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Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

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Skl2021 · 13/01/2022 10:53

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

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Cruz86 · 21/01/2022 19:26

Thank you @Skl2021 ☺️ eurgh honestly I don't know. It all just messes with your head doesn't it. I was doing so well until the blood earlier. But I've literally had nothing since! X

Skl2021 · 21/01/2022 19:28

@Cruz86 it's hard isn't it I'm currently talking myself into it hasn't worked this month so I'm not to gutted whan af arrives! Last month my hopes were sky high so trying not to go there again! I would have said implantation bleeding maybe but I think your too early for that yet! Your symptoms are promising tho xx

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Cindy974 · 21/01/2022 19:29

@Cruz86 glad to hear your sons on the mend. Could be implantation though right?

Is it bad I’m counting down till bedtime so I can wake up in the morning and test 🥴🤣

Cruz86 · 21/01/2022 19:44

@Skl2021 Yeah I think that's the best thing we can do isn't it? There's always that glimmer of hope though that gets us too overexcited 😩

Thanks @Cindy974. It could be but I spot around this time every single month, whether it's a bfp or not. So it doesn't give me much insight 😂 Get to bed now so the morning comes round quickly! 🙌🏻 x

Skl2021 · 21/01/2022 19:59

@Cruz86 I'm trying to not get over excited this time I'm negative Nancy 🤣🙌 these days are draggin now 🙈 so close yet so far! X

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Sparklesurprise29 · 21/01/2022 20:00

Yep will try an opk tomorrow and see what it says🤔 @skl2021 we dtd just in case ovulation was late😅 thinking I might test on Wednesday next week if I can wait that long🙈

Ooh thats interesting @cruz86, maybe thats what it is! 😀 thats a good sign re. cramps, are you having a pulling feeling? I got that too last time😀🤞

Ooh @cindy974 hoping for a BFP for you 😀

Skl2021 · 21/01/2022 20:14

@Sparklesurprise29 ahh u should be covered then! Hopefully it was just a random surge and u have actually ovulated already! Haha u will soon be counting down the days! Xx

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Tofu35 · 22/01/2022 08:38

Had a few glasses of wine last night with some friends and now hoping that my OPK is blank today so I can enjoy my hangover in peace. That was the first time I've had a drink since before my last pregnancy

Fingers crossed I'm in the TWW now! 🤕

Cruz86 · 22/01/2022 08:42

Me too @Skl2021. I take it you've tested this morning? 😂

Yes I had a pulling feeling @Sparklesurprise29 but it was a few days ago now so very early! How have your opks been doing?

Aw I hope you had a good night @Tofu35! Let's hope the opks don't turn positive 😂 x

Skl2021 · 22/01/2022 08:49

@Cruz86 yep bfn 8 dpo! Don't think it's my month tbh but I'm ok with that x

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Cruz86 · 22/01/2022 08:56

8dpo is still mega early @Skl2021! When is af due? X

Skl2021 · 22/01/2022 08:58

@Cruz86 next Thursday. I just have a feeling x

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Cindy974 · 22/01/2022 09:23

Im BFN too, feel like I can feel my period coming on so not feeling hopeful either even though its mega early. Had abit of a wobble last night as I realised it would have been my 12 week scan next week, ugh 😣 hope everyone else is okay x

@Skl2021 still early we may not have even implanted yet 🤔

Bon234 · 22/01/2022 09:43

AF has arrived today 😭 it’s always very disappointing to see her! I was hoping so much that I’d get a bfp after getting home from my honeymoon but it’s only been my first cycle since having a D&C. I had sex every day throughout my honeymoon & I ovulated as I used opk & still it didn’t happen 😫. Did anyone else have a D&C? & did your cycle go back to normal straight away?

I would have been 16 weeks now & I feel the more time that passes by the more that part hurts! Xx

aesgriff · 22/01/2022 10:09

Ladies I'm so sorry about the BFN 😣 we're here to support you!

aesgriff · 22/01/2022 10:11

@Bon234 I didn't want for my first period since having a D&C and tracked ovulation using OPKs and didn't catch. Was gutted when AF arrived so I get where you're coming from ♥️

Cindy974 · 22/01/2022 10:18

@Bon234 sorry to hear about AF arriving 😞 Ive DTD practically everyday and used opks for ovulation aswell but still not feeling hopeful. My friends mum has 7 kids and has had no miscarriages at all! I don’t understand why some people struggle and some people don’t its unfair x

Skl2021 · 22/01/2022 10:23

@Cindy974 yes still early just have a gut feeling! Xx

@Bon234 sorry about af arriving 😩 hope your ok 💕 xx

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Emeal123 · 22/01/2022 11:26

Sorry to hear about AF arriving and the BFN's everyone! I'm now 13dpo, tested this morning and BFN, can feel lots of AF symptoms so I'm expecting her to arrive soon! Not sure if it's because it's my first AF since MC but PMS is way worse than normal! FX for some BFPs for you all soon! Xx

Cruz86 · 22/01/2022 11:53

Oh man, bfn's and af's are not what we wanted 😩 hope everyone's okay x

Skl2021 · 22/01/2022 12:07

@Emeal123 Sorry to hear that 😩 hope af stays away but if not take care of yourself 💕

I hope someone gets a bfp! We need some luck on this thread ✨🙌🤞

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calimc83 · 22/01/2022 12:23

Hope everyone is ok 😕 @Skl2021 8DPO is still mega early...xx

Bon234 · 22/01/2022 12:40

Definitely hoping that there’s lots of luck in this group for BFP soon 🤞🏻🌈

Skl2021 · 22/01/2022 12:41

@calimc83 yes I know it's just a feeling I have sometimes u know! I will keep testing but I think I'm just trying to protect myself and not get hopes up! Last month when af arrived was really tough so don't want to get like that! X

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Skl2021 · 22/01/2022 12:42

@Bon234 yes!! We all think positive we will get there 💕 let's get these rainbows 🌈✨

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