Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

[Skl2021]

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

@calimc83 had mine last month didn't affect ovulation but my pregnancy was a chemical unfortunately

Thank you so much @Sparklesurprise29 and @Cruz86. I guess I'm about 14DPO? Not sure 100pc as period bit messed up last time as it was the first one after my CP in Nov. Still no sign of AF but got the most BFN of BFNs yesterday.

It's really hard as my Mum has stage IV cancer too, so every month that goes by, the chances are less that she will be here to meet the baby (if it ever happens for us.) And I would have been due in March if I haven't lost no 1 so she would have met the baby and been ok for it, and it just feels so bloody cruel it all got snatched away and that was that.

Is everyone doing lots of tracking etc? I tried to do OPK for one month and found it way too stressful POAS every day and never getting a static smiley so I gave that up.

@arianasky ahhh ok...how are u getting on? Are u ok? X

@calimc83 while I seemed to have some cycle variation with my covid vaccines (only by a few days) I didn't have any variation with the booster.

@calimc83 I was fine with my booster it didn't change anything 🤞 you will be fine! X

vaccine delayed ovulation for me so I’m too scared to get the booster while I want to TTC again 😕

Hi ladies
Hi @Skl2021 🙋‍♀️

I'm sorry to hoping you all under such a sad topic.
I'm 42, ttc baby no3, has amc last June, I was 9 weeks.
Was due my baby on the 4th of January. Feeling a bit shit 😭

@PamelaDoov from what iv heard and read the booster doesn't seem to be messing up cycles like the vaccines did 🤔 but obviously you never know for yourself. I was also scared to get it as I was in my tww! X

@Nikkic2123 hi and welcome ✨👋 xx

I’m in my tww and have my second vaccine to get on Friday, I’ll either be 4dpo or 7 DPO x
Hoping it won’t affect the travelling zygote 🤞

@calimc83 yeah I'm ok thank you, didn't mean to scare you with the booster thing sorry I don't think the chemical was down to that x

Thanks for the replies ladies! Guess it's just a case of 'who knows' what'll happen😫😆 ...don't worry @arianasky you haven't scared me xxx

@SunAndSea37 So sorry about the timing of everything and your mom being unwell; my fingers are crossed for you.

Welcome to anyone else who is new, I just skimmed the last few pages.

It should’ve been my 20 week scan today. I have not had a good day. It’s days like today that I cannot see the light through the darkness.

Hi to everyone who's joined in the last day or so. Sorry to hear you're going through a tough time aside from TTC @SunAndSea37.

A miscarriage on Christmas Day must have been so hard @Emeal123.

@Nikkic2123 and @PamelaDoov sorry you're finding things difficult at the moment due to what should have been.

How is everyone doing? X

@PamelaDoov I'm so sorry. I know none of us will ever forget these sad (understatement) experiences but I hope one day (and soon!) there are many, many happy dates and memories that fill our calendars/minds and that these are the first to pop into our minds in the morning

Very grateful to be able to "talk" on here as I am getting that feeling from people IRL that "ok, back to normal now." Yet I'm finding it really hard to engage in "normal" conversation with people. It's making me think about times when I was on the other end of this experience (or any tough experience), and I really hope I didn't give people that feeling of "enough now."

@Sparklesurprise29 I'm not ashamed to admit I was googling IUI syringes yesterday morning 🤣🤣 no DTD last night but I've been promised tonight so we'll see...

God girls I know you're all going to get where I'm coming from but the day I came back to work following my D&C (1 week after) my colleague told me she was 5.5 weeks pregnant (knowing I'd just miscarried). She told the team in our team meeting today and it just hurt like hell. That should've been me sharing my news and being apart of the excitement. Sob 😭

@aesgriff oh god I bet that hurt. It hurts me just imagining it. Hope you’re ok xx

@aesgriff ugh :( I know people have a right to share, but I think often there's very little sensitivity

Right I have lost the plot. I caved. I tested.. 😩🤦 6 dpo stupid yes!! Someone please slap me 🙌🤣 I'm not safe with tests in the house!!!! I need help 🙊 ttc fucks with your head makes you do stupid things!!

@Skl2021 argh!! 😆😫 step away from the tests...I'm still not convinced Ive passed everything from my MC now as im still spotting after period ended on Sunday 😖...waiting to hear back from EPU now. X

@calimc83 I'm sorry to hear that Hopefully epu will help u out If anything is still left I hope there isn't though 🤞🤞 I'm actually going insane always gets me around 6/7 dpo! I don't even know why I did it! Not fussed about the negative result just the thrill of doing one 🤣🙊 Iv gone mad haven't I?! X

@Ganesh2022 @PamelaDoov just sets me off into those negative ugly feelings. I was feeling ok, then BAM! 😰

@@Skl2021 what are you like 🤣 you should be named the Test Queen for these threads!

@calimc83 keep us updated if you feel like it following your EPU appointment. Thinking of you xx

I know how you feel @Skl2021 😂 I'm already thinking things and I'm only 4dpo! Getting really bad round ligament pain and I'm feeling extremely irritated by my husband. The last time this happened I was pregnant! Argh, hormones!!

Oh sorry to hear that @calimc83. Hopefully they'll scan you ASAP x

@aesgriff I think I have a problem 🙈 I don't know why I do it because I know physically it's not possible but that doesn't stop me!! 🤣🤦 X