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AF 5 days late BFN

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beehivettcbaby1 · 15/11/2021 11:48

Hi everyone!

As the title suggests I'm 5 days late which isn't normal for me. I've had a 28 day cycle for the last 5 cycles. I have had many chemical pregnancies before.

All tests are BFN however I realised the tests at 25mmols.

I'm really lost and confused. I do have a few symptoms such as being super hungry and crampy and watery CM (TMI)

After 4 years of trying this is really stressing me out lol 

I have been taking metformin, folic acid, choline inositol and l carnitine but started these all mid cycle.

All tests are BFN however I realised the tests at
Any advice please? Any success story's?

H xxx

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Eden1319 · 17/11/2021 10:44

It’s precaution more than anything. If I’m not pregnant, and I still don’t come on, they should be able to see why

Smiler79 · 17/11/2021 10:51

I’ve seen quite a few threads on here where ladies are late and negative test and usually it’s an anovulatory cycle or eventually af arrives, some are seriously late with Af. Often it’s because the person wasn’t tracking their ovulation with opks and bbt and have just ovulated a lot later than usual.
There are rare cases where hcg isn’t picked up on a pg test and you need a blood test but this is really rare.
I would do a blood test if really stressed and if that’s negative then you know for sure.
It must be hard waiting in limbo.

beehivettcbaby1 · 17/11/2021 10:51

@Eden1319
I can see it... I have my fingers and toes crossed for you xxx

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beehivettcbaby1 · 17/11/2021 10:53

@Eden1319

My Gynae called this morning and has said to drop a FMU sample into my GP for testing, and booked me into an early pregnancy clinic for a scan Mon 29th.

I did another a strip test this morning, still negative but my husband thinks he sees a vvvfl. I am driving myself insane 😢🙈

How are you doing?

I'm okay. I'm really cramping today and super dizzy. If I don't come on in the next 48 hours then I will call GP as I can really feel something going on. Keep me updated xx
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beehivettcbaby1 · 17/11/2021 10:54

@Smiler79

I’ve seen quite a few threads on here where ladies are late and negative test and usually it’s an anovulatory cycle or eventually af arrives, some are seriously late with Af. Often it’s because the person wasn’t tracking their ovulation with opks and bbt and have just ovulated a lot later than usual. There are rare cases where hcg isn’t picked up on a pg test and you need a blood test but this is really rare. I would do a blood test if really stressed and if that’s negative then you know for sure. It must be hard waiting in limbo.
Hi lovely. Yes I agree but I've also seen lots of ladies not test positive till 7/8 weeks pregnant and have gone on to have healthy babies. Only time will tell. Either a period or a baby ey!
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Eden1319 · 18/11/2021 02:50

So I was busting for a wee in the middle
of the night, I couldn't hold it in so I did a quick strip test.....

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beehivettcbaby1 · 18/11/2021 09:17

@Eden1319

So I was busting for a wee in the middle of the night, I couldn't hold it in so I did a quick strip test.....
Oh I see that bad boy!!!!! Go get a clear blue digital early response ASAP..... xxxx
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Eden1319 · 18/11/2021 09:48

@beehivettcbaby1
just sent hubby out to boots for one 🤞🏼

How are you today? Any changes? Xxx

beehivettcbaby1 · 18/11/2021 09:58

[quote Eden1319]@beehivettcbaby1
just sent hubby out to boots for one 🤞🏼

How are you today? Any changes? Xxx[/quote]
Hey yes kinda. Super tired. I came back from work at 2pm yesterday and fell asleep which I never do. I had really bad flu symptoms last night (so bad I done a covid test) but woke up this morning without them. My boobs are super sore this morning.

CM is well.... do I have to say anymore?

I'm cramping as well, I cramp way worse in the morning and then by midday it's gone. I'm 8 days late now.

I'm super achey everywhere and hot and cold.

I've seen flu like symptoms are common in early pregnancy. But I'm really not holding my breath. Google is the enemy. I'm going to hold out another week and then go to GP. I do wonder if I've just ovulated later.

Fingers and toes crossed for you xxxx

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Jad123 · 18/11/2021 10:21

Been TTC for 6 months. AF is 4 days late for me which is very unusual, I'm normally like clockwork, on CD37, average cycle is 31 days. All tests coming back BFN including red dye cheapies and CBDs early test. No normal period symptoms. Going crazy here.

I'm meant to be going out for a friends birthday on Saturday. If I still haven't come on should I not drink??

