Ttc after miscarriage thread 4 🌈💞✨🤞

[Skl2021]

New thread ladies 💞🌈✨

It hasn't confirmed it yet, but with my temp spike this morning, I'm pretty sure I ovulated yesterday or the day before!
Even if this doesn't lead to a BFP I'll just be happy that my body is working.
It's been so hard to trust my body after the MC. I got all the signs of ovulation this week but was so sure that it was just tricking me. Now for the long wait!

@arianasky I'm so sorry. I think you should speak to your GP as this has happened a few times now hasn't it? Look after yourself xxxx

@BlueForYou3 I was in the exact same position last week. It hurts so much xxxx

@calimc83 thank you so much. I really felt the pressure this month and I get where you’re coming from. It’s really sh^t! I did a progesterone test from MediChecks and they also do a full female hormone test. May be worth doing just to rule anything out? Or even a progesterone one to make sure you are ovulating.

@Skl2021 I got really spotty when I had my MMC! I’ve got a big one lurking on my chin now 😳 no more tests till Monday. I like living in this bubble tho I think once I start testing more I’ll be worried. How are you doing?

@Bundaberg84 thank you so much!!

@JuniperAndTonic thank you!! It seems to of calmed down this morning but we’ll see 🤞🏻🤞🏻 How are you feeling?

@arianasky I have no words 😞 I’m so sorry. Genuinely heartbroken for you. It’s just so cruel!

Xxxx

Sorry for all of the afs that have arrived. It's completely shit 😞

@aesgriff what a lovely line! Congratulations, hoping the spotting calms down for you by the time Monday comes around. I'd be getting onto my gp to see if there's anything they can do. Good luck!

@arianasky I'm so sorry you're going through this with your tests. When is af due? Thinking of you x

@Bundaberg84 glad you’re not in limbo. I hope this is your lmp.

@arianasky I’m so very sorry. I was so hoping your anxiety about it would be proven wrong. I know that there is nothing i can say, but please know a lady in SW London is thinking of you today and hoping the world comes right and soon

Ya, not sure what I thought would happen with a 2dpo test. It was half “maybe i ovulated sooner” and half complete madness.

@Cruz86 thank you! I’m going to ring first thing Monday morning if I’ve still got a line. Just goes to show I really think it’s to do with low progesterone xx

@Ganesh2022 how are you feeling today? Xx

@arianasky I am so sorry - thinking of you, the journey is just so hard with the ups and downs, it's a complete assault on the emotions. Another lady in SE London thinking of you too X

@aesgriff how are you feeling? I'm still so in shock and happy for you, the line is so strong - do you think you could have ovulated early?! You inspired me to do a test but didn't have any early response so did a Tesco and was a BFN ha. Classic. I suppose 10 DPO could be a bit early? I don't know. I feel sick and crampy but it could be progesterone now before AF - not due til Wed. Not sure if I should just ignore now and test then, or go full manic and get a FRER for tomorrow - any advice from anyone would help, my emotions are so all over the place!

@aesgriff u know I might look into that.,I'm sure my hormones are a bit off after the MC. Did u do anything different this cycle? Xx

@arianasky I am so sorry 😢 sending you a big hug

I am still spotting 😭 predominantly after a bowel movement (tmi) - it's so stressful. Not much I can do as it's the weekend....

Hope everyone else is doing ok xx

Thank you all I'm out at the moment so can't reply individually I will tomorrow, I'm going to have a drink or two today and Monday I'll be ringing the GP and asking for help this is my third loss in three months and 4th in total 😞 waiting game until the bleeding starts, my heart is broken again and I'm broken for DP feel like I've really let him down 😞

@MO22 ooh thank you 🥰🥰 I feel it’s too good to be true…. Spotting still on and off. We’ll see for definite on Monday. So, I tested on an internet cheapie first and there was no line, absolutely nada, but a tiny trace of a shadow on real up close inspection. I thought right just do the FRER and be done with it and it came up… I was open mouthed in surprise. I can’t confirm ovulation as I didn’t do BBT but I had peak on CD28 then it was still high ish on CD29 so I think that’s when I ovulated as it all dropped to nothing CD30. I would do a FRER if you feel you are up for it or have them ready to do Monday morning ♥️♥️♥️ Xx

