Over 40 TTC 2022 group

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Just that...anyone in 40s TTC in 2022?
First, second babies?
Just want to know others exist 😃

@Trying81 congratulations xx

Congratulations, ladies, on BFPs! On this thread for quite long time, just more reading than posting.
Are you trying something new time to time? I have just added Acupuncture and Reflexology to my TTC armour list 🤔😏 as well as Ubiquinol after long considerations. Feeling better for now that I least I’m trying smth 🤷‍♀️

@Trying81 that's fantastic!

Congratulations

Thanks - it's been so long without contraception that didn't think it would ever happen!

Gonna have an early scan too I think, just to set my mind at rest

Congratulations on the recent BFP!!! So inspiring

So I've just had AF show up at 9dpo

Finding it really useful reading about everyone's experiences with tests etc., I'm just back from holiday so going to look at getting tests booked in for both of us.

I've been taking folic acid and COq10 but I've read that it's better to take Folate and Ubiquinol - just wondered if anyone had any (not overly exttortionate!) reccomendations that I can buy in the UK?

For folate I take methylfolate in my prenatal from Naturelo.
For Ubiquinol I take the one by Health Thru Nutrition.
I use recommendations from itstartswiththeegg.com/uk-supplement-buying-guide/

Good morning everyone,

Been searching for a thread like this (hope I’m in the right place).
I’m 42, dp 31 (he looks older as he’s lost his hair 😉) . I have 2 ds ages 16 & 5.
I am really starting to want to ttc for another baby but worry that I am too old. I worry that I am thinking this was because I know it’s coming towards the end of my fertility life.
I don’t want to life wishing I had had another. My little one would be an amazing big bro. My two children are so far apart in ages that they have little time together. Teenager sadly not interested.
Anyone else been in my shoes ? X

[quote Ronnyrambler]For folate I take methylfolate in my prenatal from Naturelo.
For Ubiquinol I take the one by Health Thru Nutrition.
I use recommendations from itstartswiththeegg.com/uk-supplement-buying-guide/[/quote]
Great thanks for that :)

hello. I will be 45 this sprint, two DCs inc one preschooler. I don’t feel ready to give up trying yet, even though I know my chances are minimal.

@FutureMum welcome !
How long have you been trying?

I'm 43, DD1 is now 3.5.
I often feel like I'm too old now and should have tried earlier. I don't know any older mums. Most are around 35 at my playgroup.

X

@Maybebaby7 👋 hello
I'm 43 and have DD1 who is 3.5years.
I'm really wanting another too.

Have you been tracking ovulation - ovulation tests? I'm considering doing this.

I've been using an app to track and I think I need to do more DTD than this!

Didn't overthink it with my first and was pregnant in 8 months...

I do opks (ovulatuon tests) as well as temperature app (though am a bit lazy with the temp right now...It helps me remember to put aside to dtd whether or not I feel like it on the crucial days!

Hi, @oxfordinwinter85 just over two years trying to no avail. We’ll see...

@Ronnyrambler what do you think of the app prediction I was given? Should I DTD every other day ?

@oxfordinwinter85 are you temperature tracking or just periods and sex? I ask as I can't see where ovulation is, which temp would help with. When predicted ovulation is coming I aim to dtd for the five days before ovulation dayx on ovulation day and the day after. Managed all but one last time! Obvs not always possible. If my tempntracker predicts ovulation I can then be more precise with the opks (or make up for not temperatire checkig and jist guessing). Sometimes ov day is way earlier or layer than normal.

@Ronnyrambler no temp tracking ...I think I should start that.

I have a basic 🌡 thermometer.

So take my temp when I wake up in the morning?

Temp raises before Ovulation ?

As you can read I'm not massively informed here

Just went with before we conceived DD1.
But now with my age - I need more help.

@oxfordinwinter85 I use an app called Natural Cycles which predicts ovulation based on temperatues that I enter daily. You're supposed to take your temp every morning before getting up and right after waking. It also prompts me to do ovulation tests and it explains when and how to take your temperature correctly.
As someone with seriously low amh and low antral follicle countthe nhs won't offer me ivf so I'm trying naturally using the books It Starts with the Egg to help. If you haven't I would get referred for ivf asap even if you don't want it as then you'll get tests done and will have a good idea of your chances /options.

@Ronnyrambler I bought some ovulation strips!!

So...testing and temping!

Should I also test first thing in the morning when I get up??

I did use ovulation tests before we conceived our DD..but never got the smiley 😃 face

yes that's right, first thing You can then save the temp reading until you are properly awake and then you enter it into whichever fertility app you have that is made for this. The app will explain everything.

Re testing, you can get the cheap strips rather than the smiley face one (I buy 50 a go on Amazon) and I test from around day 10 and atm usually get an LH surge on day 12 which means I ovulate around day 13/14. Some months it has been much later and this is likely to change with age so until your app gets your rhythm it's good to test from around day 9 or 10.

I'm 40 and trying to concieve. Started part way through October and nothing is happening. Got a clearblue ovulation kit in January. Two days it showed low fertility, then one day high and the next day peak. Not helped though.

I get my periods every month but cycle length keeps changing. Latest is 29 days, but has gone up to a max of 33 and lowest 25 in the last 5 months. Always had painful periods, am overweight and have oily skin. Keep wondering if I have PCOS. Get a few excess hairs around my chin and lips. Nothing major though.

Not been to the doctors as its not been 6 months yet of ttc. I am trying my best to go to the gym and lose weight, trying to cut down on what I eat. I'm taking vitamin d and folic acid and have started taking probiotics. Maybe I've just left it too late. I started my periods early in life at 10. I didn't realise this could mean that your fertility could decline quicker. That's what Dr Google is telling me anyway.

I wouldn't wait 6 months and actually my GP said not to wait as the process takes time for referral to ivf. Testing for PCOS is a separate matter so no need to wait y months to check that, and definitely shouldn't wait as losing valuable time. Also good to get other tests done. There is a place that BPAS clinic recommended called Hertility where you can send off for fertility tests for £150. If I had known about this pre 40 I would have done it. Also do check It Starts with the Egg book for info on supplements, tests, vit d, diet, toxins etc. Good that you are taking vits etc and there's more you can take.

Thanks. I will try and get an appointment. Or maybe that test! I think with ivf at 40 I wouldn't be able to get it on the nhs. Just a bit worried the tests will show I have a low chance. I shouldn't have left things so long but it never felt like the right time.

I'll get a copy of that book too.

Hi all,

I have asked and received some useful replies about fertility testing on here before so I've been researching a few places looking to get this booked in for both of us. I just wondered if anyone had any reccommendations of clinics in the north of England? We are based in Sotuh Cumbria so I have been looking at Manchester and Lancashire based clinics but can also reasonably travel to Yrkshire or the north east.

Also - an optional extra is the Hycosy I just wondered if people had had this as a may as well just make sure? Or only if after the initial tests the clinic have reccommended it? The prices have been coming up £400 - £450 for the couples fertility testing and then an additional £400 ish to add the Hycosy on

Any experiences gratefully received!