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TTC TWW November 2021

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winkles23 · 06/11/2021 19:15

Hi 👋🏻 anyone else in the TWW?

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Tinkerbell098 · 17/11/2021 20:22

@Peonies94 doubt one hour is enough in early stages. Definitely try again in the morning. Looks good so far x

Peonies94 · 17/11/2021 20:28

Thanks ladies, I’ll try again in the morning!

Peonies94 · 17/11/2021 20:29

@mightbeyesmightbeno goodluck!

kizzy97 · 17/11/2021 20:49

@mightbeyesmightbeno - that's a nice line! Good luck for your next test! And @Peonies94 yeahh you'd definitely need a longer hold, good luck for in the morning keep us posted!

Thedesirerainbow · 17/11/2021 20:50

@Peonies94 can see something! Fingers crossed for you xx

@mightbeyesmightbeno gosh!! I definitely see them! Don't beat yourself that bad for testing, if it gives you a peace of mind why not..? Test again tomorrow if you feel like it, and my suggestion do it in the evening (even I know is hard!). My pee at night is stronger than morning. Don't quite understand yet why they keep saying mornings are best. There are huge amount of people out there on forums confirming that evening pees are better than mornings 🤷🏽‍♀️

mrsS21 · 17/11/2021 21:05

That is AMAZING NEWS!! @Peonies94 @mightbeyesmightbeno!!! Super happy for you both! Huge congratulations xxx

Peonies94 · 17/11/2021 21:18

@mrsS21 thank you! I’m still thinking they were dodgy tests, so we’ll see!

mightbeyesmightbeno · 18/11/2021 05:45

Just tested (5:30) as needed a wee and thought I'd class this as first morning wee. BFN.
Ladies - my harsh lesson for testing early and also fucking up yesterdays test and getting my fake positive.
Don't know whether to test again this afternoon after a hold incase @Thedesirerainbow like you said evening wee is stronger.
I did go for a wee in the night before this one and I didn't look at the clock so I guess there is a chance that was at like 2/3am and therefore not many hours ago. But I think it was more likely to have been around midnight so this one this morning should def have been a good hold.

Oh well! Now just to wait for AF :(

Peonies94 · 18/11/2021 06:07

@mightbeyesmightbeno same thing happened to me!!🤦🏻‍♀️

Peonies94 · 18/11/2021 06:18

@mightbeyesmightbeno I woke at 2am after like a 5 hour hold.. stark white! I’m so confused! I had 2 vvf but definitely there and coloured lines on the other 2 tests yesterday, but I just tested again after 3 hour hold.. another bfn!

Tinkerbell098 · 18/11/2021 07:24

@mightbeyesmightbeno @Peonies94 @kizzy97 @beckybabyx just did a test. BFN!!! I want to cry!!

Peonies94 · 18/11/2021 07:40

@Tinkerbell098 sorry to hear, I’m with you :( I don’t know why I do it to myself, this testing early business!

Tinkerbell098 · 18/11/2021 07:48

@Peonies94 @mightbeyesmightbeno I’m sorry you’re getting BFNs this morning. It’s so cruel.

Peonies94 · 18/11/2021 07:55

@Tinkerbell098 it’s the worst! Thank you though!

mrsS21 · 18/11/2021 08:02

I’m so sorry @Peonies94 @mightbeyesmightbeno hopefully later today after a good, long hold you’ll get another bfp. Both looked there on those yesterday.

I got all carried away and tested last night, hoping seeing all these bfp’s was a sign. Obviously bfn as I’m 9dpo today! So I told myself off and will wait until AF shows (or not). (Don’t want to see another negative if I can help it.

Wishing today brings positives later for you xx

mightbeyesmightbeno · 18/11/2021 08:04

Ah man @Tinkerbell098 ... I'm so sorry to hear that :( When actually is AF due? Is this still early for you?

@Peonies94 how very strange!

Maybe we're just all a group where morning urine means nothing?!

EvelynSalt · 18/11/2021 08:10

I'm sorry for those getting BFNs, it could be early days and I'm hoping for the best for you!

I'm 9dpo today and had some cramping last night and this morning the faintest brown/red tinge when wiping. I'm really hoping this is IB but who knows! No other symptoms so I'm clueless

Peonies94 · 18/11/2021 08:12

@mightbeyesmightbeno I’ve heard some people saying they get stronger positives in pm, but I do think this means I’m out! It’s strange I had the two positives though, makes me wonder how two? The other tests this am came from the same box! I hate these mind games

kizzy97 · 18/11/2021 08:14

I'm so sorry @Tinkerbell098 @Peonies94 @mightbeyesmightbeno but it dosen't mean you're out yet, remember it is still quite early people develop their hcg at different rates, there just might not be enough there yet xx

Tinkerbell098 · 18/11/2021 08:38

@kizzy97 @Peonies94 @mightbeyesmightbeno thanks everyone for the support. I'm 12 dpo today so thought it should be detectable by now. I used a FRER so it should have picked it up. I'm due my AF on Sunday/Monday (my cycles alternate between 29 and 30 days). I think I'm out this cycle. I don't have any pronounced symptoms anymore either, so my body has just given up. I'm taking a break next month and trying again in the new year.

Tinkerbell098 · 18/11/2021 08:39

@EvelynSalt Fingers crossed it's IB and all the best to you.. Hoping to see some good news in the next few days.

mightbeyesmightbeno · 18/11/2021 09:33

@Tinkerbell098 although I totally get where you're coming from, they do say that some tests don't show until the day before. So like others have said, not out until AF arrives, just hope it doesn't for you. But understand you wanting to take a break - this TTC just messes with your head so much.

kizzy97 · 18/11/2021 09:36

Just taken a test, BFN, used Asdas own and it wasn't FMU but oh well xx

Tinkerbell098 · 18/11/2021 09:43

@mightbeyesmightbeno thanks lovely. It's really messed me up. Month after month after trying, making so many lifestyle changes each month, seeing BFNs, it really takes a toll on you. To make matters worse, I had a dream this morning where I was at a scan and could see my baby on the US and it filled me with so much emotion. Woke up from this lovely dream to take a test, only to see a BFN! How cruel is that?

@kizzy97 I'm sorry you didn't see a BFP. Today's not our day. But as everyone says here, it's not over until AF arrives. Let's hope it's not strong enough to be detected yet. Lots of hugs xx

mightbeyesmightbeno · 18/11/2021 09:47

@Tinkerbell098 very cruel and my heart really goes out to you. Xx