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11dpo, is it over?

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Rose253 · 14/12/2021 12:59

11dpo today, no sign of anything.. Dont really temp but I feel like im out this month. Shall I give up any hope?

thanks in advance x

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 14/12/2021 19:05

@Rose253

11dpo today, no sign of anything.. Dont really temp but I feel like im out this month. Shall I give up any hope?

thanks in advance x

This is me! I tested this morning bfn. I feel like we are out. I really hope we are not though.. sorry you're in the same boat!
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Rose253 · 14/12/2021 19:16

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle yeah its super annoying, was really hoping this month was the month😔

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 14/12/2021 19:35

[quote Rose253]@Theneverendingcleaningcycle yeah its super annoying, was really hoping this month was the month😔[/quote]
I started a thread on this earlier. About how people try and stay positive. I'm just not feeling it at the moment. I've had to ask my husband to hide the tests.

Decaffe · 14/12/2021 19:54

11dpo here too, no symptoms whatsoever. It’s so hard. Flowers

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Rose253 · 14/12/2021 20:00

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle its so hard, i know people say its too early but when you wait so long for something everything can just become a letdown..

@Decaffe hopefully we all arent out yet, have to keep some positivity❤️

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 14/12/2021 20:09

I feel like I've found my people. Let's keep each other company over the next few days. BFP for us all.

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Rose253 · 14/12/2021 20:18

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle Yeah defo!! do you do the whole temping? I honestly didnt even keep up with that this month. I was so convinced im pregnant and now I kinda just feel normal if that makes sense🙃

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 14/12/2021 20:24

Temping? Temperature taking? No.
I wish Af would arrive or it would be Monday so I can test being a few days late. Its the not knowing that gets me everytime. The false hope kinda thing.

Geemmm · 14/12/2021 20:25

This is me too - I'm 12dpo today.

Last couple of cycles I've tested positive quite clearly at 12dpo. Today I had the whitest BFN.

Think I'm out this month again but really hoping I might just test pos a bit later this month 🤞🏻

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Rose253 · 14/12/2021 20:26

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle

Temping? Temperature taking? No. I wish Af would arrive or it would be Monday so I can test being a few days late. Its the not knowing that gets me everytime. The false hope kinda thing.
Yeah i get what you mean, the whole tww just literally draaaags
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Rose253 · 14/12/2021 20:27

@Geemmm

This is me too - I'm 12dpo today.

Last couple of cycles I've tested positive quite clearly at 12dpo. Today I had the whitest BFN.

Think I'm out this month again but really hoping I might just test pos a bit later this month 🤞🏻

🤞🏻🤞🏻, Ive been googling success stories trying to give myself some hope lol
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Geemmm · 14/12/2021 20:37

@rose253 same here!

The thing is I have had like cramps since about 5dpo and I'm now like are they implantation or AF coming as surely I would be showing positive by now if it was implantation?

Think I'm just gonna wait now and see if AF comes or not as I think I'm keeping clear blue in business the amount of tests I go through each cycle 😅

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Rose253 · 14/12/2021 21:28

@Geemmm same happened to me, im just guessing its AF coming soon😣

I use the easy@home ones from amazon, theyre pretty sensitive and cheap.

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 06:09

Are you all going to keep testing or just wait till the weekend and see if AF turns up?

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 08:17

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle still BFN!! honestly just going to leave it now, af is meant to be here Friday/Saturday.. Im certain im out now😶

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Decaffe · 15/12/2021 08:18

12DPO and BFN on a FRER this morning.

For me I am going to stop wasting money now, and accept AF is on her way this Sat/Sun.

I have had absolutely no symptoms whatsoever so just feel like I need to face facts! Sad

I can’t believe I was so naive as to think I’d get pregnant on the first go. Dear Lord.

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 08:24

@Decaffe I have cramps this morning but could be AF on her way, I suppose theres always the next cycle, but we can still hold a tiny bit of hope till af shows up😬

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Mama500 · 15/12/2021 08:53

Hi everyone can I join!

I’m in exactly the same boat. I really thought I would be about 6 months pregnant by Xmas but here I am still trying still BFN:(

AF due sun

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 09:14

@Mama500 Hey there😘, its heartbreaking isnt it, especially when you want something so bad..

I feel like everyone around me is getting pregnant or having babys and im like bleugh😓

Our time will come, we just have to keep hope and stay positive, and maybe the slightest chance we arent out yet till af shows🤞🏻

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Mama500 · 15/12/2021 09:17

@Rose253 yes it really is! Sending you lots of baby dust!

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 09:25

@Mama500 same for you❤️ I'm trying to do things to make my day go quicker because before you know it im googling all sort of stuff🙄
Normally id be at work doesnt help ive got two days off haha

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 10:40

Sorry there's no BFP this morning. My husbands hidden the tests so I can't test till the weekend. If I knew where they were I would have. Trying to focus on work but it's so hard.

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Rose253 · 15/12/2021 11:06

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle I know how you feel, in the same boat. Just waiting for AF to come now, not going to bother testing anymore.

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Theneverendingcleaningcycle · 15/12/2021 12:36

@Decaffe

12DPO and BFN on a FRER this morning.

For me I am going to stop wasting money now, and accept AF is on her way this Sat/Sun.

I have had absolutely no symptoms whatsoever so just feel like I need to face facts! Sad

I can’t believe I was so naive as to think I’d get pregnant on the first go. Dear Lord.

I know how you feel. I feel like I was naieve too. I caught first time with DD 7 years ago. I just assumed it would happen like that again. I forgot I'm also 7 years older! My DD is desperate for a sibling. Which is making this harder.
Geemmm · 15/12/2021 14:26

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle I tested again today it another whiter than white BFN. I'm not testing again this month it's just torture now. Just need to hope AF doesn't come and will test if I'm a week late.