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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

*The TWW States* ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜‚โ€ฆ. Here for positive vibes as we try to create new lives ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคžโ€ฆ (Ttc #1 and cycle 1 continued)

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Newbiemg · 25/01/2022 21:38

Hello!

Continuation of our last threadโ€ฆ

All of us TTC and in different cycles and stages of our journey.

Helping eachother through the TWW, through the confusing days of OPK/BBT testing and charts, through all of the symptom spotting, the dreaded arrival of AF and the BFP announcements! ๐Ÿ˜Šโœจ

January was a very lucky month for some who got their BFP and some of us are ready to make February our month!

With giggles and lots of support along the way.

Welcome!

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Pops100 · 12/02/2022 15:28

@Newbiemg ahhh yes I remember you saying! Oh does it? I just started this cycle as literally never get much cm so seeing if this will help but also am worried it'll make me ovulate late now too but will see how this cycle goes! It's annoying how there's so many different reviews on supplements like you said some people say they noticed no difference, some say straight away etc I wish this was baby making was easy๐Ÿคฃ

Fingers crossed your cycle goes back to normal now though๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ

@beatingheartbaby ahh okay, yeah I was like that in December let's just see how it goes and now I'm tracking and doing everything possible to get a bfp๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ what does your app predict? I wonder if we are similar!

beatingheartbaby · 12/02/2022 16:23

@Pops100 my window is 14th-19th. I think my bf will think im mad if I start testing hahaha but oh well if it doesn't happen soon then needs must. This is only our second month tho haha but tbh im not getting any younger so I worry lol

clo92 · 12/02/2022 17:36

Hope everyone is having a lovely Saturday!

Today (11dpo) is the first day Iโ€™ve felt any kind of potential indication of anything going on- some very light tuggy/fluttery tummy feelings.

Might be nothing though and Iโ€™m 4 days into having Covid too so all kinds of unpleasant symptoms from that making it hard to pick out whatโ€™s what.

Newbiemg · 12/02/2022 19:42

@Pops100 I donโ€™t think it delays ovulation for everyone but Iโ€™ve read threads saying it has for some. I think all supplements probably work differently for everyone. Iโ€™ve deffo heard really good things about EPO and EWCM so I will probably give it another go if I donโ€™t get my bfp.

I hope it works for you. Let me know how you get on Smile

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Newbiemg · 12/02/2022 19:49

Opk just now was 0.55 so going up. I think if itโ€™s the same as my last cycle opks then Iโ€™ll have my peak tomorrow or Monday which would make my ovulation CD15 or 16. Last cycle I ovulated CD17.

So then I just have to hope my luteal phase lasts longer than 9 days ๐Ÿคž

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Newbiemg · 12/02/2022 19:53

@Pickles91 how are you getting on? Have you had your peak yet? Sorry if I missed it.

@RMS0209 @SMD16 How is your tww going?

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Newbiemg · 12/02/2022 19:53

@lakejupiter How is your trip away?

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RMS0209 · 12/02/2022 20:10

@Newbiemg Hey! Hope you have had a good day.

All good here today, been busy enough and off to cinema soon... might be too late tonight to BD when home, today is marked as ovu day on PREMOM but maybe Thursday/Friday was enough?

How are you doing? Good news about the OPK's rising ๐Ÿ’ซ hopefully Monday is peak so OH is home for you.
Enjoying dog sitting ?

Pickles91 · 12/02/2022 21:20

Hello guys!! A bit of a late check in for me as I was off sorting wedding hair.

Sorry your opks were still low, but glad theyโ€™re on the up @Newbiemg! Maybe theyโ€™ll jump up to peak tomorrow? I actually just peed on a stick (wellโ€ฆin the pot) and got 1.58. My peak last month was 1.12 so Iโ€™m gonna take it as BD time!

I think thurs/fri would be enough @RMS0209, though a late night quicky wouldnโ€™t hurt. Or a nice bit of morning sex tomorrow!

Hannamarie0098 · 12/02/2022 21:32

Hi all, currently 4dpo and keeping everything crossed!

beatingheartbaby · 12/02/2022 21:56

Good luck @Hannamarie0098 Smile

lakejupiter · 12/02/2022 22:32

Hello all! Sorry I've been quiet - have been with my sister and one year old niece for a few days and it's been hectic! Now dog/house sitting in the countryside and it's lovely. Catching up on posts.

@RMS0209 it sounds like you have it covered! Will you DTD again tomo?
@Newbiemg hope you get your peak Mon so you can DTD that day! Hope the wedding hair appt went well @Pickles91 and congrats on your peak!

I'm 4dpo according to my apps and BBT - had a big temp rise this morning which was a relief (it had been creeping up slowly but now looks very much like I'm in my luteal phase - was panicking my temps weren't high enough!) nothing to report here really - it's been nice to be so busy tbh as I haven't really been thinking about my TWW much. Oh but some good news! My coparent did an at home sperm check test (have been nagging him to get a semen analysis and this was the compromise for now) and it came back as normal, so happy about that.

AF is due 24th and I'm hoping to wait until then to test. But last month I caved at 7dpo so who knows - it feels easy to say that now because I'm not yet in the antsy bit of the TWW! My main concern is that I have a transvaginal ultrasound booked (to investigate possible PCOS after blood tests in December) on the 24th - first day of predicted AF! It was the only date available so had to take the appt but what an annoying time to have a pelvic ultrasound?? Oh well. I guess I will know either way by that date and if I'm on AF then I'm sure they are used to that for ultrasounds.

Happy weekend all!

RMS0209 · 12/02/2022 23:57

Hey ladies!
Just home, "marry me" was ok, typical cheesy typical ending movie - easy watching with the girls! Just away to catch up now x

RMS0209 · 13/02/2022 00:19

@Pickles91 all sorted on the wedding hair front?
No quickie tonight, boo hoo OH asleep...V grouchy if woken up! Try my luck tomorrow once more.

