really down about everything again. Contemplating just calling it all a day...in a real downer at the mo I just can't get out of it. Hate it xx

@arianasky thinking of you xxx

Thank you all, I'm a little better now, Im working a friends shift for him at work tomorrow and I really don't want to 😞 I just want the bleeding to start so I can get the process going and want it to be Monday so I can speak to the GP. Thank you all for being so supportive 💕

@calimc83 aww noo 😩 we all go through moments like that! I suppoce u have to think will you regret not doing it again? I know it's pain and heartache at times but just think of the end goal and how it will feel when you get there 💕 hope you feel better soon ✨ were all here if you need to chat/cry/scream sending you a virtual hug 🤗 xx

Haha and you'll have another one to add to the mix @Skl2021! That's amazing, maybe there is hope for me then 😊

@arianasky I'm so sorry you're feeling so angry towards your body. Just know that you absolutely are not worthless and this is not a reflection on who you are. Thinking of you ❤️

@calimc83 im on cd16 and still no sign of temp increasing yet! We've dtd 3 times in the last 6 days but think we'll have to again tomorrow because the other times will be nowhere near ovulation 😩 I've also had literally no ewcm either. What cd are you on? X

@Skl2021 I know! I just thought I'd be over the MC by now but I'm clearly not. Met up with a friend today whose 2 weeks further on than I would of been..that hurt. Yesterday I was at a funeral of a friend who took her own life so it's been really hard lately...sick of feeling like this! Feel like I've cried and cried these past few days...I just sat want to be happy again..sorry for being such a mood hoover! X

@arianasky your strong and you will get through this 💕 hope the gp helps you xx

@Cruz86 absolutely don't give up hope yet! Good luck for when ovulation happens hope it's soon! ✨ Xx

@calimc83 it sounds like you have a lot going on so you might just need to slow it down and take some time to process everything. Don't pressure yourself it will happen when the time is right. Why don't u try doing some things for yourself again? That helped you last time 💕 xx

@Skl2021 that sounds like a good idea xx

@calimc83 So sad about your friend, I'm so sorry.

@aesgriff I WANT to say 10 dpo at least but...realistically...tomorrow...?!

@Cruz86 that's good going tbf! 😆 I'm day 9...I've had my had any ewcm these last few cycles as well...not sure if it's down to hormones? X

@Ganesh2022 thank u 😔 xx

@Cruz86 that didn't make any sense! I meant to say hardly any EWCM x