Remember remember the month of November as it’s the month I’m getting pregnant 🎉✨

[Mummytobe93]

Hello everyone ✨🎉

I’m starting a November thread after being unsuccessful this month, got some spotting so probably cycle day 1 for me today, with fertile window being in the first week of November.

Please join me if you’re as hopeful about fresh cycle as I am!

My main goal is to DTD more, we definitely didn’t make the most of it in October …
I’m therefore going to be 100% honest with DH that we need to get down to business this cycle.

PS. Hope you like the title 🙈😂😂

Xxxx

Well I'm off to the December thread I'm afraid! 12DPO BFN and a bit of spotting, so AF on the way. Honestly had such different symptoms to the previous cycles, I really am going to have to stop symptom spotting and accept my body just does different things every month and it doesn't mean anything!

@Firsttimetrier sounds like ideal timing! Pleased you are feeling better ☺️

Will keep my fingers crossed for many more BFPs in this group and that I don't see many of you on the December thread (in the nicest way 😆) x

Morning ladies

I’m sorry for AF arriving for some of you, all the best for December ✨🎄

@Decaffe sounds promising indeed! Implementation can happen at 5-6DPO so I don’t think it’s too early 😃

@Firsttimetrier that’s great you got to go out and spend some quality time with DH

10DPO for me today, have got some on & off mild cramping (like something is ‘brewing’ down there but not yet the full blown AF cramps) but thank goodness my temps are still rising , I was afraid it was going to drop and I’ll get me period early… other than that & being hungry, I haven’t got many symptoms, my skin cleared out, no sore breast etc

Have a lovely weekend ladies 🌸✨

I’ve just had a positive OPK at 6 DPO which had a reading of 1.6, and at my peak if was 1.85! I wasn’t 100% sure that was my peak so I hope another isn’t on the way, I don’t think I’ve got lots of DTD in me again!!

Sorry I’m 5DPO I think, but so confused!

Unfortunately AF appeared this morning bang on clockwork so having my usual monthly cry, just really losing hope of it ever happening again after the miscarriage. It really is the most draining thing to go through, I don't know how to stay positive anymore never in a million years thought it would be this difficult when I was finally in a position to have a baby.
Hope you all get the better outcome

I'm so sorry @Brunette1989 it's truly a horrible thing to go through xx

@Brunette1989 so sorry, sending love

I’m so sorry sweet @Brunette1989 🌸💕sending lots of love! I apologies if you said it before but how long has it been since the miscarriage? Xxx

So sorry to everyone who has got BFN’s and AF has arrived. It’s so difficult when you want something so bad but you can’t do anything more to make it happen. Wishing you all the luck for your next cycles 💕

@Mummytobe93 I’m the same, 10dpo and not really feeling any symptoms. Did you say you were going to test again?

Good luck to those testing this weekend!! Really hoping to see some bfps!

So sorry to those who have had bfns or for whom af has arrived 😥 Wishing you lots of luck for December, and maybe I’ll see you over on @Squiff70’s lovely December thread before the month is out.

12dpo here. Driving myself a little crackers with symptom spotting, but holding fast on the no testing. Work is pretty nuts, and I suspect it will be next week too - so at least I have a distraction (albeit an exhausting and stressful one!).

Still shattered and pre-cold-like here. If I’m going to go all over analytic about everything that’s going on with my body (who am I kidding - I’m already there!) I’m conscious of a kind of dull ache in my lower belly quite a lot - though that could be af gearing up (due early next week). Apologies for the tmi but I’m still getting cm which maybe seems odd so close to af, and I’m not as, erm, “regular” in other bodily functions as usual. If you get my drift. Had a itchy nipple attack while trying to get to sleep last night (which obviously set my mind whirring and made sleep somewhat trickier!).

In reality, I’m trying not to read too much into things. I know I am hyper alert at the moment and probably picking up on things that I just wouldn’t normally notice. So none of this might be new! I’ve also only been off bc a couple of months, so it’s impossible to know what is normal for my body.

One week countdown is on now - either af will hit me next week or I’ll be reporting back test-wise this time next week.

@Brunette1989 sorry - our messages crossed! I’m so sorry to hear that af has arrived, and that you’re feeling the way you do. I’m also terribly sorry to hear about your miscarriage.

I can’t imagine how hard it must be to go through that, and then to add the challenges around ttc again on top. I think it’s really like important to allow yourself to feel the way you feel. I’m sure you’re still grieving to some extent. I am hopeful that you will get the baby you want so much soon, but hope that you have plenty of support and love around you to help you through in the meantime. We’re all always here if you want to vent it out!

@Coco9910 I was planning to test again tomorrow, at 11DPO although I’m tempted to wait till Tuesday when AF is due - not sure if I’m strong enough 😂
@Digby86 similar here when it comes to being irregular despite eating LOADS. And I’m quite a few reasons to be anxious lately which usually makes me go to the toilet even more often but not this time apparently..

@Mummytobe93 ohh good luck tomorrow if you decide to test! AF is due for me on Wednesday or Thursday I believe so I’m just going to wait it out until then and try not read in to everything my body does between now and then 😂

Another BFN this morning at 10DPO but not counting myself out yet. My skin is AWFUL, like don’t want to leave the house awful and I had constipation last night and I’ve had increased CM since O and some weird cramping so I’m holding onto those symptoms xx

BFN for me - on a home bargains cheapie haha. But not out yet I know. Now I know I can relax and enjoy my day drinking 😅
I may wait another 48hr now - I’ll see how I feel about it tomorrow.

Good luck everyone else and sorry those who have moved to the December train. Wishing magic Christmas baby dust xxx

Hello, can I join?

I fear I’m already out. AF due on Monday but I’ve had a bfn this morning on a boots early test.

I’d managed to secretly convince myself I was pregnant due to some very unusual cramping on 9 DPO that was perfectly timed for implantation.

I’m feeling much sadder than I thought I would. It’s only month 1 but it’s hard not to catastrophise.

Morning! Sorry to those of you with BFNs this morning. It's still early for you so I'm still hopeful.

I'm 7/8DPO today and have no desire to test yet. No doubt my resolve will weaken after the weekend!

Looking forward to seeing some of you over on the December thread x

Sorry for BFNs this morning @Brunette1989 I understand, it is very hard after MC to stay positive. It's also so annoying you spend x amount of years avoiding pregnancy, now that you are ready it doesn't just happen!

I’m out- witch is here 🩸🩸🩸

@Moancup welcome!
@Squiff70 your so much better than me! I’m tempted already 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

Thanks for the welcome. Spotting has begun so looks like I’m straight over to the December thread after all.

@Digby86 joining you on the one week countdown too!
@Moancup sorry to hear, goodluck on your journey, and I may be joining you in the December thread soon!

Finally 1dpo now so onto the long tww now

Ladies if I am not pregnant then god knows what my body/head are doing.. I’ve been sooo moody today and snappy and I’ve just cried about KFC 🤣

@beckybabyx 10DPO is still early. Hope you get your BFP!