Hi @Hannamarie0098 cool you will be cycle twin with @lakejupiter then!

@lakejupiter sounds like you are having a wonderful few days, nice to break up some time in the dreadful TWW.
Great news about OH sperm ๐Ÿฅณ one less thing to worry about
Wonder.. do you think you could hold out until 24th to test? We can all shout at each other if they are thinking of testing early this cycle ๐Ÿ˜‚
Fingers crossed for the ultrasound also, good they are addressing it quite quick too!

Pops100 · 13/02/2022 09:55

@beatingheartbaby we have a similar window! I ovulated on CD15 last month so hoping it's similar again. Fingers crossed for us ๐Ÿค๐Ÿค

@Newbiemg I will do! Not taken it for long so not sure if I'll notice this cycle.

Happy Sunday everyone, I'm off for a rainy dog walk with a friend I haven't seen in months so looking forward to that. Anyone else got plans ? Or a nice chilled Sunday?

Mays12 · 13/02/2022 10:32

Happy Sunday all!

Hope youโ€™re all doing well! Iโ€™ve been away this weekend with the OH which was lovely but didnโ€™t manage to fully distract me hahaha

@RMS0209 @lakejupiter I had planned to wait until after AF was late to test but each day Iโ€™m getting closer and closer to testing early.. these 2 weeks really do drag don't they hahaha

I am now 6dpo and Iโ€™ve had sore boobs since 4dpo which I think is unusual for me but at the same time it could be because Iโ€™m paying so much more attention to that stuff now

How long do you all usually wait to test? Do you tend to test before youโ€™re late or after?

RMS0209 · 13/02/2022 11:12

@Pops100 off out for a day walk today too ๐Ÿ˜ƒ enjoy!

@Mays12 aww I'd try hold out aslong as you can, I was gutted last month when I tested on the Sunday! But sending you lots of luck for 2 lines Smile x

lakejupiter · 13/02/2022 11:19

Hi all! @Mays12 it's so hard not to symptom spot isn't it!! I found that I was spotting symptoms so much last month - from a couple of days dpo I felt so much weird stuff (sore boobs, strange dreams, nausea and bloating, lots of watery CM) and it was really gutting to get a BFN (or several BFNs as it turned out). I was also a bit scarred by testing early and seeing an indent line and thinking it might be a positive. So this month I have noticed nothing so far and I'm sort of happy about it as I feel like lack of symptom spotting will help with testing early but who knows how I will feel in a few days!

5manc · 13/02/2022 17:03

Hi all! How is everyone doing? Unfortunately I lost the baby earlier on this week at 6 weeks ๐Ÿ™ had a little break from mumsnet and now back with you all! Not sure how active Iโ€™ll be but still trying to keep on this thread! Feeling pretty down but I know our time will come. No idea when we can even start trying again but just hope my cycles go back to normal asap! Xx

RMS0209 · 13/02/2022 17:11

@5manc I am sending you the biggest hugs, I really hope you are ok. We are all here for you xx โค๏ธ I'm so sorry to hear this xx

Newbiemg · 13/02/2022 17:36

Hi all just catching up Smile

@RMS0209 opks are rising I got a high reading today but donโ€™t think itโ€™s quite peak but thinking peak will be later tonight or tomorrow.

Dog sitting is good got out for some nice long walks. Glad you enjoyed the movie ๐Ÿ˜Š

@Pickles91 yay for peak! Good luck ๐Ÿคž

@Hannamarie0098 Hello! Sending baby dust your way โœจ

@lakejupiter Glad youโ€™re having a nice break. And good news about coparents sperm. Lots of luck for the ultrasound๐Ÿคž

@Mays12 Glad you and OH had a nice weekend away. Sending you luck for the tww โœจ

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Newbiemg · 13/02/2022 17:37

@5manc So sorry to hear this news. Sending you bug hugs. We are here for you whenever you need us and whenever you are ready to try again we will be here again to support โค๏ธ

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lakejupiter · 13/02/2022 17:51

I'm so sorry to hear this @5manc โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ nice to have you here but sorry it's under the worst circumstances xxxx

Pickles91 · 13/02/2022 17:52

Oh @5manc, I am so sorry to hear that. Thinking of you and sending the biggest hugs across the ocean. Weโ€™re here whenever youโ€™re ready or just need some anonymous ears โค๏ธ

Hi @Hannamarie0098! Good luck!

Yes! Wedding hair is all sorted thanks @RMS0209! I kept changing my mind, but think I have just about settled on the style. Letโ€™s hope it looks good on the day. Would you say marry me is worth paying to see or wait for netflix?

All sounds great @lakejupiter! Hopefully itโ€™ll be a zero AF scan for baby reasons, but if it is AF, I bet they see that all the time. Lucky them! Do you have any other signs of PCOS other than the blood results?

Keep holding out @Mays12! You got this!

Havenโ€™t DTD since getting the peak because we both passed out last night! Today is set to be chaotic, but hopefully will be able to tonight. Do you think thatโ€™s ok? DTD Thursday, peak Saturday morning, then DTD Sunday night? I think this is the downside of not telling OH about OPK results - he doesnโ€™t know when DTD is most important!

lakejupiter · 13/02/2022 18:01

Thanks @Pickles91 - yeah my blood test results showed high testosterone and subclinical hypothyroidism and have a couple of PCOS symptoms (weight gain/high-ish BMI and insulin resistance). Don't have irregular cycles and seem to ovulate each month (progesterone levels were fine on day 21 test) so not sure how much it is affecting my fertility but it could well be! Hoping to get some answers at the ultrasound and also eventually see an endocrinologist about hormones/thyroid.