Putdownthecake · 18/11/2021 10:43

Hey ladies, I'm not actually trying so not sure how I stumbled here but just wanted to give you some hope. I had to be 11 days late to get the most faint line with now healthy 2 Yr old. I never got a positive on a clear blue. I found first response tests to be the best! Good luck x

beehivettcbaby1 · 18/11/2021 10:46

@Jad123

Okay well I'm 8 days late and still BFN. Some ladies don't have a BFP for a few weeks but everyone is different.

I think only you can make that decision. I doubt a few glasses of wine would do massive damages this early but everyone has their own options xxx

H xxx

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Jad123 · 18/11/2021 10:47

@beehivettcbaby1 thank you for the advice. Got everything crossed for you! I'm new on here and it's so nice to talk to others going through the same thing xx

beehivettcbaby1 · 18/11/2021 10:50

@Jad123

Me too!! I've never posted anywhere on here before however I've read so many threads on here I just felt I needed some advice!

TTC is such a rollercoaster of emotions and a late period is super exciting...

Fingers crossed for you too xxxx

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Eden1319 · 18/11/2021 11:28

So 8 days later... and this has just happened.

Don't give up hope girls!!

my tests have been playing crazy tricks on me all week, and Google really is the worst enemy @beehivettcbaby1 - but stick with it.

This is just knocked the wind out of me 😮

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Smiler79 · 18/11/2021 11:30

@Eden1319 congratulations!!
Did you know when you ovulated?

beehivettcbaby1 · 18/11/2021 11:31

@Eden1319

So 8 days later... and this has just happened.

Don't give up hope girls!!

my tests have been playing crazy tricks on me all week, and Google really is the worst enemy @beehivettcbaby1 - but stick with it.

This is just knocked the wind out of me 😮

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!! You've made my day! I wish you all the best! Please keep us updated xxxxx
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Tinkerbell098 · 18/11/2021 11:37

@Eden1319 massive congratulations!! You must be over the moon! This gives us all hope! Amazing news :)

Eden1319 · 18/11/2021 11:45

I think I'm in shock 🙈😂
I know we all have our own journeys, some are harder walks than others, but we've been trying for 10 years, I'm 43 and this is my first ever positive test in my whole life. It's been the hardest, longest road, I still don't think it's real.

Keep up the faith though! I'm doing the same still ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Sending you all love and hope xxxxxx

Lou98 · 18/11/2021 11:50

@beehivettcbaby1 don't lose hope yet, not out until AF arrives!

I was 5.5 weeks since my last period last week (so about 1.5wk late for me and 7.5 weeks pregnant) took a test got a negative, a few days later got the faintest positive and now the tests are so strong and my sickness has well and truly kicked in, got an early scan booked in for tomorrow.

Don't give up hope, I was over 7 weeks pregnant (by my last period) when I got my positive this time!

beehivettcbaby1 · 18/11/2021 11:52

@Eden1319

This is just the best news ever I am so happy for you. I would give you the biggest hug ever if I could. I pray you have a happy and healthy pregnancy and welcome a beautiful baby in 9 months. 2022 is your year. How bloody exciting!!!! Xxxx

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beehivettcbaby1 · 18/11/2021 11:54

@Lou98

So how late was you all together? I'm 8 days late and still BFN but im starting to really feel something going on...

Im feeling so so sick.

Im praying I get a BFP tomorrow or Saturday. I've got my CBD early detection ready for when I get a glimmer of a positive! Congratulations to you xxxxx

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Jad123 · 18/11/2021 12:15

@Eden1319 that's such great news!! Congratulations!!

@beehivettcbaby1 hopefully will be the same for us Star x

Penguin381 · 18/11/2021 13:01

Hi everyone,

Can I piggyback? Used to be a MN member a couple of years ago then stopped using and forgot my login 😂

This is month 1 of trying for DC2, period 6 days late and had nothing but negative tests, no faint lines at all. I wasn’t totally convinced it would happen so quickly anyway so sort of disregarded it until I found this thread and am now second guessing myself. I’ve got some symptoms (heavy abdomen, exhaustion, spots!) but put this down to either period symptoms or symptom spotting. In 20 years I’ve never had a cycle outside of 26-30 days and am currently on day 35. My last cycle was 26 days and for six months before that it was 28. No other reasons why it would be late either other than my body trying to play cruel tricks on me Hmm

Lou98 · 18/11/2021 13:44

@beehivettcbaby1 I was about 10/11 days late when I got my faint positive!

Fingers crossed for you! 🤞