11dpo, is it over?

[Rose253]

11dpo today, no sign of anything.. Dont really temp but I feel like im out this month. Shall I give up any hope?

thanks in advance x

[quote Geemmm]@Theneverendingcleaningcycle I tested again today it another whiter than white BFN. I'm not testing again this month it's just torture now. Just need to hope AF doesn't come and will test if I'm a week late. [/quote]
I'm sorry I know that crushing disappointment. I keep thinking of the positives of not having morning sickness over Xmas. Its not much to cling to though.

I’m in the same mindset ladies. Usually have 28 day cycle like clockwork. I’m not two days past when af was due. Thought the two week wait was bad enough but now I’m actually late for the first time and only getting negative results. Is the baby dream over for this month? x

Now two days **

@RGxo13 aww bet it must be so hard😓 I have read people going on to getting positives like a week after their period but dont know how common it actually is.. Is there any signs af is coming?

@RGxo13

Now two days **

You're not out till AF arrives. Maybe hold out testing for a few days. I say this as a big hypocrite as I would be testing every day. Baby dust to you xx

Hi all, can I join please?

I'm in a bit of an unusual situation. Had the coil out earlier this year and was planning to start trying next year. Had a "whoops" moment around ovulation day and have been convinced I'm pregnant since about 4DPO (I know symptoms are so unlikely then) but either I am or I'm noticing a whole bunch of symptoms I've always had that have gone unnoticed? 2 x BFN yesterday and today. AF due on Sunday and but both me and my BF were gutted when there was no line?!

Thank you ladies! Giving me a little hope last month was the first month I’ve known about the ‘fertile window’ so made sure that peak time to dtd. No signs of af coming, I usually get really bad cramps but nothing so far! Have my Xmas party on Friday so panicking about drinking but feel a bit silly not going when I’m only getting bfn! Think I will try and wait until one week after I thought I was due af to test again but boy will that he hard haha! Xx @Theneverendingcleaningcycle @Rose253

@sunflower25049

Hi all, can I join please?

I'm in a bit of an unusual situation. Had the coil out earlier this year and was planning to start trying next year. Had a "whoops" moment around ovulation day and have been convinced I'm pregnant since about 4DPO (I know symptoms are so unlikely then) but either I am or I'm noticing a whole bunch of symptoms I've always had that have gone unnoticed? 2 x BFN yesterday and today. AF due on Sunday and but both me and my BF were gutted when there was no line?!

still might be abit early yet, maybe wait till Friday/Saturday to test again? again this is coming from someone who has an addiction with testing everyday😂

I think even if you thought you wouldnt be as gutted, its something that really gets your hopes up, hope you get good news soon❤️

@RGxo13 Bit of a sticky situation hopefully you get some news before the christmas party!🤞🏻

I cant help myself and got the cheapy easy&home tests, I say im not going to test but run to the bathroom first thing in the morning😬

If I knew where the tests had been hidden I would also be testing!
I'm having some cramps so I think AF will show up Friday.

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle omg me too! been having cramps most of the day, AF is defo coming😓

@Rose253 thank you! I feel like I'm probably not pregnant but this last 2 weeks of constantly reading posts has made me realise that starting the new year I'm going to track BBT and ovulation days properly so when we do start trying I have an understanding of my body. I said I wasn't going to test unless AF is actually late now and have no more tests here anyway but I have FRER in my Amazon basket 👀👀

Keeping my fingers crossed for you that AF does not show xx

[quote Rose253]@Theneverendingcleaningcycle omg me too! been having cramps most of the day, AF is defo coming😓 [/quote]
Mine feel like sharp stabbings pains on my left side. So now I'm reading into that that maybe implantation?! But I know that's unlikely at this stage and I'm just fooling myself.

@sunflower25049 Yeah I didnt track BBT this time round and wish I did now but defo next cycle going to do the whole thing properly.

I always say im going to hold out till the day AF is due but soon as it hits 7dpo, something comes over me😂 I promised myself im only going to get a frer if the cheapy shows a line, so not anytime soon😶

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle did you defo ovulate when you thought you did or is it possible you're implanting now? My cramps have been more central and got bad back pain, cant wait for AF to just show up now so I can get over it and start again🥲

I'm only going by the Flow App so I'm not 100%.
I'm not getting my hopes up.
I know what you mean when you say somthing comes over you with testing. It's a compulsion. 😂

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle oooo you never know then, do you do OPK's?

Yeah its literally like a dark force😂😂😂

[quote Rose253]@Theneverendingcleaningcycle oooo you never know then, do you do OPK's?

Yeah its literally like a dark force😂😂😂[/quote]
I haven't done. I think I will next month then. More peeing on a stick woo! 😂

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle i love them, it helps my addiction😂

How is everyone doing today?

im defo out, did a test thing morning and BFN. Had a little cry and now looking forward to the next cycle. Also going on a diet, the whole lockdown and covid hasnt been good towards my weight gain😂

hope you're all doing well❤️

@Rose253

How is everyone doing today?

im defo out, did a test thing morning and BFN. Had a little cry and now looking forward to the next cycle. Also going on a diet, the whole lockdown and covid hasnt been good towards my weight gain😂

hope you're all doing well❤️

I'm sorry @rose253 I'm still having cramping so likely to be start of AF. Due tommrow. I'm not testing till Sunday though if I don't come on.

I'm also dieting I'm finding calorie counting is the best. I've lost 6 pounds in a month which for me is amazing.

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle Yeah im done testing now, I know its done. My cramping has disappeared though but I know it comes a few hours before AF.

Yeah ive got my fitness pal app, going to start being more consistent. Really need to shift this weight, making me feel really depressed😓

[quote Rose253]@Theneverendingcleaningcycle Yeah im done testing now, I know its done. My cramping has disappeared though but I know it comes a few hours before AF.

Yeah ive got my fitness pal app, going to start being more consistent. Really need to shift this weight, making me feel really depressed😓[/quote]
Just don't put to much pressure on yourself over Xmas. X

@Theneverendingcleaningcycle Yeah you're right, the food is way too nice not to eat it! My new years resolution can be to focus on the weight haha