@calimc83 it’s worth a go I think then you can take your results back to the doctors if anything’s off. I really thought we were out the cycle. Had a big row when I got my first high OPK and DTD then and then nothing and I was soooo upset as we didn’t DTD on peak day. Honestly I was an emotional wreck I’m surprised my partner is still around 😳 I suppose I stayed on the bed longer than usual afterwards and didn’t rush to get up xx

@arianasky ♥️♥️♥️

@Skl2021 @calimc83 Thank you both I’m just glad it’s the weekend so I can hide from the world today x

@BlueForYou3 be nice to yourself in hiding
@aesgriff thx for asking, I’m ok. Usually ok til 6dpo and then am demented. Admiring your right restraint waiting till Mon!

@theblueflowers good luck! I often feel quite calm until about 9dpo when I start getting all jittery and nervous!

@arianasky I'm so so sorry to see your update 😢 I was in the same place as you last week and was confirmed with a really low blood test. I started bleeding 2 days later (I'm now on CD3). This was my 3rd consecutive early loss too so I have bloods with the GP next week for thyroid and then the follow month (if I get a BFN) then ill have the works done at the clinic for clotting disorders etc. It's a rotten time and just know you're not alone. Enjoy the rugby, enjoy the wine and try not to let it ruin your day.

@Ganesh2022 I'm SO the same - I'm actually usually ok until about CD 10 (then crazy women until after O) then a few days of calm before DPO 9ish. My mood is massively dependant on what time of the month it is!!

I’ve taken the plunge and booked a private scan for next Sunday when I would be 7+1 praying to see a heartbeat and a healthy bean. I lost my last pregnancy just before 7 weeks so I’m really anxious at the moment, trying to get through next week without too much worrying.

@theblueflowers good luck with the tww! Hope it goes quickly for you 🤞✨ x

@aesgriff I'm so happy for you! Your doing well not testing more self control than me 🙄🙊 I'm doing ok thanks been at work all day so not had chance to think about it! 🙌 Just hope these spots clear up 🤦 xx

@arianasky hope your ok lovely don't think you have let anyone down because you haven't! 💕 Take care of yourself and definitely ring the doctors see if anything can be done! I'm thinking of you keep strong 💞 xx

@Bridgey8 hope your doing ok sorry to hear your still spotting 😩 I'm keeping everything crossed for you hopefully it's nothing to worry about and stops soon! 🤞xx

@Cindy974 I'm sure Everything will be fine keep positive! Not long to go now and hopefully the scan will ease your nerves a little 🤞💕 try and keep busy and this week will fly by 🙌 I'm still undecided on scans xx

@Ganesh2022 did u test today 👀🙊 xx

@calimc83 have u started DTD 👀🙊 xx

Hope everyone else is doing ok and enjoying their Saturday ✨ and to everyone going through a hard time right now don't give up you will get there 🙌💞 xx

@Skl2021 yep..managed to fit a sesh in this morning! 😆🙈 x

@calimc83 🙌🤣 u go girl! Have u decided on a plan or u going with the flow? U were wondering when to do it wernt you? Xx

Have a lovely time away @Ganesh2022! Do you have your tests with you? 😂

@calimc83 go you!! I don't think we've dtd enough and I hate not knowing when ovulation definitely is 😩

@Bridgey8 I'm sure your spotting is nothing to worry about but hopefully it does stop soon!

@Cindy974 good luck for next week. I can't imagine that anxiety on the lead up to the scan after a mc x

How are you @Skl2021? X

@Cruz86 I'm doing ok thanks! Been at work so havent had time to think about everything! And it's half term so I'm sure I will be kept busy this week and won't have time to go down Mumsnet/google holes 🤣🙈 how are you doing? Xx